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On Remorse

ShottleBop wrote:
"Necessary" to basic physical survival? "Necessary" for me to live my life in the way that I think it is proper for a human being to live? "Necessary" for me to be happy? Why is "necessary" the defining factor? "Not necessary" does not mean "useless" or "undesirable." Hillel's rule (that which is hateful to you, do not do unto others), or some variation of the Golden Rule, is common to many traditions, not all of which rely on revelation for their source. I don't know attempting to adhere to such a rule is "necessary" to life, but it's good advice, nevertheless.

Whatever your definition of necessary is will be fine. If you answer that you find there are no necessary moral norms to follow, you have accepted my point:

Morality is unnecessary for atheists.

I might still feel remorse at having taken another human's life. I might use that fact, rationally, to try to ease my sense of remorse, but it would not change the fact that, absent that data, I chose to kill another human.

As I said, instead of jumping up and down with joy that you have rid the world of a monster, you prefer to feel remorse.

There is something else you could feel remorse for too. When meeting the parents of the murdered childrend, you could feel remorse for feeling remorse.

In your opinion, Ted Bundy's victim's families should feel remorse for Bundy's final outcome.

When the familie of people on death row plead to the judge not the pardon the offender, do you think they are being immoral? Was the US immoral in trying to kill Saddam Hussein.

And, while remorse is not a reflex, it is not the product of purely rational analysis, either. We do much of our mental processing at a subconscious level.

But it is mainly a rational analysis and with it, you can change your way of thinking.

Many argue that we have a need to believe in the supernatural, in god. But the argument against it, is that we can rise above those irrational beliefs with critical thinking.

There are. So far, however, you have said nothing that requires legal training to understand.

So, can you explain to me then why it is so hard to get the point across about the characteristics of norm systems? And why morality is different from social norms?

So, anybody in Nazi Germany or one of its occupied territories who harbored Jews in violation of German law was acting immorally?

No, Nazi Germany was acting against a higher human law. It is possible that lower laws violate higher ones. When they violate the highest one of the State, it is called unconstitutional. When they violate the highest of them all, it is called violation of universally accepte human rights.

Christian must uphold those first, and down the pyramid.

jimlintott wrote:
What I have noticed is that bigots often use the bible as a basis for their bigotry.

You know what's funny. You accuse me of insulting you because I am attacking your views, yet you come right out and call me a bigot. :confused:

Please note that the only person who has mentioned a religious book is you.
 
As I said, instead of jumping up and down with joy that you have rid the world of a monster, you prefer to feel remorse.

There is something else you could feel remorse for too. When meeting the parents of the murdered childrend, you could feel remorse for feeling remorse.

In your opinion, Ted Bundy's victim's families should feel remorse for Bundy's final outcome.

When the familie of people on death row plead to the judge not the pardon the offender, do you think they are being immoral? Was the US immoral in trying to kill Saddam Hussein.

In your scenario, I shot the person FIRST, then found out he was a mass murderer. From my point of view, when I chose to shoot him, I was shooting an innocent person. In that context, your follow-up questions are non-sequitors.

. . . and "prefer" is not always appropriate to emotions. In your posts, you sometimes confuse "irrational beliefs" with "irrational emotions." They are not equivalent.
 
TamiO wrote:
I saw that, too. That puzzled me. If I kill anyone I will feel bad regardless of what they had done. The fact that his serial killing would now be over, it would only be a silver lining on a cloud.

Christian responded
Can you see why this line of reasoning is so illogical. Listen to your response. You would rather kling to your belief that remorse is good (and you must evaluate the selfishness of this action) than to stop a serial killer from continuing to kill other babies (even if only the possibility that he continue).

You see, instead of feeling joy that you have rid the world of a monster, you rather feel a deep sense of guilt. Guilt about what? Ridding the world of a baby killer.

Let me ask you, would the prospect of remorse prevent you from killing Osama Binladen if the only chance of catching him was yours.

I didn't say I would rather cling to my belief that remorse is good; I said if I ever killed anyone I would feel bad. I could never kill anyone unless I was forced to defend myself or someone else. It would be a last resort if restraining the attacker were not possible.

Even if I knew beforehand that the person was a serial baby killer.
In the event that I did kill someone in self defense or accidentally I would feel bad. I would be glad that at least he wasn't going to kill any more babies, but I would not feel joy.

To me, feeling joy from killing someone and feeling justified with no remorse on top of it is the definition of evil.

If you were to kill a man for being a serial baby killer, you would be killing someone's child.

Even if the person was Osama bin Laden. I just don't have it in me.

WWJD?
 
(ShottleBop: ) So, anybody in Nazi Germany or one of its occupied territories who harbored Jews in violation of German law was acting immorally?

(Christian: ) No, Nazi Germany was acting against a higher human law. It is possible that lower laws violate higher ones. When they violate the highest one of the State, it is called unconstitutional. When they violate the highest of them all, it is called violation of universally accepte human rights.

Christian must uphold those first, and down the pyramid.

You're playing games, Christian. Assume, for purposes of this discussion, that all of the countries of the world (or any higher body of human agents you care to choose) had unanimously adopted a convention to the effect that Jews were subhuman beings, not entitled to the protections accorded to everyone else, required Jews to report to concentration camps, and declared it a violation of international law to provide succor to any Jew.

Now, if someone harbored a Jew, would that person be acting immorally, in your estimation?
 
One of the earliest memories I have:

I was a small child, and my younger brother was a toddler. He was eating a banana, and enjoying it immensely. He was also annoying the crap out of me, as toddlers tend to do. He kept coming over and sticking the banana in my face. He was trying to share it with me, but I was just irritated. I knocked the banana out of his hand, and he started crying.

I remember feeling very bad about that. There was no fear of being punished. I just felt bad that I had made him feel bad.

The idea that we need religion for these feelings is ludicrous. We have these feelings because they are a part of human nature. There is nothing rational about it. It is an emotional response, not a rational one. In fact, when I remember that even, I still feel bad about it, even though intellectually I know that it was completely irrelevant.

