Stimpson J. Cat
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Christian,
Because it provides an incentive to behave yourself even when nobody is looking.
Who said I hated it? I already told you that I recognize that reward and punishment are effective ways of conditioning behavior. In fact, ultimately any motivating force fits into one of those categories.
Both. Why would that be inconsistent?
No, it is necessary to have a motivation to do so. That motivation could be to avoid the pain I feel when other people suffer. It could be to enjoy the pleasure I feel when other people are happy. It could be for more tangible rewards and punishments from external sources. They all work.
I disagree, for the reasons I already explained. Anything which serves as a motivation to behave in a way that is beneficial to society, is useful to society. If you value society, then morals are a good thing.
You can only speak for yourself in this regard. I know many Christians who have flat-out told me that they would keep their code of morality even if they found out that Christianity was bunk. I also know many ex-Christians who did just that. I am one of them.
Once again, you are over-simplifying a complex and long-term conditioning process. You didn't just decide one day to not get angry anymore, and suddenly not get angry any more. Over time, you simply got used to the irritation that angered you, until it no longer caused that emotional response anymore.
I have already explained why it is not useless.
Once again, that is long term psychological conditioning. Do you understand the difference between such conditioning, and direct cognitive decisions?
This is completely irrelevant. I have already acknowledged that I could potentially condition myself over time to be a sociopath. The question is, why would I want to?
I did not disregard it. I told you that it is irrelevant. Being angry is not a defense for the crime, but it is not a requirement for it either. If you commit the crime without being angry, you have still committed a crime. And if anything, you will be punished more severely for that, then if it was a crime of passion.
Actually, they do it for both. That is how psychological conditioning works. Your mental state tends to follow your behavior. If you actively strive to control your behavior, by not acting out when you get angry under certain conditions, one of the effects of this is that you tend to stop being angered by those conditions.
Once again, this is not what I am arguing against. What I am arguing against is the idea that if something happens right now that makes me angry, that I actually have to make a conscious decision to be angry or not. That is nonsense.
Why the sarcasm? I have never consciously decided to fall in love, but I have been in love before.
Are you talking about remorse, or guilt? I am not talking about guilt here. I thought I made it clear in my example that I no longer feel any guilt about knocking the banana out of my brother's hand. What I feel is remorse, that being the bad feeling that I involuntarily get when I remember the event.
If you are talking about guilt, then I agree. Guilt is pointless. Take responsibility for what you have done, Try to make up for it if you can, and move on.
I think maybe you should have been more clear in your original post, then. What I am talking about certainly seems to be what I think of as "remorse". What you are describing sounds more like guilt.
In any event, all of my points with respect to morality are still valid, because morality does not depend on things like guilt. All it requires is the feelings that are associated with our values.
Not at all. Society is one of the primary sources of my values. We learn our values from the people we associate with. Family, friends, classmates, neighbors, our community, and so on.
How is this relevant? The point is that a person who does not share the values of society is not only going to break the rules whenever he thinks he can get away with it, but he is also going to abuse those rules. This happens all the time, but it would happen a lot more in a society in which the rules did not reflect the values of most of the people. That is because of morality.
Hardly. Just look at the people arguing on each side of this issue. They are trying to either change the law to be consistent with their individual morality, or they are fighting to keep it the same, because it already is.
Without personal morality, it wouldn't even be an issue, since it is not significantly good or bad for society. In terms of the actual effects, it is a pretty minor issue. It is only because of its relevance to personal morality that it is such a big issue at all.
Once again, it has nothing to do with atheism. It is simply psychology. Psychology doesn't require, or forbid, a God.
Don't ask me. I am an American.
And I am going to say this clear to you. You are wrong.
In the world I live in, I associate with people all the time without the laws coming into it. I make agreements with people that, were they to go back on them, I would lose a lot of money. Yet I have no legal recourse if they decide to screw me, and we both know it. I help people I don't even know, with no expectation of reward, and no law compelling me to. And others have done the same for me.
