Entirely my point.
The odds of this particular Jabba may be astronomical.
The odds of one member (hur, hur, hur...sorry) of that set of "potential Jabbas" existing remains exactly one.
Yes, exactly. If his great-granddad hadn't met his great-grandma he'd have met someone else and produced children who would have gone on to produce children, etc. So even the "parents happening to meet" thing doesn't make it any more improbable.
Jabba, this is why the lottery analogy is so apt. The chances of
you winning the lottery are very small. The chances of
someone winning the lottery is 1*.
And let's look at it from a less specific perspective. If you were to win the lottery you'd be saying how incredibly lucky you were. However, when you read in the papers that some random stranger has won the lottery, do you think "wow, what are the chances?" No, because that story is published
every week.
Someone winning the lottery isn't extraordinary, it's mundane.
Similarly, you say that my existence is so unlikely that it makes me special. But had it been a different sperm which had fertilised my mother's egg - or even had it been me who'd died in utero and not my twin - you'd be saying exactly the same thing to
that person. No matter
who had won the lottery of my birth, you'd be telling them that the fact it was
them is significant.
Or, to put it slightly differently, you're looking at a random number generator which generates a number between 1 and 17 trillion and are then declaring whatever number it comes up with as significant, simply because there are 17 trillion people each holding a different number within that range. Because the number that was generated was held by someone it has to be significant, right? But that's being blind to the fact that
every number that could potentially be generated is held by someone.
You really are throwing a dart at a wall and then drawing the bullseye around it.
*In the lottery's case it's possible for there to be no winner in any given week, but for the sake of this illustration we can say that someone wins it every week.