Why do you feel remorse, Christian? Surely you would not claim that your sense of remorse is nothing more than dread that you will be punished?

Religion is not the source of values, or of morality. Human nature is. Religions just use these values (and their manipulation) as very effective tools for controlling and conditioning people.

Dr. Stupid
 
It seems that some of the confusion here is about the nature of remorse, or the choice to feel it (?). It may help to look at some of the research on emotions. The psychologists who research emotion tend to look at emotions as both:

a social signal (we read each other's emotions and that tells us how to act toward them; likewise, we express emotions to tell others how to act toward us. None of this need be conscious; as social animals, these cues are important enough to be interpreted non-consciously--even Darwin wrote about emotional expression in other animals); and

a complex internal attitude, typically divided into the emotional or affective component (generally viewed as an autonomic nervous system response, reflexive in nature), a behavioral component (the actions we engage in, whether approach, escape, avoidance; there is some debate as to whether the social signaling above is part of this or separate) and a cognitive component (our interpretation of our arousal, based on the situation, on our belief systems and on our past experience).

It seems that Xian is basing his argument on only the cognitive component of the internal aspect of emotion, and only on the belief system portion of that. Now, of course, this may not be the way we want to look at emotion, but this is the way that a group of people who have dedicated their careers to looking at it have ended up organizing the subject, so we could do worse.
 
Social norms and legal norms do not fully occupy the field. Every day we make choices that are neither legal nor illegal, nor governed by social norms that are unanimously shared. Suppose a store clerk makes a mistake and gives me too much change, which I realize after leaving the store. If I keep the money, no legal strictures are broken; no one will ostracize me. Do I go back and return the extra change? That decision I make on the basis of my own moral code. The choice I make will affect my view of myself. If I keep the money, and I feel guilt (or remorse), that feeling will remind me that I have done something I consider immoral, and, I would hope, result in my changing that decision, and returning the money. In a case in which restititution is not feasible, remorse with respect to a prior "wrong" choice may assist me in making the right decision the next time.
 
tamiO wrote:
I didn't say I would rather cling to my belief that remorse is good; I said if I ever killed anyone I would feel bad. I could never kill anyone unless I was forced to defend myself or someone else. It would be a last resort if restraining the attacker were not possible.

Ok.

Even if I knew beforehand that the person was a serial baby killer.
In the event that I did kill someone in self defense or accidentally I would feel bad. I would be glad that at least he wasn't going to kill any more babies, but I would not feel joy.


Ok.

To me, feeling joy from killing someone and feeling justified with no remorse on top of it is the definition of evil.

So, to you all the jews that felt joy for the death of Hitler are evil?

To you a soldier feeling joy of ridding the World of Osama is evil?

If you were to kill a man for being a serial baby killer, you would be killing someone's child.

Even if the person was Osama bin Laden. I just don't have it in me.


Many would consider your position selfish and immoral. Having the opportunity to contribute the good of this world and not acting because it will make you feel bad would seem immoral to many.

But, I find it perflectly understandable. Your morality is not the of others and what is immoral to many may be very moral to you. At the end doing or not doing it would "probably" not affect you (remember the Spiderman movie and the thief/murderer).

With your response, moral grounds for these actions becomes irrelevant, unnecessary.

You're playing games, Christian. Assume, for purposes of this discussion, that all of the countries of the world (or any higher body of human agents you care to choose) had unanimously adopted a convention to the effect that Jews were subhuman beings, not entitled to the protections accorded to everyone else, required Jews to report to concentration camps, and declared it a violation of international law to provide succor to any Jew.

Now, if someone harbored a Jew, would that person be acting immorally, in your estimation?


Please consider my answer carefully. In those conditions, your morality would be completely irrelevant. It would not matter what you thought was right. You would have to comply, if you didn't you would have to suffer the consequences.

In my case, my morality would be of great use because God's law tells me the person harboring a Jew, will have his reward in heaven.

In your case, there is absolutely no reward associated with your actions. And if you tell me, you want to do it out of conviction without any reward and the risk of punishment, I would say that that is an irrational position. Why would you want to risk all that you have (the only thing you have) to save a problem that is not caused by you. If you want argue that you would, then I would challenge that response by stating that you do not need that extreme scenario to prove that you would.

There are plenty oppressed people in the world, plenty of starving people in the world were you could sacrifice your life to save some from the injustices of the world. Cuba is a perfect place to start.


If I were an atheist, I wouldn't do it. It would be irrational.

Stimpson wrote:
I was a small child, and my younger brother was a toddler. He was eating a banana, and enjoying it immensely. He was also annoying the crap out of me, as toddlers tend to do. He kept coming over and sticking the banana in my face. He was trying to share it with me, but I was just irritated. I knocked the banana out of his hand, and he started crying.

I remember feeling very bad about that. There was no fear of being punished. I just felt bad that I had made him feel bad.


Hey, I'm glad you showed up, I always consider our exchanges interesting. Got the story.

The idea that we need religion for these feelings is ludicrous. We have these feelings because they are a part of human nature. There is nothing rational about it. It is an emotional response, not a rational one. In fact, when I remember that even, I still feel bad about it, even though intellectually I know that it was completely irrelevant.

Believing in deities is part of human nature too. There is nothing rational about it. It is an emotional response mainly. But you have decided it is useless and irrational. So is remorse. If there is no justification for feeling guilty or bad about it, then you could let it go.

And suppose you accept that it is irrational but you decide it's ok, that you want to keep that irrational belief (the belief that remorse is ok to have) then you know you are being inconsistent.

Why do you feel remorse, Christian? Surely you would not claim that your sense of remorse is nothing more than dread that you will be punished?

Go back a little on the thread and you will see my answer.

Religion is not the source of values, or of morality.

Yes, this is the atheist position.

Human nature is.

This is also the atheist position. Yes, everything humans create comes from humans (there is no other conclusion for an atheist). Music, art, legal norms, morality, myths. And some are necessary and some are not. Morality is not necessary if your premises are true.

