You and me both. And I happen to actually appreciate woo (in some ways) since I have seen it do wonders for the mental health of people. People who are depressed, confused and so on often go to woo in order to find comfort. As my old religion teacher said: "you get butter when you die - it's better that way." (free translation - fran might appreciate the original: Du får smör när du dör.")
I see a lot of woo as just that: comfort in hard times. The end justify the means, and if no one is hurt or fooled, I don't have a problem with people believing in ghosts, UFOs or Village People.
I agree with you to a certain extent. There's no doubt that woo definitely can, and very often do have this comforting effect. I mean, it is probably one of the main reasons that it is such a big movement in the first place. People obviously have a need for comfort and obviously woo provides it.
However, I think many people, including many skeptics, underestimates the risks of this. There are risks in using a comfort blanket as an adult, especially one which is so without substance. It's not that I can't understand it, it's not like I haven't wished I could believe in this and that so that I would feel better when times has been hard. But for me it would do even more damage in the end if I put my trust in something that is false. Yes, people who trust in woo might be happy and feel safe, but only as long as nothing challenges their woo, and since woo is not real, that must happen sooner or later.
Many Christian woos for example live happily until they can no longer ignore the many contradictions of the bible and eventually it lands them in a full blown life crisis and a deep depression that could end really bad. They have found out that what they base their whole life on doesn't hold up anymore. It's good for them if they get through it, they will live even better lives. But to me it seems as such an unecessary crisis to have to go through. Life provides us with enough troubles to deal with as it is.
Most woos handle this by sticking their heads in the sand though - which can't be good for you in the end either, and is no way for a peson to live a life, you might miss out on many more things than just the criticism of your pet woo
So, I would say that; to keep using proverbs about edible stuff; using woo as a comfort blanket might in the end 'cost more than it tastes' (det kostar mer än det smakar) the day you discover that there will, in fact, be no 'butter when you die'
Lastly, this is what I think, but I don't think that it's my job to rob people of their comfort blankets. It's their choises and their lives. I almost always only speak my mind here on the forum, and I will not "sugar coat" it if someone comes here with woo claims and I feel like replying. But I would never seek people out with this intent. I'm a 'live and let live' kind of person, and I rarely discuss, and never tries to win over my wooish friends or relatives for example. People ask me, and I will be honest with what I think about it all, but apart from that, I don't bang people over the head with my opinions
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