Sure, we need laws. But the world would be a much uglier place if those laws were the only things keeping people from acting like selfish sociopaths.
Is that supposed to somehow refute my point? It is a complete non-sequitur.
Good, because that isn't what I said. What I said is the external motivations are not always necessary. My values are my motivation.
Sure, and the first time you meet an elderly person alone somewhere, you will beat him to death for the money in his wallet. After all, if you are certain you can get away with it, reward/punishment doesn't enter into it, right?
Who are you kidding? I know you wouldn't do that. You wouldn't do it, because like the vast majority of people, you would feel bad if you did. That is motivation enough.
I have explained what the gap is, and why it exists. All you have done is claim that for an atheist it does not. You have not explained why, or even how belief in God has anything at all to do with it.
Are you seriously suggesting that most of these people don't actually hold these values, and only behave as if they did, because of the law?
Values within the US have changed considerably over the last 200 years.
The act of trying to change society for the better is an act of living by your code of morality.
That doesn't make any sense. Why would somebody who doesn't value improving the system go to the effort of doing so? And if he does value improving the system, then by doing so, he is acting according to his values. That is morality!
Then by the very definitions you gave, that is not morality. You are declaring yourself to be amoral.
Why? If it serves as a motivation, then it is useful.
We are not talking about legal norms. We are talking about morality. Just because legal norms require enforcement to work, does not mean that morality does.
That is some of the most backwards reasoning I have ever seen. Anarchy is lawlessness. Without laws, you have anarchy. Morality alone is not enough to prevent anarchy. I have never suggested that morals could replace laws.
No, you clearly stated that you have no interest in changing laws for the better, not that you are unable to do so. If you had the ability to contribute to the efforts to find a cure for cancer, would you bother?
You already asserted that you have no interest in doing so.
I agree. But the alternative is to actively strive to change the laws to be consistent with your individual code of morality. Something which you have declared useless.
How so? I do many of the things I do because of my morals, and not because of external rewards or punishment.
Dr. Stupid
1a) I think that the emotion of remorse is actually a beneficial thing, from the point of view of society, and that since society is beneficial to individuals, this makes remorse, as well as several other aspects of human nature, useful and beneficial.
Why is it beneficial? I have explained why it is useless. You have only asserted that is something you can’t stop from feeling.
Because it provides an incentive to behave yourself even when nobody is looking.
If you go the route of saying the pain it causes directs to a future better choice, you are back to the reward/punishment area you so much hate.
Who said I hated it? I already told you that I recognize that reward and punishment are effective ways of conditioning behavior. In fact, ultimately any motivating force fits into one of those categories.
Again an inconsistency. Which is it? It’s beneficial or I can’t help the emotion?
Both. Why would that be inconsistent?
1b) I disagree with your premise that a person can simply choose to not feel remorse. He could be conditioned not to, but there is a term for such people. They are called psychopaths.
So you are saying it is necessary to feel pain for you in order for you to act subsequently in a good way?
No, it is necessary to have a motivation to do so. That motivation could be to avoid the pain I feel when other people suffer. It could be to enjoy the pleasure I feel when other people are happy. It could be for more tangible rewards and punishments from external sources. They all work.
2) I disagree with your conclusion that morality is unnecessary, and furthermore, I fail to see how anybody who values anything more than his own immediate benefit, could reach that conclusion.
Anyone that values more than his own immediate benefit can clearly see the uselessness of morality. The uselessness of having rules he can only enforce on himself and for which he has no accountability to others if he does not enforce them.
I disagree, for the reasons I already explained. Anything which serves as a motivation to behave in a way that is beneficial to society, is useful to society. If you value society, then morals are a good thing.
Note also that none of the above has anything to do with me being an atheist, either. In fact, most people I know would agree with those points, and most of the people I know are not atheists.
No so, morality is not upheld “just because”. It is because there is a reward/punishment/compliance system that exists.