Religions just use these values (and their manipulation) as very effective tools for controlling and conditioning people.

Yes, intuitively you understand the morality is different for people who believe in God.

Mercutio wrote:
It seems that Xian is basing his argument on only the cognitive component of the internal aspect of emotion, and only on the belief system portion of that. Now, of course, this may not be the way we want to look at emotion, but this is the way that a group of people who have dedicated their careers to looking at it have ended up organizing the subject, so we could do worse.

You are correct about me focusing on the cognitive component. If you look at your analysis, it is very much possible to that believing in God falls under the same explanations.

There is a need for humans to believe there is something more besides ourselves and there is an emotional need for us to believe that it won't be over after we die.

How did you get rid of it when 99.9% of the world currently ( and 99.9999999% of humans have believe this throughtout history)

When I first started posting, I asserted that becoming a atheist was not a rational decision but an emotional one. You can imagine the response I got.

It is interesting to me (very much so) how on this topic, posters show an inconsistency in their views about rationality and logic.

As you can understand, the answer "it's human nature" is lacking, precisely because there are other "human nature" beliefs that have been stripped away.

Social norms and legal norms do not fully occupy the field. Every day we make choices that are neither legal nor illegal, nor governed by social norms that are unanimously shared. Suppose a store clerk makes a mistake and gives me too much change, which I realize after leaving the store. If I keep the money, no legal strictures are broken; no one will ostracize me. Do I go back and return the extra change? That decision I make on the basis of my own moral code. The choice I make will affect my view of myself. If I keep the money, and I feel guilt (or remorse), that feeling will remind me that I have done something I consider immoral, and, I would hope, result in my changing that decision, and returning the money. In a case in which restititution is not feasible, remorse with respect to a prior "wrong" choice may assist me in making the right decision the next time.

Ok, good you have found a moral norm that is excellent to work with.

The norm is "I will return what is not mine, even though there is no way anybody noticed I took it, accidentally or otherwise, and there is no way anybody will ever find out I took it."

As you can see, you have absolutely no motivation for returning the money. If you choose to return the money, it is no different than if you did not.

How so, well, returning the money will not help the clerk not give extra change in the future. What will help him is to set a system that does not allow him to give extra change.

That system is way much better than relying on your morality. This time he was lucky to encounter you, next time he might not.

And, about the guy that does not return the money. He is not in a worse position than you are. Actually, from a material standpoint, he is in a better position. There are no negative consequences, nothing will affect him in the future for it, and he is not prone to make the mistake again because he did not make it.

You can judge him and say, he is a dishonest person. So what. Your or my opinion would have absolutely no bearing on him. And remember, in reality, you can't pass judgement on him because you would never know.

If you decide the rule is good for you just because, it is only a matter of preference, like choosing chocolate over vanilla. As far as you are concerned, that is the only impact it has.
 
Christian,

The idea that we need religion for these feelings is ludicrous. We have these feelings because they are a part of human nature. There is nothing rational about it. It is an emotional response, not a rational one. In fact, when I remember that even, I still feel bad about it, even though intellectually I know that it was completely irrelevant.

Believing in deities is part of human nature too. There is nothing rational about it. It is an emotional response mainly.

Not exactly. There are natural emotional, instinctive, and intuitive, reasons people have for believing in deities, but the belief that those deities actually exist is a conclusion drawn from those reasons, and an irrational one.

But you have decided it is useless and irrational. So is remorse. If there is no justification for feeling guilty or bad about it, then you could let it go.

No, what would be a valid analogy would be for me to try to draw some sort of objective conclusions from those feelings. I do not. In effect, I do let it go, which is to say that I acknowledge that the emotional response brought on by that memory is just an emotional response, and not an indication that there is something wrong that I need to correct.

And suppose you accept that it is irrational but you decide it's ok, that you want to keep that irrational belief (the belief that remorse is ok to have) then you know you are being inconsistent.

Why would I claim that "the belief that remorse is ok to have" is irrational? The remorse itself is an emotion, and thus not rational. That is true for all emotions. That doesn't mean that I think it is bad to have emotions.

Do you not see the difference between feeling an emotion, and believing an objective claim about the nature of reality?

Religion is not the source of values, or of morality.

Yes, this is the atheist position.

Human nature is.

This is also the atheist position. Yes, everything humans create comes from humans (there is no other conclusion for an atheist). Music, art, legal norms, morality, myths. And some are necessary and some are not. Morality is not necessary if your premises are true.

It is not atheistic. It is an observable fact. The fact is that people without religion still have values and morals.

Religions just use these values (and their manipulation) as very effective tools for controlling and conditioning people.

Yes, intuitively you understand the morality is different for people who believe in God.

When did I say that? Also, belief in God has nothing to do with it. As usual, you are demonstrating your very narrow understanding of religion. What about Buddhists, who are atheists, but who nevertheless attribute their values and morals to their religion?

Dr. Stupid
 
Stimpson wrote:
Not exactly. There are natural emotional, instinctive, and intuitive, reasons people have for believing in deities, but the belief that those deities actually exist is a conclusion drawn from those reasons, and an irrational one.

Exaclty, from the atheist's perspective, I have come to an irrational conclusion drawn from reason.

You arrive at remorse exactly the same way. Your conclusion is "I must feel bad and guilty about such and such", then you give yourself permission to feel that way.

No, what would be a valid analogy would be for me to try to draw some sort of objective conclusions from those feelings. I do not. In effect, I do let it go, which is to say that I acknowledge that the emotional response brought on by that memory is just an emotional response, and not an indication that there is something wrong that I need to correct.

You are making it sound like this emotional response is a invontuntary reflex. It is not.

The analogy is valid because in order to feel remorse (the belief that feeling remorseful is appropriate) you must come to it via rational analysis.

Here, let's shift it to something much more obvious. It would be irrational to get raving mad about losing to a girl in a tennis match. Yes, it is an emotional response, but the process that got you there is irrational. What gave you permission to get angry is irrational.

If this were not true, we would not be responsible for our emotions.

