.It's been a while since my last lucid dream, but for me they usually happen when I am close to waking up. I assume my brain is just about to come out of REM sleep and that is why a bit of woken-up consciousness starts to creep in, and I realize I am dreaming. That's why for me lucid dreams are usually quite short and end up with me waking up.
They can be quite fun while they last, though. I can control things as well.
Has anyone else ever had the problem of knowing you are dreaming and being able to control some things but not others?
A good comparison might be whether what you were interested in controlling or observing is in line with your usual waking mind, or as muddled as dreams usually are.
If I dream that I'm aware of dreaming, and start looking into corners to see how "fleshed out" the dream is, or trying to "find" people that I would enjoy having be participants in the dream, or acting out wish fulfillment that I might just as likely fantasize about when awake... then that could be evidence that the "lucid" dreaming actually happened as such.
If, on the other hand, I seem more interested in making my dream self look around for the right pair of scissors (instead of the weird pairs that keep turning up)... well, maybe "lucidity" was actually just a dream element.
I'm not sure it can always be that simple though. I feel like something mathematical can describe this better--how to classify it if my dream illusion lucidity happens to match my waking interests randomly?
Could there be a parallel to the discussion of whether "free will" is an illusion?
My favorite is when I'm traveling, and change from one thing to another while in motion.. plane to car to foot..
And on foot, I -glide-! Like on a hoverboard, but just shoes.. uphill, downhill, very fast. I'd love to move like that!
But then it becomes slogging through muck and mire...![]()
In my experience it is possible to fade out of lucid dreaming and back into a normal dream without even realizing it, so there will be a point when you are only semi-lucid, but a truly lucid dream is when you feel as if you are wide awake and fully conscious inside a dream world.
I read about research recently showing that the frontal lobes are not active during dreaming sleep. Granted I have a minimal understanding of neuroscience, but maybe that helps to account for why we freely do things in dreams we probably wouldn't do in real life (lack of higher judgment centers).
I wonder if this is also true of lucid dreaming?
Flying is great, and all...
But I can't be the only person who's turned a lucid dream into a sexual fantasy...
Or am I?![]()
With holding details, you won't be the first nor the last. And why not, it's your dream.
I've had this. Out of curiosity, which things do you feel you can't control?