You can only speak for yourself in this regard. I know many Christians who have flat-out told me that they would keep their code of morality even if they found out that Christianity was bunk. I also know many ex-Christians who did just that. I am one of them.
How? When I feel angry, I can certainly do exercises (such as deep breathing, meditation, etc...) in order to suppress, or even eliminate the feeling. But when the event that made me angry occurred, there was no decision on my part to be angry or not angry.
I can believe we are actually arguing about this. [sarcasm on] So I suppose you get angry for the same reasons you did when you were 5 or 10 [sarcasm off] Of course not, part of maturity is taking care of our emotions. I used to get angry in traffic jams. I don’t anymore. Not one bit. I decided it was no use to get angry in a situation I could do nothing about. So, maybe the first couple of times, I had to do some breathing exercises, but then I got used to not getting angry at traffic jams (it became a thing not to get angry at).
Once again, you are over-simplifying a complex and long-term conditioning process. You didn't just decide one day to not get angry anymore, and suddenly not get angry any more. Over time, you simply got used to the irritation that angered you, until it no longer caused that emotional response anymore.
Do you understand that remorse requires time and time and time. It’s just not feeling bad for a couple of seconds, it’s a deep sense of pain that leads to guilt. It is a persistent emotion. It is useless in an atheist context.
I have already explained why it is not useless.
If by that you mean the ability to not act based on your emotions, or even the ability to consciously alter your emotional state through mental exercises, then I agree. But your claims imply that you mean more than this. Do you claim to have the ability to actually decide, before you have the emotional response, but after the stimulus, what your emotional response will be?
If so, I am sorry, but I simply don't believe you.
I sorry you don’t but that just tells me you have no recollection of your childhood and definitely you have no children of your own.
Man, the thing kids get angry about. When you grow up, you learn what type of stimulus do not warrant getting angry about so in effect, I know what emotional response I will have before or after the stimulus.
Once again, that is long term psychological conditioning. Do you understand the difference between such conditioning, and direct cognitive decisions?
My daughter gets angry because she has to wait her turn. I don’t need scientific books to tell me that when she grow up she will not get angry at that at all. (well, hopefully)
This is completely irrelevant. I have already acknowledged that I could potentially condition myself over time to be a sociopath. The question is, why would I want to?
That is not the foundation of it at all. For one thing, this approach to dealing with crimes makes a clear distinction between emotional states and thought processes.
Did you read the link. You have absolutely disregarded it. You absolutely disregard that “I was angry” is not a defense for a crime. And “I was angry” is the first step to the crime.
I did not disregard it. I told you that it is irrelevant. Being angry is not a defense for the crime, but it is not a requirement for it either. If you commit the crime without being angry, you have still committed a crime. And if anything, you will be punished more severely for that, then if it was a crime of passion.
[Changing subject] People go to anger management classes not to learn how to not act on their anger but to learn how not to get angry for every little thing.
Actually, they do it for both. That is how psychological conditioning works. Your mental state tends to follow your behavior. If you actively strive to control your behavior, by not acting out when you get angry under certain conditions, one of the effects of this is that you tend to stop being angered by those conditions.
Once again, this is not what I am arguing against. What I am arguing against is the idea that if something happens right now that makes me angry, that I actually have to make a conscious decision to be angry or not. That is nonsense.
Secondly, it in no way assumes that emotions are voluntary. On the contrary, one aspect of the way this approach works, is that it is understood that emotional responses are not voluntary. The entire framework is based on psychology, and the simple fact is that what you are claiming runs completely counter to current psychological knowledge.
No, your notion is counter to all common fundamental psychological knowledge. [sarcasm on] For you falling in love is an involuntary thing, maybe like magic[sarcasm off]
Why the sarcasm? I have never consciously decided to fall in love, but I have been in love before.
Man, the ability of philosophers to go on and on about nothing truly amazes me. That entire essay seems to amount to nothing more than drawing a distinction between "feelings" (the involuntary response), and "emotions" (the cognitive interpretation of the feeling). In any event, it is completely irrelevant to what we are discussing, since we are talking about the feeling of remorse.