Why would I claim that "the belief that remorse is ok to have" is irrational? The remorse itself is an emotion, and thus not rational. That is true for all emotions. That doesn't mean that I think it is bad to have emotions.

Remorse is an emotion as become raving mad is. But, we must conclude that becoming mad as to completely lose it, it a bad emotion to have, thus must be prevented.

What is irrational is the belief that becoming raving mad is ok, as it is ok to feel remorse.

Do you not see the difference between feeling an emotion, and believing an objective claim about the nature of reality?

You have misunderstood me. I know the difference.

This is and objetive claim about the nature of reality:

"Remorse is a natural emotional that is ok to have."

Or

"Remorse is something that will help me understand how not to make that mistake again."

Or

"Remorse is an unavoidable emotional reponse in certain circumstances"

Those are all objetive claims about the nature of reality.

They are all irrational.

It is not atheistic. It is an observable fact. The fact is that people without religion still have values and morals.

Yes, and if it is an observable fact, morality is unnecessary. Not values though, those are necessary. They are the buiding blocks of any norm system.

When did I say that?

Morality controls religious people in a different way it controls (not controls) atheists.

Also, belief in God has nothing to do with it. As usual, you are demonstrating your very narrow understanding of religion. What about Buddhists, who are atheists, but who nevertheless attribute their values and morals to their religion?

I don't know about as usual, but you are demonstrating that you have not read the entire thread and the part where I specifically address the case of Buddhists.
 
Christian,

Not exactly. There are natural emotional, instinctive, and intuitive, reasons people have for believing in deities, but the belief that those deities actually exist is a conclusion drawn from those reasons, and an irrational one.

Exaclty, from the atheist's perspective, I have come to an irrational conclusion drawn from reason.

What do you mean "from an atheist's perspective"? Unless you are going to claim that drawing conclusions about the nature of reality from intuitive and emotional feelings, is rational, what I have said is applicable. Incidentally, I know many Theists who would agree with me. They just disagree with me about whether there are rational reasons to believe in God, and do not claim to believe in God for emotional or intuitive reasons.

You arrive at remorse exactly the same way. Your conclusion is "I must feel bad and guilty about such and such", then you give yourself permission to feel that way.

I do not "arrive" at remorse at all. There is no conclusion involved. There is no reasoning or logic involved. I feel the emotion of remorse. That is a fact. I don't have to give myself permission to do it, any more than I have to give myself permission to feel pain when I cut myself.

No, what would be a valid analogy would be for me to try to draw some sort of objective conclusions from those feelings. I do not. In effect, I do let it go, which is to say that I acknowledge that the emotional response brought on by that memory is just an emotional response, and not an indication that there is something wrong that I need to correct.

You are making it sound like this emotional response is a invontuntary reflex. It is not.

How do you figure? It is certainly not something that I decided to do. I am sure that it is a combination of instinct and learned responses, but then, so is feeling afraid when I see spiders. That isn't rational either. I know that the spider is harmless. It doesn't matter. I don't have to give myself permission to feel afraid. I don't want to feel afraid. I don't have any choice.

The analogy is valid because in order to feel remorse (the belief that feeling remorseful is appropriate) you must come to it via rational analysis.

What does being able to feel remorse have to do with the belief that feeling remorseful is appropriate? I feel remorse in some circumstances. Whether I think it is appropriate or not appears to be completely irrelevant.

Here, let's shift it to something much more obvious. It would be irrational to get raving mad about losing to a girl in a tennis match. Yes, it is an emotional response, but the process that got you there is irrational. What gave you permission to get angry is irrational.

Since when do you need permission to get angry. I get angry without any good reason, from time to time, too. Emotions are like that. The question is, how do you act on those emotions? Do you allow emotions to dictate your actions and beliefs? That is what would be irrational.

If this were not true, we would not be responsible for our emotions.

We aren't. We are responsible for our actions.

Why would I claim that "the belief that remorse is ok to have" is irrational? The remorse itself is an emotion, and thus not rational. That is true for all emotions. That doesn't mean that I think it is bad to have emotions.

Remorse is an emotion as become raving mad is. But, we must conclude that becoming mad as to completely lose it, it a bad emotion to have, thus must be prevented.

What is irrational is the belief that becoming raving mad is ok, as it is ok to feel remorse.

See above. What is irrational is allowing your emotions to dictate your actions.

Do you not see the difference between feeling an emotion, and believing an objective claim about the nature of reality?

You have misunderstood me. I know the difference.

This is and objetive claim about the nature of reality:

"Remorse is a natural emotional that is ok to have."

Or

"Remorse is something that will help me understand how not to make that mistake again."

Or

"Remorse is an unavoidable emotional reponse in certain circumstances"

Those are all objetive claims about the nature of reality.

They are all irrational.

Why are number 1 and 3 irrational?

It is not atheistic. It is an observable fact. The fact is that people without religion still have values and morals.

Yes, and if it is an observable fact, morality is unnecessary. Not values though, those are necessary. They are the building blocks of any norm system.

All morality is, is a set of rules for behavior which are based on a set of values. If you have values, and set up rules for behavior for yourself that are designed to serve those values, then those rules are a code of morality.

When did I say that?

Morality controls religious people in a different way it controls (not controls) atheists.

Morality doesn't control people at all. People control themselves. A religion (or anybody, for that matter), can attempt to use morality to control other people, by convincing them that the code of morality being presented serves that person's values, even though it does not. This is exactly what many religions try to do. Rather than instilling values, and then encouraging reasonable debate on what the best way to serve those values is, religions demand that their followers submit to the authority of the religion to tell them what the best way to serve those values is.

That is why you get ridiculous things like people who value human life and happiness, torturing and murdering other people in the name of God. They have been convinced that actions that run completely contrary to their values, are actually the proper way to serve their values.

I don't know about as usual, but you are demonstrating that you have not read the entire thread and the part where I specifically address the case of Buddhists.

Well, you are right about one thing. When I posted that, I had not yet finished reading the entire thread yet. I have read it through now, though, and all I saw was where you mentioned that they had Karma instead of God.

