Matrix, good word. I heard it explained as a bunch of switches. Perhaps analogous to the mixing board for an audio technician. Combinations of which switch is up and which down can be mind boggling.By the way, just to complicate the issue even further, the latest 'buzz' word in genetics circles is 'matrix'. Matrices are collections of genes that together influence a trait.
Nope. There are a whole lot of examples that disprove the "opposites attract" nonsense. What people find attractive varies widely from person to person, and is a combination of genetics and cultural programming. There is no hard and fast rule about what a particular person will find attractive. About the only thing that comes close is that most humans show a preference for regular, symmetrical features with no obvious defects or extreme exaggerations. But there are those who deviate from that general model as well.Not to derail or anything, but this is what I have always found puzzling about homosexuality. I think the essense of what the sexes find attractive about each other are their differences - that the things men find attractive in women are those attributes, both physical and psychological, which are dissimilar to their own attributes and vice versa.
Well, personally, I though The Matrix was pretty gay. I mean, seriously, Reeves has got to be one of the most obvious closet cases I've ever seen. It was clear even as far back as Bill and Ted's Excellent adventure.Hence you won't have a gay 'gene', but a gay 'matrix'. This matrix can then further be influenced by the environment, much like oncogenes are pre-cancer genes.
Not to derail or anything, but this is what I have always found puzzling about homosexuality. I think the essense of what the sexes find attractive about each other are their differences - that the things men find attractive in women are those attributes, both physical and psychological, which are dissimilar to their own attributes and vice versa.
Looked at in this way, homosexuality doesn't make any sense. I don't mean this as a criticism of homosexuality, but I think this is part of the reason some people can't wrap their minds the idea of homosexuality. It would seem, if one were homosexual one could plausibly find one's self sexually attractive. I remember a movie I saw where a teenage boy said something to the effect that if he had boobs he would play with them all day long. A homosexual person, in a sense, gets to live that fantasy one would think.
If sexual preferences are acted upon, homosexuality would seem to rule out reproduction, which is most certainly not adaptive in any obviously immediate way.
Passing off the existence of homosexuality as a meaningless and incidental variation is utterly ridiculous.
Nope. There are a whole lot of examples that disprove the "opposites attract" nonsense. What people find attractive varies widely from person to person, and is a combination of genetics and cultural programming. There is no hard and fast rule about what a particular person will find attractive. About the only thing that comes close is that most humans show a preference for regular, symmetrical features with no obvious defects or extreme exaggerations. But there are those who deviate from that general model as well.
And features that in one culture are generally considered highly desirable, are often considered distinctly unattractive in other cultures.
Well, personally, I though The Matrix was pretty gay. I mean, seriously, Reeves has got to be one of the most obvious closet cases I've ever seen. It was clear even as far back as Bill and Ted's Excellent adventure.
Apparently I am not making my self very clear. And, I have to say I never remotely expressed the notion that "the very thought makes me sick". You obviously are reading into what a wrote more than I actually wrote. I guess you are calling masterbation "having sex with you". Well that is a fairly ridiculous notion. Gratifying yourself is not having sex with yourself. I know a number of people who find themselves sexually repulsive and I am pretty sure all of those people masturbate. The fact that there are men in porno movies has nothing to do with the sexual appeal of men to other men. Those men are our proxies in those movies and that is the function they serve. Furthermore, men watch those movies to see beautiful women being penetrated by penises. It doesn't matter who the penis belongs to. Since the users of pornography can not penetrate those women with their own penises they must do it vicariously using their proxies.But only for sex. Apart from where they want to put their jiggly bits men would appear to prefer the company of other men and prefer the company of men with similar behavioural attributes. It is very rare for a man to have mainly women as friends.
You do find yourself sexually attractive - if you didn't you wouldn't be having sex with you!
Also an example of the fact that men do not "instinctively" find other mens sexual apparatus off-putting is that most pornography movies aimed at men also features men. If the men found that repulsive then they wouldn't be getting much satisfaction from the pornography and consider how popular pornography is.
When we drop our culturally acquired blinkers (such as the still very common "oh poofters the very thought makes me sick") we soon realise that homosexuality is very, very similar to heterosexuality.
Apparently I am not making my self very clear. And, I have to say I never remotely expressed the notion that "the very thought makes me sick". You obviously are reading into what a wrote more than I actually wrote.
I guess you are calling masterbation "having sex with you". Well that is a fairly ridiculous notion. Gratifying yourself is not having sex with yourself. I know a number of people who find themselves sexually repulsive and I am pretty sure all of those people masturbate.
The fact that there are men in porno movies has nothing to do with the sexual appeal of men to other men.
Those men are our proxies in those movies and that is the function they serve. Furthermore, men watch those movies to see beautiful women being penetrated by penises. It doesn't matter who the penis belongs to. Since the users of pornography can not penetrate those women with their own penises they must do it vicariously using their proxies.
Gayness has never been an issue for me and my best friend for many years was gay. Have been in the theatre for some time years ago, virtually every man I knew was gay. Some where dear friends and some were ass-hats, just like everyone else. That doesn't change the fact that there is something obviously different between homosexual sexual attraction and hetero sexual attraction.
Straight men are attracted to females because they are women and specifically because they are not men and not merely incidentally. Likewise, gay men are attracted to other men because they are male.
I've read it's artificial because in China like lots of countries males are better than females. I'll leave it to you to infer then why there are so many more males than females.
Sorry I wasn't trying to suggest for a moment that was your view - that was just an example for what i think are "culturally" created opinions and views not "biological" ones.
I wasn't meaning masturbation, I was meaning the fact that sex will normally involve your body (which I am assuming in our cases are male).
Yes it does - it means that men do not necessarily find other men sexually a turn off. I've known plenty of heterosexual male friends who have engaged in three in a bed - with there being just one female yet they do not consider that anything to do with homosexuality. Yet it is hard to hold the view that in those circumstances straight men aren't being intimate with other men. There is also (and I am trying to be careful because of the type of forum this is) the fact that males engage in other "sexual" acts with other men that again they do not consider homosexual in nature (the type of masturbatory "competitions" young adolescents are known to engage in).
All these activities actually show that the line between what we tend to call heterosexual and homosexual sexual preferences is not as black and white as we like to culturally portray it as being.
Yet the sight of those other male penises does not cause problems (for the majority of men) when they are thinking about sex. Again demonstrating that the difference between a homosexual act and a heterosexual act can be very hard to determine.
I agree there is a difference I just maintain it isn't as much of a difference as we tend to consider it is. (And we note the difference because of cultural reasons not biological ones.)
This isn't borne out when we look at other cultures where there may be what we consider homosexual activity between males that will go on to marry and act as we consider hetrosexual men "should" do. (And in what we know of historical cultures.) I think that all we can conclude is that humans like sex with pretty much any human they find attractive and that different cultures tend to express this in different ways.
I think this is a longwidned way of saying I doubt we will ever find a "homosexual" gene or matrix, what I suspect we will find is just genes that deal with human sexuality.