So you in fact never spoke up during this reading correct? JE moved on without anyone outwardly claiming the second half of the reading.
Correct. There in the audience, my husband and I had a running, whispered dialogue going on as one by one JE mentioned things that made sense to us, but we were a bit taken aback, and didn't yell for a mic or anything. I think that the fact that we were in front of such a large audience had at least a little to do with that. My best friend and her husband were sitting next to us, so of course, they were prodding us to speak up, since they realized too that what JE said fit us perfectly.
JE spoke the entire time with Bill, and you could tell he was somewhat frustrated because he felt sure about the messages he was getting. When Bill kept repeating that he didn't think that latter part of the reading was for him, JE just wrapped it up. (it was the last reading) He told Bill that if at some later date he remembered something else, to write into JE's newsletter with the validation.
With 2000 people in the room, what are the odds that someone else had a strong validation of the second half who also did not speak up?
IMO? Not too good. First of all, as I said, these were very specific details. The very first thing JE said that related to us was, "I have Tom coming through..." That meant that the communication was from someone deceased named Tom. So naturally, my husband having lost his dad named Tom a couple of years before that, that meant something to us. Now I'm sure there were plenty of people in the audience who at some point knew someone named Tom who had passed on, but they would also have had to understand all of the rest of it too, which imo, would have been highly unlikely.
To me the seating arrangement is completely unnecessary. I've no idea whether or not JE goes fishing for information based on credit card info, although its entirely within the realm of possibility. But assuming he does, he wouldn't need to know where you were sitting at all. Take the information and fish it out to the whole crowd, or to a particular section, as he always does, and see who bites. If you're there at all, you likely will.
Absolutely not. JE has never thrown something out like that to the entire audience that I'm aware of. He's always been able to narrow it down within a couple of rows or seats. He feels almost a physical pull, very often directly to the exact person he's supposed to address. The only exception to this is when one spirit will open the way for another, as happened when Bill's relative moved over for my father-in-law to come through. Had Bill and I not known eachother, and my father-in-law was coming through, it would have been a completely separate reading for JE, and he would have been pulled directly to my area or row, once he was done with Bill's reading.
Since it's the reader that validates, he doesn't need to know specifically where your seated. You'll speak up.
Again, you're confusing mediums with cold-readers. The norm would be for JE to go to the right person or family directly.
As for the process of mediumship, again, we have only hearsay about what mediums receive, and it is not consistent from medium to medium.
Well, of course, since we are not mediums ourselves, the only thing we have to go on is what psychic mediums tell us about the process. I disagree with you, however, about it not being consistent from medium to medium. The process may vary slightly from one to another, but imo, there are more commonalities than differences between the way mediums receive impressions. It's only their own individual frame of reference that might differ.
JE cannot "hear" or "mishear" something in his mind. I'm afraid that's just a physical impossibility. Hearing is a very physical process, and if JE in fact does "hear" anything, it would be measurable. When you "hear" someone saying something in a dream, you do not in fact "hear" anything. You imagine it, you attempt to "visualize" it, but its not in fact audible. So when JE claims to "hear" something in his head...what in fact is actually happening? No one seems to know.
If you would go back to check, voidx, I think the first time I used the word "heard" I put quotation marks around it. Because you are right. Mediums "hear" things telepathically, through clairaudience. They "hear" these sounds, whether they be names, or other words, the same way you or I would "hear" a thought in our heads. Only thing is, communication from the other side doesn't always come through as clearly as a thought might. Sometimes it does, however. I remember one time on "Crossing Over" that John "heard" something so loudly and clearly, he actually thought someone in the audience had shouted something out to him, only no one had.
I've always been surprised how uncritical people are of the internal, subjective "information" that mediums provide. Its complete hearsay what's going on in their minds, and that will always leave me skeptical because I don't even have 100% trust in my own recollection of my personal experiences, let alone can differentiate them from my own imaginings, or from some external source. How does JE tell? Is he thinking/daydreaming/imaging or is he receiving information through spirit communication? How does he know?
The only way I can answer that is to say that he can tell only from having experienced it. He's been psychic practically all his life. Since it's such an integral part of him, he doesn't find it all that strange or unnatural.