If anything, this just demonstrates my point. This has nothing to do with atheism. What it has to do with is whether people have a reason for holding a code of morality. Your reason may be fear of God. A Buddhist's reason may be Karma. What makes you think that other (non-buddhist) atheists don't have reasons? How can you assert that "an atheist has no reason for morality", and then turn around and clarify that Buddhists have a reason, and one which has nothing to do with God?

What, are you claiming that only supernatural beliefs can qualify as reasons to hold a code of morality? Even if that is the case, it once again illustrates that this has nothing to do with atheism. Perhaps you should be attacking materialism instead?

After all, your arguments are also equally applicable to people who believe in God, but simply don't believe that He cares what we do, or will punish or reward us for anything. In fact, there have been religions which believe exactly that. There have also been religions where the way a person is judged by the gods has nothing to do with morality, but instead with specific actions. For example, in the Norse mythology, you got into Valhalla by dying in combat. Morality didn't even enter into it.

But guess what? Even those people had codes of morality. Barbaric by modern standards? Sure, but no more so than ancient Judaism.

Dr. Stupid
 
As you can see, you have absolutely no motivation for returning the money. If you choose to return the money, it is no different than if you did not.

It makes a difference to me. How do you know my motivations? If I say that I would feel guilty not returning the money, and that adhering to my value system IS the motivation for returning the money, on what basis do you conclude that I have "absolutely no motivation" for returning the money? The fact that YOU can conceive of no reason to return the money, absent a promise of future happiness/avoidance of eternal fire, is of no probative value with respect to MY motivations.
 
BillyTK said:


Ah, but god says that truth denies faith and without faith he is nothing. So he causes us to have emotions, but must also cause us to sense that these are our own. But if our emotions are caused by god, we're back to evildave's point that this pretty much means god is controlling us and, for instance, if i reject god it is because god has decided it should be so. Which is sexy in a catholic kind of way, but somehow... contradictory?

It's "proof denies faith." Get your Douglas Adams straight.

God making people do things sort of takes away the purpose of punishing them for it.
 
You are mixing apples and oranges. The quality blue is not the same category as the quality irrational. Color is useful, irrationality is never useful. The minute irrationality is useful it changes in substance, it becomes rational.

You're reading what you want to read, not what is being stated. You presented a syllogism and requested that the flaws be found. The first flaw is that you have presented a false dilemma, specifically that there are only two choices (either discard all things irrational or accept all things irrational). The third option, to accept some but discard others, you find to be inconsistant (or illogical)... but it is a perfectly valid option.

Atheism does not mean logician, and by stating that atheists are atheists because of logical reasons you have completely misrepresented the target group. You could just as easily say that Catholics support sex with young boys, so they should obviously support homosexuality; this misrepresents Catholics and draws a conclusion based on flawed information.

So, you have used your flawed information (atheists are logicians) to support your conclusion (two irrational options are equally undesireable). The conclusion simply doesn't follow the two statements, which is yet another flaw.

You are showing why morality is unnecessary. Legal and social norms suffice. And where has anybody gotten that empathy is an innate human trait. Does anybody have children. Empathy is a learned behavior and let me tell you, it is hard to teach.

No, I'm showing that the first two statements in your syllogism are unrelated. While they do share a single trait, that trait neither defines them nor connects them sufficiently to support the conclusion. Admittedly, the example given was poorly constructed.

No, your critical thinking alerts you that the action that you have take is right or wrong. After evaluating all the evidence available to you. Without any evidence, you would not be able to make any determinations on what to feel.

Conceeded, but your very accurate statement is more a characteristic of amorality than of immorality which is a disorder and not a trait common to even a small minority of humans.

(Correcting my statement) To the norm, taking a wrong action and immediately regretting it is a conditioned reflex, not the result of an analysis. The usefulness is that it prevents (or reduces) antisocial behaviour, something that is not conducive to the survival of a social species.

Remorse is necessary as a consequence or penalty for our action.

How is this different from anyone else? Specifically, how is this necessary for Christians in a way that isn't necessary to everyone else?

Note: It isn't your conclusion that I dispute, but the presentation. You haven't shown anything that is exclusive to atheists, other than the lack of a belief in a deity.

The closest thing to a logical statement that can be created by the arguements you have provided would be something along the lines of: Persons who have analyzed all available information regarding deities and have found the information to be incapable of providing reasonable evidence to support the existance of a deity may also find that analyzing all available information on the topic of remorse brings the conclusion that remorse is a useless emotion that should be reigned in and eliminated, which is hardly worth disputing.
 
Is it just me, or is Christian asking for an intellectual justification for an emotion?

When is the last time you heard someone say something like "Considering facts A,B, andC, and having considered the short and long-term benefits and consequences of emotional responses P,Q, and R, I have chosen to feel Q." ?

If remorse were the result of an intellectual process, wouldn't the proper description of remorse for a Christian be "fear of punishment" rather than "guilt"?
 
Flatworm said:
Is it just me, or is Christian asking for an intellectual justification for an emotion?

When is the last time you heard someone say something like "Considering facts A,B, andC, and having considered the short and long-term benefits and consequences of emotional responses P,Q, and R, I have chosen to feel Q." ?

If remorse were the result of an intellectual process, wouldn't the proper description of remorse for a Christian be "fear of punishment" rather than "guilt"?

And so they would try to apply a similar concept to non-Christians, maybe just to be "in the know."
 
Christian,

I think I have to bow out of this ... I can't figure out what you're saying. Obviously, it all seems very clear and clever to you, and you undoubtly understand in your own mind what the point of all this is. But I all I can see is a barrage of semi-related assertions, none of which you seem to want to take the time to establish, and each of which links to the others in a way that can (from my perspective) only loosely be termed "logical". Again, I think the only way to progress (for me) is to streamline this argument into a formal structure.

Start here :
Premise 1 - An atheist does not believe in god as a source of morals.

Fill in the middle here :
Premise 'x' - ????

