I haven't gotten into any real arguments on this, and have been content to sit on the sidelines when the usual suspects tear into each other. Consequently, apart from a few short messages where I tentatively tested the waters to see how open-minded the tvtalkshows people were, I simply adopted a live-and-let-live philosophy.
A live-and-let-live philosophy is a good thing, and those who know me would assure you that I share it. Because I believe what I do, doesn't mean that I feel like I'm better than someone who believes otherwise. In fact, if anything, it's more the believers who usually were made to feel they were on the receiving end of all the smugness and condescension from the skeptics, not vice versa. lol But, whatever.
This self-congratulatory, self-satisfied message of pure smugness from you is unwarranted, unfriendly, and ultimately untrue. This is nothing more than a verbal session of patting yourself on the back for being truly open or progressive, unlike whomever you've decided to insult - with no provocation, I might add.
Well, I didn't mean it to be any of those things, NoZed Avenger, but perception is everything I guess. As far as name-calling, however, I can see how my suggesting that you might not have the nerve to get a private reading
could qualify as calling you a coward, so I apologize for that. I could definitely have phrased it better. Sorry.
Bottom line, however, it was just a straight question, which up until then, you hadn't answered. What I was asking you is whether there was some specific reason you never had a reading, or was it simply that you weren't all that curious about mediumship? Am I to understand then, from what you just wrote, that it was more a matter of the cost of a reading than anything else that kept you from experiencing a reading personally? Because, if so, then you wouldn't be the first to say that.
Don't "have the nerve"? Even if it was somehow my responsibility to go spend my own money and time on this, I have been to a number of readings when I was researching the subject. I also picked up around a dozen books on the subject and spoke to people who believed it and didn't.
Well, of course it's not your "responsibility" NoZed Avenger. I'm just always surprised, as I've said before, that so few of you have ever actually gone and done this, despite what would appear on your part to be a more than casual interest in the subject.
And yet you won't even buy an Ian Rowland book oin the subject? I guess using your own reasoning, you just don't "have the nerve" to look at the other side, eh?
But I have looked at the other side, NA, and at the time, I even exchanged several e-mails with Mr. Rowland discussing the subject. I understand well enough what is involved in the art of cold-reading. I've read (not bought) Shermer's "Why People Believe Weird Things" and various articles written by mentalists, etc., that addressed the methods used in cold-reading. Plus, I studied JE on "Crossing Over" for several years, and attended several live seminars where readings were done. I also did most of the tedious transcribing of JE readings found on tvtalkshows, which we then debated,
ad nauseam.
I am *so* sorry that my investigation fell short of what is "required" before being allowed to have an opinion on this subject.
Now you're being melodramatic.

Of course you can have an opinion on this subject. And I'll stop myself from using my favorite "opinions are like ________" line here, just to keep it "friendly".
I tell you what, neo. We'll leave to one side the amount of money I charge per hour for my time. Why don't you go ahead and find a "registered" psychic that meets your criteria in central Texas. Make it one that will allow me to record the entire session and make a transcript. You name him or her and pay for my session. I'll donate my time, even up to driving an hour or so, if necessary.
Have you no pride, NoZed Avenger? Would you really want someone else to pay for your reading? Actually, I don't live anywhere near you. I'm more in Jeff Corey's neck of the woods. Well, PA actually, but I'm originally from Long Island. If you were down this way, I could think of two mediums, Robert Hansen, and Glenn Love, who I think might be able to impress you enough to make you go "hmmmm". But no. I would not offer to pay for your reading, mainly because if my husband ever found out about it, I could never hope to make him understand why I would ever think to do such a thing. lol I don't think he'd appreciate it.
If the medium can get me specific information - without prompting and without having my name before-hand, I'll pay you back, with interest.
I can't tell you how tempting and intriguing a proposition that is though. Seriously. I think that would be awesome if you got a reading that gave you pause and opened your mind up to the possibility that mediumship might be real after all. Still, I'm afraid I have to pass. And come on. If you aren't
motivated enough on your own to investigate this possibility, why should I care? (even if I do a little) BTW, how much interest would you pay me?

Just kidding, NA.