Emily's Cat
Rarely prone to hissy-fits
Likewise.
I used the word once when I was about 12... that got me confined to my bedroom for the weekend.
Now I use the word rarely, and exclusively to bait racists; never as a pejorative.
And yet it doesn't actually bait the racists at all. All it does is make the rest of us uncomfortable. The only people you're offending are the people on your own side.