I am sincerely disappointed that you Rand Fan, an otherwise articulate and reasoned man, steadfastly fail to see how the highlighted bit is at odds with everything else
Can you explain it to me?
In communication, responsibility for comprehension rests with the sender (not the recipient) of a message
- I've been very careful to explain what it is I mean by patriotism.
- I've provided the dictionary definition and wiki page to support my position.
You have been told, in no uncertain terms, that your contorted abuse of language is hindering this discussion
? Why the browbeating? I'm sincere here and I resent your attempts to bully me into abandoning a position that I sincerely and honestly hold. I've not contorted any language. I've been open and frank as to my intent and my definitions.
I honestly don't understand why you are doing this. You don't seem to be making any attempt whatsoever to understand my POV.
Think, Randfan... who developed PATRIOT missiles, and why? Ask around and find out how many people think (yes, think) that the way your kids pledge allegiance to your flag is not only absurd but also scary
I'm at a complete loss as to this. Are you saying that there is only one possible conclusion that can be drawn from "patriot missiles"?
Patriotism is NOT a nice, warm emotional term
Perhaps in your culture and language. Not mine.
Its cold, vile and repugnant
Again, this is not my POV. I believe that like the fact that some love for a spouse is harmful and unhealthy some forms of patriotism are harmful and unhealthy.
I suggest that you think about what it is you are really proud of and find a word to describe it
I suggest you take your ego down a notch or two and try to understand my POV.
Six,
Reasonable people can disagree about any number of things. JREF exists not to browbeat individuals into thinking monolithically but to discuss ideas and concepts in an attempt to broaden horizons and perceptions.
If you refuse to accept that I could be sincere and reasonable then I see no reason to continue the discussion. You are being very rude and presumptuous.
I ask you to calm down and think clearly. You appear to be engaging in the very thing you are railing against and that is to let your emotions rule your thinking.
I hope you will do so. I'm not here to make enemies. However I won't be browbeaten into taking a dishonest position to please others. I would rather leave the forum all together.
I hope you will reconsider your views and we can remain friends.
Sincerely,
RandFan