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Philosophy of science: Does every adult have a gender identity?

Does every adult have a gender identity?

  • Yes

    Votes: 1 8.3%
  • No

    Votes: 8 66.7%
  • Don't know

    Votes: 3 25.0%

  • Total voters
    12
  • Poll closed .
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If it really is as simple as "gender identity is what you believe you are, regardless of your genitalia", that's at least a solid jumping off point?
It's not a scholarly jumping off point. It's literally Tumblr ideology, aimed at children. Not even a "solid" jumping off point. We should probably ditch these lies to children, in favor of more serious thinking on the subject.

Also: "If".
 
It's not a scholarly jumping off point. It's literally Tumblr ideology, aimed at children. Not even a "solid" jumping off point. We should probably ditch these lies to children, in favor of more serious thinking on the subject.

Also: "If".
Out of curiosity: have you ever spoken to a real live transperson about their identity?

Eta: I ask because that was a kind of turning point in my thinking.
 
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"Everyone has a gender identity, even you" isn't a lay translation of a scholarly principle. It's an ideological claim.
Yes, and it is precisely the ideological claim at issue in this thread.

Elsewhere on the gender unicorn webpage, though, you will find an attempt to unpack their terminology.
 
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Out of curiosity: have you ever spoken to a real live transperson about their identity?
This thread is actually about whether non-transpersons all have a gender identity.

I conceded in the OP that every "real live transperson" does.
 
This thread is actually about whether non-transpersons all have a gender identity.

I conceded in the OP that every "real live transperson" does.
If they do, that's why it would be enlightening to respondents to listen to them, rather than form an opinion from chosen online wags.
 
No, because one side doesn't really want to engage with that, and the other side thinks fascism is the answer, while those in between are reluctant to step into the crossfire, lest fascism win.
Pretty much.

Like, I'm factually a woman and I don't feel like trying to restrain visible emotional reactions (which I gather is female coded) and I like to read fanfic porn as much as I like to watch real porn (which I have found to be a surprisingly strong sex-at-birth indicator) but in every other way my gender identity is 'meh' or perhaps 'participant'
 
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If they do, that's why it would be enlightening to respondents to listen to them, rather than form an opinion from chosen online wags.
I am skeptical of the assumption that what it is like to have a transgender identity is similar enough to what it is like to have a cisgender identity to allow insights from the former to carry over to the latter, but I'm open to hearing the argument.
 
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I am skeptical of the assumption that what it is like to have a transgender identity is similar enough to what it is like to have a cisgender identity to allow insights from the former to carry over to the latter, but I'm open to hearing the argument.
I don't know if it is or isn't. The one transwoman that I knew from going from a troubled teen boy to an (at least partially medically transitioned, never asked about bottom surgery) well adjusted transwoman made it pretty clear. Pre-transition, he said he felt like a woman till he looked down or in the mirror. Everything felt wrong and off. Post transition, she doesn't feel like anything but herself. No disorienting weirdness anymore. It's all in synch. The weirdness itself was the feeling of being trans, that things were wrong.

So I'm wondering if whether "the rest of us" have the same feel for identity, but we don't notice because everything lines up. Like, I never have the impulse to wear a padded bra or put on eyeshadow and a skirt. The "guy" identity is invisible because there's nothing contradicting it.
 
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So I'm wondering if whether "the rest of us" have the same feel for identity, but we don't notice because everything lines up. Like, I never have the impulse to wear a padded bra or put on eyeshadow and a skirt. The "guy" identity is invisible because there's nothing contradicting it.
Yes, of course. d4m10n even acknowledged that in specifying that this thread was only about the people who'd never had a need to consider that sex and gender might be separate concepts. It's one of those "if you don't count all the times I'm wrong, you can't say I'm wrong" arguments and deserves due consideration.
 
So I'm wondering if whether "the rest of us" have the same feel for identity, but we don't notice because everything lines up.
Whenever things don't "line up" the way I would like, I do not refer to the misalignment in terms of personal identity and I really doubt people would understand me if I did so. I'll provide three examples:
  1. Hair type (wanted black & curly)
  2. Belly fat (prefer less)
  3. Muscle mass (prefer more)
I could identify myself as lean, muscular, and topped with a dark goatish mane, but as I am quite evidently none of those things, no one would play along for the sake of my self-image. I could take affirmative steps to alter my body in those ways (I do work on #2 & #3 but not enough) and then people might start to see me as I would like to see myself, but that wouldn't be because of my self-image but rather because of the physical transformation.