Remorse is not like pain. Do you understand the definition of remorse, it is not the equivalent of feeling bad for a couple of seconds. It is exactly a cognitive interpretation of deep feelings. To feel guilty requires cognition. How else can you arrive at guilt.
Are you talking about remorse, or guilt? I am not talking about guilt here. I thought I made it clear in my example that I no longer feel any guilt about knocking the banana out of my brother's hand. What I feel is remorse, that being the bad feeling that I involuntarily get when I remember the event.
If you are talking about guilt, then I agree. Guilt is pointless. Take responsibility for what you have done, Try to make up for it if you can, and move on.
Consider the example I gave from my own past. I no longer possess the "emotion" of remorse over that event, in the context presented in Dr. Solomon's essay. Only the feeling. And the fact remains that even if I were to adopt a completely utilitarian philosophy, whereby I attach absolutely no value to the happiness or pain of others, I am still going to "feel" a certain way when I see other people suffer.
What you are talking about is not remorse and by the way, it absolutely ridiculous that you still feel bad about a banana, get over it. [bad humor on] you are a grown scientists for goodness sake[bad humor off]
I think maybe you should have been more clear in your original post, then. What I am talking about certainly seems to be what I think of as "remorse". What you are describing sounds more like guilt.
In any event, all of my points with respect to morality are still valid, because morality does not depend on things like guilt. All it requires is the feelings that are associated with our values.
If my own values were drastically different than those of society, and I had no means to try to make society better (from my point of view), then I would definitely have a problem. Fortunately, I do not live in such a society.
We will never know? [skepticism on] It is very convenient that you hold mostly the same values that the society you live in has[skepticism off]
Not at all. Society is one of the primary sources of my values. We learn our values from the people we associate with. Family, friends, classmates, neighbors, our community, and so on.
This does not follow. Making it into a legal code is not sufficient. For one thing, in a free society, people will not tolerate laws that they find morally unacceptable. And freedom is one of my values. For another thing, even if I could live with a totalitarian society where everybody is forced by law to live the way I think they should, whether they like it or not, that isn't going to stop people from doing bad things when they think they can get away with it.
Why totalitarian? Most countries are ruled by legal norms. And all must obey them, whether they like it or not. What a society holds as valuable is independent of individual’s values. It is mostly dependent on the values of the majority (and even that is not certain). And if even with legal norms people break them, imagine the moral ones.
How is this relevant? The point is that a person who does not share the values of society is not only going to break the rules whenever he thinks he can get away with it, but he is also going to abuse those rules. This happens all the time, but it would happen a lot more in a society in which the rules did not reflect the values of most of the people. That is because of morality.
In the US abortion is legal, in my country it is not. Maybe in a couple of year it wont be legal in the US again. Individual morality is irrelevant.
Hardly. Just look at the people arguing on each side of this issue. They are trying to either change the law to be consistent with their individual morality, or they are fighting to keep it the same, because it already is.
Without personal morality, it wouldn't even be an issue, since it is not significantly good or bad for society. In terms of the actual effects, it is a pretty minor issue. It is only because of its relevance to personal morality that it is such a big issue at all.
Furthermore, there historical evidence to prove you wrong. Social conditioning, meaning the instilling of values and morals through social interaction, rather than through laws and enforcement, works. It has worked in the US and Western Europe for several centuries now.
No, sir it does not work. If I’m an atheist, there is no way to explain that it works. There has been no other time in the history of the world where more laws are passed and enforced.
Once again, it has nothing to do with atheism. It is simply psychology. Psychology doesn't require, or forbid, a God.
Man, you live in Europe, it is one of the areas more legislated in the world. They even have laws of to what size your dog house has to be. Why is that?
Don't ask me. I am an American.
Are you seriously suggesting that because some members of society are immoral, this somehow proves that morals are useless? That because there are some people who will behave in a selfish and antisocial manner if they are not forced to behave, that the only way to get people to behave is through threats of punishment?
