Wow, the responses to their advice on relationships are just plain scary.
Attracting a specific person
"...My ex broke up with me saying that he needed some time to tie up some loose ends with his PhD and he also said he didn't know if we'd ever have a chance again because we're long distance. However, over the last month I have become incredibly grateful for this opportunity that he gave me. It has given me the time I didn't realize I needed so badly, and I know now that he had more insight into the upcoming months than I did at the time. It has provided me more growth and I understand just how wonderful our relationship actually is. I don't NEED him, I just want to share every moment I can with him. All I NEED is myself, and I LOVE myself. It's been so awesome to realize how much I truly do love myself..."
/ DO NOT WANT
// there's lots more where that came from