Words of wisdom from a Prophet of God:
"Some portray legalization of so-called same-sex marriage as a civil right. This is not a matter of civil rights; it is a matter of morality. Others question our constitutional right as a church to raise our voice on an issue that is of critical importance to the future of the family. We believe that defending this sacred institution by working to preserve traditional marriage lies clearly within our religious and constitutional prerogatives. Indeed, we are compelled by our doctrine to speak out."
Gordon B Hinckley
You have never even bothered to address the issue of what you, personally, lose, or how you, personally, are affected, when any two people marry.
A high-school football star who did not make it in college and sells cars for his father-in-law marries the head cheerleader, president of the "cookie club", and known by everyone in the program for 4 years. How does that affect you, personally? What does that take away from you, personally?
A mother of 4 (from two previous marriages) marries a man she met on the internet and hopes that this time she will not be abused. How does that affect you, personally? What does that take away from you, personally?
A successful antiques dealer decides to marry in order to produce an heir for his commercial empire. He selects a woman for her child-bearing hips. How does that affect you? What does that take away from you, personally?
A chanteuse finds true love and marries in joy and passion. She is 45; he is 19. How does that affect you, personally? What does that take away form you, personally?
I marry my partner, my best friend, my favorite person; even though my partner's family severs all ties (keep in mind my partner's brother is, literally, a 4-time ex-convict with three children who has never been married and lives in his parents' den...and that is more acceptable than my partner marrying me). How does that affect you, personally? What does that take away from you, personally?
As far as your post: I continue to maintain that you and your club have my permission and blessing to apply to each other whatever rules you have invented that you tell yourselves will appease whatever 'god' you have invented. You can even wear funny hats and give each other funny (if gramatically incorrect) titles.
How does that affect me, personally? Not at all. Not in the slightest.
What does that take away form me, personally? Nothing. Nothing at all.
Where you and the other members of your club do err is when you pretend that your 'god' has ordered (and authorized) you to tell me, a non-member, that I, a non-member, must adhere to the rules you altered out of what you say are your 'god's' words. When you try to enforce your clubs rules outside your clubhouse, you violate my civil rights and make a mockery of the Constitution of these United States and of the Rule of Law. You take away form me my right not to be governed by the 'god' you invented, nor by any other 'god' or 'gods'.
Consider the nooligans that are trying to impose Shaira Law on neighborhoods of non-muslims in England.
http://www.americanthinker.com/2011/08/imposing_shariah_law_in_london.html
http://www.gatestoneinstitute.org/3555/sharia-law-london
http://metro.co.uk/2013/12/07/musli...led-for-sharia-law-attacks-in-london-4221898/
Would you grant them the right to tell you that you could not worship any 'god' but theirs, nor in any way but the way they dictate? Would you submit to the will of their 'god' when you were told you had to tear down your temple, and close your meeting houses? Would you give up bacon, and be happy that 'god's' will was being done as pig ranchers were stoned? Would you let liquor store owners and winesellers be "gaoled" for practicing their professions, and refusing to accede to the unjust imposition of sectarian rules? Would you happily wear their burka, and agree never to go outside your house but in the company of a man, and stop posting on the internet, according to the "commands" of their 'god'?