End here :
Conclusion - It is a logical contradition for atheists to feel remorse.

If you can't express your ideas as a simple logical proof, then I don't think I can debate them with you.

But, Loki, your morality is a personal thing, it is by your exclusive choice.
This is really a side-track I think (so maybe it needs it's own thread), but don't you think your morality is also at least partially a "personal thing"? Is abortion immoral? Why, or why not? Can you honestly say that in your life you have *never* changed you mind about the "morality" of anything? In other words, when you were a child you thought 'X' was moral/immoral, but as a young adult, or as a parent, you have come to view 'X' as the opposite?

Even if there is a "universal moral code" laid down by god, don't you, as a single fallible human, have to try a 'discover' this code? Do you accept that under some circumstances that human slavery is morally correct? Do you believe that sex outside of wedlock is *always* immoral? Is human cloning immoral? Is IVF treatment of infertile women immoral? In each case, how have you come to your decision on the morality of the issue? How do you know your current opinion of the morality of (for example) IVF is actually part of the "universal moral code"?
 
(ShottleBop: )You're playing games, Christian. Assume, for purposes of this discussion, that all of the countries of the world (or any higher body of human agents you care to choose) had unanimously adopted a convention to the effect that Jews were subhuman beings, not entitled to the protections accorded to everyone else, required Jews to report to concentration camps, and declared it a violation of international law to provide succor to any Jew.

Now, if someone harbored a Jew, would that person be acting immorally, in your estimation?

(Christian: )Please consider my answer carefully. In those conditions, your morality would be completely irrelevant. It would not matter what you thought was right. You would have to comply, if you didn't you would have to suffer the consequences.

In my case, my morality would be of great use because God's law tells me the person harboring a Jew, will have his reward in heaven.

You didn't answer the question.
You previously stated that, because one of the laws in God’s legal system is to follow man’s law, it is impossible for ANY illegal act to be moral:
That some illegal behaviour is moral?

This can’t be, because, one of the laws in God’s legal system is to follow man’s law.

I asked you if, in the circumstances above, it would be immoral to provide assistance to a Jewish person. I have considered your answer very carefully, as requested, and I don't see any answer to it; you sidestepped it entirely.

What I read between the lines in your response is an unstated conclusion that violating the law would be MORAL--i.e. that you were backing off your prior assertion. You state that, while an atheist could anticipate no reward for having violated the law (by acting MORALLY)--and thus would have no reason to act morally, a Christian could anticipate receiving a reward from God for having acted morally--and thus would be more inclined to violate the law.

To be consistent with your prior assertion, you would had to conclude that it was immoral to violate the law, and that the Christian who violated the law would have had one more black mark to answer for on his or her day of judgment.
 
Stimpson wrote:
What do you mean "from an atheist's perspective"? Unless you are going to claim that drawing conclusions about the nature of reality from intuitive and emotional feelings, is rational, what I have said is applicable. Incidentally, I know many Theists who would agree with me. They just disagree with me about whether there are rational reasons to believe in God, and do not claim to believe in God for emotional or intuitive reasons.

This is what I mean when I say “from the atheist’s perspective.” From your perspective, my belief in God is irrational. For me, it is a completely rational, you just don’t agree on my rationality of it.

I do not "arrive" at remorse at all. There is no conclusion involved. There is no reasoning or logic involved. I feel the emotion of remorse. That is a fact. I don't have to give myself permission to do it, any more than I have to give myself permission to feel pain when I cut myself.

This is crucial point where we must arrive at a objective conclusion based on evidence. I say you arrive at remorse you say you don’t. Either we do or we don’t. My argumentation is based on this premise, I first have to show that your premise is wrong.

How do you figure? It is certainly not something that I decided to do. I am sure that it is a combination of instinct and learned responses, but then, so is feeling afraid when I see spiders. That isn't rational either. I know that the spider is harmless. It doesn't matter. I don't have to give myself permission to feel afraid. I don't want to feel afraid. I don't have any choice.

Ok, I’ll will do my best to try to show you that your premise is incorrect.

The fact that we can automate behavior does not mean it is a necessary or natural response. We can always override the automation (which we created in the first place). Let’s take “the afraid of spider example”, There was a time that you were not afraid of spiders. You decided to start feeling afraid of them after an analysis of information. Once the decision was made, you automated the response.

But you can override the automation, and not be afraid of spiders anymore. I’m sure you know stories of people who were afraid of the dark and then not.

I’m also certain that you know that there are strategies for overcoming phobias (which is by definition irrational fears)

Remorse is a learned behavior. Remember, when we say we feel bad, that is just a representation of a mental state. We have arrived at that mental state voluntarily. Now, that you have read the whole thread, you have seen my examples showing a rearrangement of the outside information can and does change our mental state.

Now, because we have automated this mental state to appear when certain information is present, does not mean it out of our volition. Normal people can always override their mental states or can decide what mental states to hold. Isn’t this what maturity is all about.

What does being able to feel remorse have to do with the belief that feeling remorseful is appropriate? I feel remorse in some circumstances. Whether I think it is appropriate or not appears to be completely irrelevant.

You come to this conclusion because we are using different premises. I can decide when it is appropriate to get angry, meaning I have control of my mental states. Deciding the appropriateness of an emotion is a sign that can control them. If this were not the case, I would have emotions haphazardly triggered by the outside world. Although, there have been cases where people can control their laughter in serious event, most of us do control it (even if we suddenly have the urge to) because it would be inappropriate to have laugh.
Since when do you need permission to get angry. I get angry without any good reason, from time to time, too. Emotions are like that. The question is, how do you act on those emotions? Do you allow emotions to dictate your actions and beliefs? That is what would be irrational.

You give yourself permission to get angry, and, although you can choose not to control your mental states, you can certainly control them.

A poster correctly pointed out that a mental state constitutes and action, but if you mean an action that can be perceived by others, yes, you can have mental states without actions. But it is impossible to have actions without mental states. And please consider that if there are no actions associated with the mental state and this one is negative, you could concede it is unnecessary, even undesirable to have, irrational.

