The answer to both parts is that it turns it into a guessing game, NOT a test of "I wonder who is calling me?". And while you may think that is a fair test (it is, in a pure sense), it is NOT what the original research was investigating.
It
is what the original research was investigating. Read the original Sheldrake survey paper. I'll quote from the abstract.
"Many people claim to have thought about a particular person who then calls them on the telephone."
http://www.sheldrake.org/Articles&Papers/papers/telepathy/pdf/telephone_telcalls.pdf
Reading the rest of the survey, I think its clear that people are refering to callers whom they already have aquaintance with, rather than, say, wrong number callers. I don't think anyone who took part in that survey, if asked "have you ever known when a wrong number caller is about to call you", would answer yes.
Furthermore, how would you propose to design an experiment with 100 unknown callers and a few known callers that would not involve a "guessing game"?
BTW, I'm not saying that using 100 unknown callers is invalid but you seem to think that using only 4 known callers
is somehow invalid. I can't see where you've explained this.
For example, should the claimant say: I can tell who is phoning me before I pick up and I'm right about 25% of the time, if the callers were random people out of the phone book then that's a highly significant result.
Correct, especially if the recipient can name the callers! However, such an experiment is stupendously unrealitic.
But if they made the same claim, but the callers were limited to four people they knew well, it's an insignificant "chance" result, and one that most people would get over a long series of tests by simply guessing.
In which case we would have an unsuccessful result. So where does "unwitting collusion" come into it?
And with a small sample to work from, it's not at all inconceivable to get whole strings of "correct" guesses in a row in tests.
Then work with a large sample size.
Again, what do you mean by "unwitting collusion" and where would it get into a well controlled experiment with known callers?