This is one issue I do not understand and never seen explained. The elements with more protons have a greater % of neutrons in their nucleus. So combine two nucleuses together (which is how they create these new elements) and you will get a new element those most stable nucleus will have more neutrons than the version you have created.
That's because the spacing of protons is larger with more neutrons, more or less, but only kind of more or less, I think.
For smaller nuclei it's also a topology problem. There is, for instance, no stable weight 8 nucleus, that's because two pyramids of 4 is geometrically a lot more stable, and wins out. This works in somehow with Eigenstates in the larger nucleus case, I THINK I understand (I'm a touch out of my field here), but now you know everything I THINK I know.