Then participate in this forum on your own authority, and in your own right. Stop living your time here through another member's eyes. Particularly when that member has not give permission for you to divulge personal information, and they appear to have decided not to post here any further themself.
Stop telling us what someone else is doing or has done - it's not for you to say, and we have no corroboration, and additionally, you have not engendered a great deal of trust for us to accept your word, given the progress of this thread to date.
This has nothing to do with the posts responded to.