I going to say this clear to you. There is no other system that works but the reward/punishment/compliance one.
And I am going to say this clear to you. You are wrong.
Apparently you do not have a very high opinion of your fellow human beings. And I thought I was cynical.
What world do you live in? Stimpson, every single action you take that involves other people requires external control, a norm system. Every single one. Hey, some guys wanted to get out of the matrimony contract, they decided not to get married, so the law created the “common law marriage” rule.
In the world I live in, I associate with people all the time without the laws coming into it. I make agreements with people that, were they to go back on them, I would lose a lot of money. Yet I have no legal recourse if they decide to screw me, and we both know it. I help people I don't even know, with no expectation of reward, and no law compelling me to. And others have done the same for me.
Sure, we need laws. But the world would be a much uglier place if those laws were the only things keeping people from acting like selfish sociopaths.
I was once a Christian. My values and morals didn't change much when I quit being a Christian. I didn't behave in a certain way out of fear of Hell or hope for Heaven then, and I don't now. my whole family is Catholic, and yet none of them have ever indicated that morality is simply about punishment and reward. on the contrary, I am sure that they would all be horrified by the way you are characterizing theistic morality.
Why horrified? If you are not a Catholic you go to hell, better be Catholic. What is the principal reason to be Catholic?
Is that supposed to somehow refute my point? It is a complete non-sequitur.
If this is truly all there is to your morals, then you are a sociopath, being held in control only through the most severe of possible threats.
Most severe of threats? Not necessary it can a little threat and it can be a little reward. I always make a cost/benefit analysis.
I’m sorry if I don’t take your word for it that absolutely nothing good motivates to do good. And that absolutely nothing bad motivates you not to do bad.
Good, because that isn't what I said. What I said is the external motivations are not always necessary. My values are my motivation.
For the sake of society, I sincerely hope that you never lose your faith, and that nobody ever convinces you that God wants you to hurt people.
This simply does not follow. If God does not exist, I would still adhere to the reward/punishment/compliance system, even more so than before, specially since the only rewards I’m getting are here on earth. And if all the punishments are also here on earth, I would also want to minimize those.
Sure, and the first time you meet an elderly person alone somewhere, you will beat him to death for the money in his wallet. After all, if you are certain you can get away with it, reward/punishment doesn't enter into it, right?
Who are you kidding? I know you wouldn't do that. You wouldn't do it, because like the vast majority of people, you would feel bad if you did. That is motivation enough.
Wrong. Society instills values through social and legal norms. It is from these values that individuals establish a code of morality. In that sense, yes, morals are not imposed by society. Only rules are. But from these values, which a person actually adopts as his own (as oppose to simply respecting through force of law), morality arises. And morality is most definitely not ineffective in this regard. Indeed, it is capable of filling an important gap that mere legislation cannot.
No, it is the other way around. But that is irrelevant, because, as I said, it serves no purpose. What gap? For atheists there isn’t a gap or distinction.
I have explained what the gap is, and why it exists. All you have done is claim that for an atheist it does not. You have not explained why, or even how belief in God has anything at all to do with it.
No, the US also uses the third one. It uses amorality. One of the reasons that the US (and also Canada, Western Europe, and secular democratic republics in general) work, is because most of the people in these societies actually value the things that the society values, and agree with most of the laws. Most people in the free world really believe in things like freedom, liberty, justice, and tolerance. These values have been instilled in them by society, but they continue as the moral codes of the individuals.
And the only reason these values are upheld is because they have been instituted as social or legal norms. This is the whole point I’m making. If they where not constitutional and downward, (secondary laws) that people held these values would be irrelevant.
Are you seriously suggesting that most of these people don't actually hold these values, and only behave as if they did, because of the law?
And don’t give me the story that these have evolved. The US constitution is the oldest (arguably) of these types of documents and the modifications to its values has been almost non-existent.
Values within the US have changed considerably over the last 200 years.