ETA: This all makes me wonder whether there is something special about wanting to be seen as the opposite sex which makes it qualitatively different from wanting to be seen as fit, well-coiffed, green-eyed, well-hung, etc.
 
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If it really is as simple as "gender identity is what you believe you are, regardless of your genitalia", that's at least a solid jumping off point?
In that case wouldn't everyone have a gender identity. Even saying, "I don't have a gender identity" implies you have some sort of thoughts on the matter. Even if my gender identity is that I don't conform to traditional notions of gender or I don't have an internal conception of my gender. It all would seem to say somethign about your self perception.
 
Whenever things don't "line up" the way I would like, I do not refer to the misalignment in terms of personal identity and I really doubt people would understand me if I did so. I'll provide three examples:
  1. Hair type (wanted black & curly)
  2. Belly fat (prefer less)
  3. Muscle mass (prefer more)
I could identify myself as lean, muscular, and topped with a dark goatish mane, but as I am quite evidently none of those things, no one would play along for the sake of my self-image.
Ok, but I think people often do, especially if they like you. They'll say you look great, etc, even if they don't really think so, but know you do. Or simply know that you are working hard at really transforming yourself by taking practical steps and putting the work in, and want to encourage you in living your best life.

Oddly, I think most transpeople do the same thing. They really do put the work in to align their outward appearance with their self image.
I could take affirmative steps to alter my body in those ways (I do on #2 & #3 but not enough) and then people might start to see me as I would like to see myself, but that wouldn't be because of my self-image but rather because of the physical transformation.
Right. Kind of like a transwoman that starts dressing and acting differently while transitioning? Is their work on their presentation less meaningful than you basking in the praise of your SO or the boys at the gym who are admiring your improved physique?

But yeah, The Dolezal Conundrum. If millions of white people worldwide started feeling like they were black and vice versa, I'd probably take that belief more seriously, like it's not just a one off whack job, but a condition appearing all over in significant numbers (1/200 being a widely held one).
 
Kind of like a transwoman that starts dressing and acting differently while transitioning?
Kind of, except that identity doesn't play any role in my case, only unmet desire.
Is their work on their presentation less meaningful than you basking in the praise of your SO or the boys at the gym who are admiring your improved physique?
Does this question have any bearing whatsoever on the OP?
 
In that case wouldn't everyone have a gender identity
I think they do, especially if it means "do you think of yourself as a man or woman". Its just super subtle unless something is jarringly out of place. Like, your junk.
 
Kind of, except that identity doesn't play any role in my case, only unmet desire.

Does this question have any bearing whatsoever on the OP?
Sort of, as a response to your example.

I can't answer your OP question even with an IDK, until I understand what's being asked. In my terms, it's a yes. In another posters terms, it a no.
 
There are several definitions of gender identity available to choose from
Ya that's the problem. "For several vague and ambiguous definitions of variable X, what is the value of X?"

Eta: my catch-all answer would have to be Yes, even if you are not consciously cognizant of it.
 
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I am skeptical of the assumption that what it is like to have a transgender identity is similar enough to what it is like to have a cisgender identity to allow insights from the former to carry over to the latter, but I'm open to hearing the argument.
But this arises from you considering your private internal behaviour to be typical. Like any anecdote that isn't strong evidence, you are going to have to provide evidence for your belief.
 
This is also a tough one for me.

I'm male, and have always been, but I don't have a 'gender identity'.

I think, the problem for me is that:
my sex;​
the clothes I wear; and,​
the people I like to sleep with;​
are all examples of the least interesting things about me.

My skills, knowledge, tools I can use, instruments I can play, my ability to reason, the tasks I can perform, conversations I can have, the care and attention that I bring to everything and everyone in my life, are all examples of things that are much more interesting.

I struggle to understand people that see their sexuality as the important thing that they have to talk about all the time.
 
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