We aren't. We are responsible for our actions.

This is your paradigm. But it is an odd one. All actions (your context of actions) or lack of them are associated with mental states. The whole penal doctrine is based on this premise. You are simple mistaken in believing you can separate the two. And you are responsible for your mental state.

Prosecutors first look at what was going through the offenders mind before, during and after the commission of a crime. *Intent* is an essential component of typifying a crime. This is because we are responsible for our mental states.

And, I’m surprised you would take this position. Have you ever read any pop psychology book? Or did anyone ever told you you could control your temper, or decide to make the best of it (or see the glass half full instead of half empty)

See above. What is irrational is allowing your emotions to dictate your actions.

Our mental states dictate our actions. The problem here is that we might not have labels for all of them, and maybe we mislabel many for lack of accuracy. We might say we love someone but don’t know to what degree. All we are doing is articulating vaguely an approximation what other mental states are.

Why are number 1 and 3 irrational?

Even if you don’t agree with me, you can see the logic.

All morality is, is a set of rules for behavior which are based on a set of values. If you have values, and set up rules for behavior for yourself that are designed to serve those values, then those rules are a code of morality

I could not have said it better. So morality is useless and unnecessary because each individual’s values are different and there is no way to uphold the code.

And what is the purpose of having a code, if it can’t be enforced. This is my point. I don’t know if I can make it any more clear than this.

Morality doesn't control people at all. People control themselves.

This is why I have singled out atheists, because this is exactly what you believe. To you, morality is unilateral, to me it is bilateral.

I know you don’t accept that it is bilateral, and that is the point of this thread, I’m not arguing that it is. For the sake of argument (or to prove my point) I’m accepting the premise that morality is unilateral.

A religion (or anybody, for that matter), can attempt to use morality to control other people, by convincing them that the code of morality being presented serves that person's values, even though it does not. This is exactly what many religions try to do. Rather than instilling values, and then encouraging reasonable debate on what the best way to serve those values is, religions demand that their followers submit to the authority of the religion to tell them what the best way to serve those values is.

Man, I’m so glad you are in this debate because now we are really discussing the meat of the thing. Yes, I understand exactly what you are saying and I’m saying your model does not work. This is the whole point.

You think that the correct route is to instill values (the correct values) into people so that when they (of their own volition) acquire these values, the will set a code for themselves that is not only consistent with their values but will translate to the common good.

What I’m stating is that that system does not work simply because there is no way to enforce the code. It is the equivalent to moral anarchy (each making his or her own rules that are unenforceable) So, it serves absolutely no purpose for me to set a rule that can and will be broken by everyone else.

That is why you get ridiculous things like people who value human life and happiness, torturing and murdering other people in the name of God. They have been convinced that actions that run completely contrary to their values, are actually the proper way to serve their values.

Suppose, you were speaking to another atheist (that I were one). The problem here would not be that people murder other’s because god said so, the problem is that there is no system to stop it. What I individually value becomes irrelevant. What become relevant is that we must make sure bilateral and coercible laws are in place to uphold the values that contribute to the common good.

If you lived in the era were this was common place, would your morality have any relevance? And it has not relevance today. I’m sure you know that there are states in the US where atheists are prohibited by law to hold public office (this is terrible in my opinion). It does not matter what you value or your moral code, the legal code blows it away.

If I were an atheist, I would put all my efforts into creating social and legal norms consistent with my values. Otherwise, having them is no more than a preference (choosing chocolate instead of vanilla)

If anything, this just demonstrates my point. This has nothing to do with atheism. What it has to do with is whether people have a reason for holding a code of morality. Your reason may be fear of God. A Buddhist's reason may be Karma. What makes you think that other (non-buddhist) atheists don't have reasons? How can you assert that "an atheist has no reason for morality", and then turn around and clarify that Buddhists have a reason, and one which has nothing to do with God?

Sure, you can have all the reasons you want, but you have to admit they would be of a substantial different quality than mine (or a Buddhist). It is not the same to uphold a moral code for the common good than to uphold it just because I feel like it.


What, are you claiming that only supernatural beliefs can qualify as reasons to hold a code of morality? Even if that is the case, it once again illustrates that this has nothing to do with atheism. Perhaps you should be attacking materialism instead?

You can demonstrate that is more profound than that, the morality does hold qualitatively more weight than preference.
After all, your arguments are also equally applicable to people who believe in God, but simply don't believe that He cares what we do, or will punish or reward us for anything

Yes, I agree, and I made this clarification too.

In fact, there have been religions which believe exactly that. There have also been religions where the way a person is judged by the gods has nothing to do with morality, but instead with specific actions. For example, in the Norse mythology, you got into Valhalla by dying in combat. Morality didn't even enter into it.

I think a generalization is fair here. It addresses the majority of posters here. And you are the only one who has brought the objection up, and it is not your case.

It makes a difference to me. How do you know my motivations? If I say that I would feel guilty not returning the money, and that adhering to my value system IS the motivation for returning the money, on what basis do you conclude that I have "absolutely no motivation" for returning the money? The fact that YOU can conceive of no reason to return the money, absent a promise of future happiness/avoidance of eternal fire, is of no probative value with respect to MY motivations.

The point is that your motivation to return it and another’s motivation to keep it is *qualitatively* the same. It is simply a matter of preference. You do it, consistent with your values and another consistent with his. Absolutely no difference of impact.

When I say motivation, I mean, the reason why we say we hold values. The reason why we set up a code of conduct for ourselves.

If it’s just going to be a matter of preference (like chocolate over vanilla) it makes no sense to set it up.

ArmchairPhysicist wrote:
You're reading what you want to read, not what is being stated. You presented a syllogism and requested that the flaws be found. The first flaw is that you have presented a false dilemma, specifically that there are only two choices (either discard all things irrational or accept all things irrational).

Again, you are changing the premises. What you present is a false dilemma. I have presented no such thing.

In those terms I would equate to say Although it is totally impossible to eliminate all irrational beliefs, “if you have discarded this unnecessary irrational belief based you can perfectly discard this unnecessary irrational belief.

