Is it so much fun to be a prostitute ?

RussDill said:
So you agree that they is a broad sprectrom reasons other than poverty that would cause people to engage in prostitution. Great. So then we can agree that eliminating poverty would only elimitate one of the reasons for prostitution. After that, we can see how the elimitation of poverty would increase the wages of prostitutes.
Don't leave out what this was all about:
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RussDill: You act as if there is only one reason people would turn to prostitution and that it would always be their last resort.
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dann: I'm glad that I got that point through to you!

There is one reason why people turn to prostitution. Therefore you cannot eliminate it by forbidding it. You have to eliminate poverty.
 
dann said:
The problem seems to be that you cannot do basic arithmetic. I have heard this explanation before, and it is still wrong: The consumer gets neither an extra $40 or, more correctly, an extra $10, because HE'S BEEN MADE REDUNDANT! He already lost his job, and he hasn't even got the money he used to have.

You'd think the entire population of the United States and much of Europe would be unemployed by now, then. Strangely enough, that hasn't happened.

Somehow, just as technology and automation render certain jobs obsolete, they manage to create new jobs at the same time. Who would've guessed that would happen?

Jeremy
 
toddjh said:
Hmm? I think "it can't possibly get any worse" is one of the best arguments for making changes. It means you have nothing to lose.
It's a very bad argument. It sounds as if you don't know what you're doing, you don't know if your solution is going to work, but you might as well try to do something, since "it can't possibly get any worse".

I don't know where you get that from. You're saying you don't think the presence of legal prostitution would reduce the presence of illegal prostitution at all? I can't agree with that. I think a great many customers would prefer to go the legal route, even if it is more expensive.
No, that's not what I'm saying. Maybe it would. Maybe it would even bring more customers, those who didn't want to go to an illegal prostitute. In that case it wouldn't reduce illegal prostitution, it would increase the number of johns instead.
And you do tend to take the point of view of the consumer, don't you?
The title of the article is, "Why are many people in developing countries poor?" It does not attempt to address the question of poverty generally, it attempts to address the question of why developing countries have so many more poor than elsewhere. Frankly, I don't think it does a very good job with that. It then attempts to link that issue to the distribution of wealth within developed countries,
Thank you! There it was!
by telling us that politicians say things I've never heard them say. Perhaps it's just the U.S., but I've never heard anyone say wages are too high. In fact, in the last presidential election, I heard both candidates say they thought the minimum wage ought to be raised.
Politicians and employers in Europe say it all the time. (BTW, did Bush then raise the minimum wages after the election?)
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As "technology improves" a lot of people are made redundant. Technological improvement in a market economy does not better the situation of poor people, sorry!
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This is demonstrably untrue. Poor people today are much better off than they were a couple hundred years ago. Almost unbelievably so. Pretty much no one in the United States is starving. Even among the very poor, most have electricity, clean water (hot and cold), adequate heating, refrigerators, televisions, and even computers. They cannot be turned down for medical treatment, if required. I imagine the situation is much the same in Europe.
No, it is demonstrably true! It depends: When a company introduces new technology to turn out more goods using fewer workers, it may simply lay off the rest - or it may become more competitive and hire more people (again). Or it may move to Mexico. Or ... In Denmark many slaughterhouses are moving to Poland. My point was: technological improvement in a market economy doesn't take place because the workers are going to benefit from it. And very often they don't!
One of the apparent contradictions in a capitalist economy is that when you make things easier to produce, people lose their jobs, i.e. their way of earning a living. (Didn't the article cover this?)