Without morals, nothing is going to change. Nobody is going to go to the effort to change the laws if they don't think anything is wrong with them. The moral norms are not irrelevant. They are a necessary and integral part of the system.
Before I can have social and legal norms, they first have to be thought up. Yes, of course, but morality is not that. Morality is a code to live by, and I repeat, it is useless to live by a code where there is no reward/punishment/compliance structure.
The act of trying to change society for the better is an act of living by your code of morality.
Absolutely. But you know what? There are fewer than there were 10 years ago. And there will be fewer still 10 years from now. With individuals with a strong sense of morality, this would not happen.
You are just proving my point. And it has nothing to do with a strong sense of morality. That they act to change the system says absolutely nothing about if they follow them. People can perfectly know how things should be without following the rules they set.
People can be immoral and still champion for a better system. I much rather trust that you will do the right thing because you are compelled to, than risk you do the right things just because you feel like it.
That doesn't make any sense. Why would somebody who doesn't value improving the system go to the effort of doing so? And if he does value improving the system, then by doing so, he is acting according to his values. That is morality!
The same is true for you, and for everybody else. That is the nature of morality. Even if the moral code you follow was handed down by God, you still follow it because you feel like it.
No, that is not correct, I follow it because of he reward/punishment/compliance system.
Then by the very definitions you gave, that is not morality. You are declaring yourself to be amoral.
Then what does this have to do with atheists? It sounds like you are just saying that morality is nonsense, and that all that matters is that God is going to spank us if we don't do what he says.
Morality is nonsense if you are not accountable for your morality.
Why? If it serves as a motivation, then it is useful.
Why is this not obvious to you? Legal norms would be a joke if there was no way to enforce them or if people would not have to face the legal system.
We are not talking about legal norms. We are talking about morality. Just because legal norms require enforcement to work, does not mean that morality does.
That is the definition of anarchy, that everyone have his or her own rules and that no one can enforce them on others. By definition, morality is anarchical.
That is some of the most backwards reasoning I have ever seen. Anarchy is lawlessness. Without laws, you have anarchy. Morality alone is not enough to prevent anarchy. I have never suggested that morals could replace laws.
I must say that I find it rather disturbing that your beliefs absolve you of any responsibility for trying to make society a better place. People ask why I say religion is harmful, this is a perfect example. You are only concerned with the afterlife, and a perfectly content to leave sorting out affairs here on Earth to God. If people are tortured and murdered, that's not your problem. It's God's will, right?
As someone else said, you are reading what you want to read. Even if I wanted to find a cure for cancer, I’m not in a position to accomplish that. I’m not a scientist and never will be. God clearly did not intend for me to find the cure for HIV. And millions of people will not have chance to change laws, for multiple reasons.
No, you clearly stated that you have no interest in changing laws for the better, not that you are unable to do so. If you had the ability to contribute to the efforts to find a cure for cancer, would you bother?
All I can say is that I am very glad that most modern Christians don't share your views on these issues. Unfortunately, there are still many in the US who do, and as such are perfectly willing to ignore the way we are destroying the environment,
Not addressing the ad hom, the only way to protect the environment is by enacting laws to protect it.
You already asserted that you have no interest in doing so.
and to ignore the injustices occurring throughout the World, as long as we get the word of Jesus to everybody, so that they can go to heaven after they starve to death, or get murdered by tyrants and terrorists.
This is just silly.
I agree. But the alternative is to actively strive to change the laws to be consistent with your individual code of morality. Something which you have declared useless.
I am a Humanist. I don't care about God. If he does exist, he can take care of himself. I care about people. You may consider that value to be "irrational", but it is not. Society takes care of me, and I take care of it. That is not a very difficult concept to understand.
Not difficult to understand at all. You are being totally inconsistent. You think your morality is not based on the reward/punishment/compliance when it is. But the sweet deal is that you never have to enforce that system on you.
How so? I do many of the things I do because of my morals, and not because of external rewards or punishment.
Dr. Stupid