But if the syllogism is the problem. Let’s try another approach. Would you agree with this statement?: Once I know something is unnecessary and irrational I should discard it.

Atheism does not mean logician, and by stating that atheists are atheists because of logical reasons you have completely misrepresented the target group. You could just as easily say that Catholics support sex with young boys, so they should obviously support homosexuality; this misrepresents Catholics and draws a conclusion based on flawed information.

If my assumption is wrong that atheist’s are so because they have decided deities are an irrational belief. Then, you can correct me.

If you are an atheist, is your choice based on rational analysis?

So, you have used your flawed information (atheists are logicians) to support your conclusion (two irrational options are equally undesireable). The conclusion simply doesn't follow the two statements, which is yet another flaw.

No, my assumption has been atheists believe it is irrational to conclude that deities exist.

Conceeded, but your very accurate statement is more a characteristic of amorality than of immorality which is a disorder and not a trait common to even a small minority of humans.

Yes, you have hit it in the nail. What I’m proposing to atheist is amorality. Why would it be a disorder?

And now we are in the area to be. The problem is that atheist are never immoral. They never break their code. Have you read the examples given of admittedly bad behavior? Man, atheist do consider themselves the most moral of all humans, one might think.

The reason is simple, the rules are auto imposed.

How is this different from anyone else? Specifically, how is this necessary for Christians in a way that isn't necessary to everyone else?

I posted this before but I will do it again

There three big reasons why I should feel remorse and you shouldn't.

1. I believe that God has set up a system where I will pay for all I have done here on earth.

2. I believe that in the afterlife, the amount of rewards I will receive will be in direct proportion to my deeds.

3. I believe God examines my heart and he determines if my remorse is sincere as to constitute part of the payment of my penalty.

Note: It isn't your conclusion that I dispute, but the presentation. You haven't shown anything that is exclusive to atheists, other than the lack of a belief in a deity.

To me, generally speaking, atheists do not believe in a supernatural system of reward and punishment. Or a supernatural system where a count is kept on human actions for any purpose.

To me, this is the whole purpose of remorse and morality. I might be mistaken (do to my Christian bias) in concluding that these systems are associated with the belief in a god, and I did make the exceptions I thought were appropriate.

I believe my generalization is valid.

Loki wrote:
I think I have to bow out of this ... I can't figure out what you're saying.

Ok.

If you can't express your ideas as a simple logical proof, then I don't think I can debate them with you.

I will understand this to mean that if I can’t be coherent to you, you wont be able to debate with me. That sounds reasonable.

This is really a side-track I think (so maybe it needs it's own thread), but don't you think your morality is also at least partially a "personal thing"? Is abortion immoral? Why, or why not? Can you honestly say that in your life you have *never* changed you mind about the "morality" of anything? In other words, when you were a child you thought 'X' was moral/immoral, but as a young adult, or as a parent, you have come to view 'X' as the opposite?

What is a personal thing to me is my understanding of the code. My understanding will always be personal. The code will not. There is difference and a distinction.

I live in a country where every law is codified. It has many advantages over *common law*, (as a matter of fact, most law now is going the way of codification) One of them is that you can go to the specific norm and it is unmovable.

This does not mean it has it’s problems, one is interpretation. Even though the legislators try to be as precise as possible, sometimes this is not accomplished, so an interpretation thing comes about. And this also happens when new situations arise that the codified law did not contemplate.

But even with all of this, the norms are objective and referential.

This is how I view morality. I might be wrong in my interpretation but once I’m sure of the correct interpretation, I know I can’t be wrong about following the rule.

Take, monogamy. If anyone were to follow this rule, they would not go wrong for 2,000 years up to now or 2,000 more years.

Even if there is a "universal moral code" laid down by god, don't you, as a single fallible human, have to try a 'discover' this code? Do you accept that under some circumstances that human slavery is morally correct?

Yes, I do. But you are now introducing the element of hierarchies. Like I think it is morally correct to kill someone in certain circumstances, even though the code says it is immoral to kill.

Do you believe that sex outside of wedlock is *always* immoral? Is human cloning immoral? Is IVF treatment of infertile women immoral? In each case, how have you come to your decision on the morality of the issue? How do you know your current opinion of the morality of (for example) IVF is actually part of the "universal moral code"?

If we were to explore the hierarchy, then you would see that there are no inconsistencies. The proof of this is that most legal systems are not inconsistent, even with the complexity of the structure. And yes, I might not have all the answers but this is why I have a relationship with God, to guide me in understanding His code.



ShottleBop wrote:
You didn't answer the question.
You previously stated that, because one of the laws in God’s legal system is to follow man’s law, it is impossible for ANY illegal act to be moral:


Yes, I stated this with the knowledge that there are (right now in the world today) universal human right laws that would make the statement always true.

As it stands today, It is impossible that one obeys the highest human law and not be moral.

Then, you accused me of playing games and created a fictitious scenario where my first premise would not apply ( a trap??).

I decided to address the question because it would serve well to our discussion.

But now, we are going on a tangent.

I asked you if, in the circumstances above, it would be immoral to provide assistance to a Jewish person. I have considered your answer very carefully, as requested, and I don't see any answer to it; you sidestepped it entirely.

I focused my answer on the topic.

What I read between the lines in your response is an unstated conclusion that violating the law would be MORAL--i.e. that you were backing off your prior assertion. You state that, while an atheist could anticipate no reward for having violated the law (by acting MORALLY)--and thus would have no reason to act morally, a Christian could anticipate receiving a reward from God for having acted morally--and thus would be more inclined to violate the law.

To be consistent with your prior assertion, you would had to conclude that it was immoral to violate the law, and that the Christian who violated the law would have had one more black mark to answer for on his or her day of judgment.


The inconsistency in the response is due to you changing the scenario. Listen, it is not hard to see that in many countries violating the law is the moral thing to do.

Christians do it all the time, there are many countries where proselytizing is illegal, yet Christian do it.
 

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