If one considered your article from some web site to be the inerrant truth, that might be a problem. But like I said, all you have to do is look at the real world to see that that simply isn't the case.
Apparently you've never heard about people in the real world being laid off as a result of industrial rationalization. OK, then you haven't.
Okay, I now understand your position, but I hope you can understand why people are confused about what you're saying.
No, I can't, but I can understand why you would be confused at the point where I confused abolish with forbid. (And I was confused because I had to make sense of too many opponents simultaneously). The rest of the things I've written are very consistent.
You said repeatedly that you're not in favor of abolishing prostitution (meaning one thing), and then you turn around and say you are (meaning something different). It's hard to follow exactly what you're talking about when the context doesn't make it clear which synonym you mean.
No, don't pretend that I suddenly "turn around". From the very beginning I've tried to drive the point home that poverty is what makes people choose prostitution for a living. And along the way I was accused of wanting to forbid prostitution. In one, only one, paragraph I used the word abolish incorrectly (instead of forbid). As soon as you made me aware of that, I made it clear. At that one point it wasn't just "hard to follow exactly what you're (= I'm) talking about", it was impossible. But after the clarification it should no longer be a problem. (And, by the way, it wasn't a "synonym". And, no, I won't hold it against you from now on.)
Step 1: Steal underwear.
Step 2: ?
Step 3: Eliminate poverty.
I don't know what underwear and stealing has to do with this.
Again, why do you focus on prostitution exclusively?
I don't.
Would you say you are also in favor of abolishing waiting tables, or working at the cash register at Wal-Mart?
I'm not in favour of the circumstances that force these alternatives on people.
Those are also jobs that people would only take when they need money.
Let me, with no irony, assure you that I'm very glad that you write "also"!
What's the difference, except that you find prostitution more distasteful personally? I'd really like an answer to this.
I have answered that question a million times by now. You and everybody else are well aware of the differences between a waiter and a prostitute: One has to wait tables, but not sleep with the customers, for the other it's the other way round.
I DO NOT SAY: PROSTITUTION BAD, WAITRESSING GOOD!!!
OK?! Please don't confuse me with the people who do!
 
SRW said:
dann you cannot have it both ways, you posted this article from the U.N. so I assume you believe what it says. However when it contradicts your arguments you say it is in error, or wrong. If you read the entire article it sounds like it is very skeptical of what it is being told by the Cubans, and also is unable to carry on independent investigations.
I posted it, but I never claimed that I agreed with it in its entirety. I have explained to you where I disagree, right?! Do you understand what I say? The article neglects to say that tourism was (re)introduced in an attempt to improve the Cuban economy in the "Special Period" of the '90s when poverty had returned to the country. The article fails to mention this, making it sound as if one remedy to improve the living conditions of the Cubans, tourism, alone was what caused prostitution to reemerge. It does not, however, say that poverty was not the cause. And it is rather unambiguous when it points at the elimination of poverty as the thing that eliminated prostitution after the revolution!
And, yes, the article is skeptical! Would you have believed it otherwise? And, yes, the UN investigator is not able to carry out independent investigations.
Mad house is what I call an instution where people go for Behavior Modification.
I don't know anything about "Behavior Modification" in Cuba. You seem to imply that it is some kind of concentration camp. It might, however, just be a question of modifying the behavior of prostitutes by giving them an education. I don't know, do you?
But if Castro wanted to encourage prostitution, as you or somebody else claimed, it is hard to see why he would want to modify their behavior in a way that made the prostitutes stop being prostitutes.
 
dann said:
It's a very bad argument. It sounds as if you don't know what you're doing, you don't know if your solution is going to work, but you might as well try to do something, since "it can't possibly get any worse".

Strawman. There have been many arguments made about why legalizing prostitution would make the situation better. The fact that it won't get worse is only provided to address the issue of cost. IOW, EVEN IF none of the benefits come through, the worst we will be is no worse than now. OTOH, there are reasons to believe it will be better.

Your point would be valid if anyone were proposing change for the sake of change. No one is. They are proposing change because there is reason to believe it will help. But even if it doesn't help, it won't hurt, so there is a potential upside and no downside. That's why you do it.
 
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Originally posted by RussDill
...you mean like professional athletes, doctors, pilots, operators of heavy machinery, etc?
health screenings
Like food service workers, medical professionals, etc?
You mean like at a bar, club, or social security office?
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Originally posted by pgwenthold
They are all examples of jobs that require regular drug testing, health checkups, and protection from customers. At least to some extent.
You said you didn't trust occupations like that.
I said that I didn't trust doctors and pilots? Where? Why would I say that? I have trusted them with my life!
OK, you did not get my point which is:
Doctors and pilots are tested because it is very important that they are not under the influence when they fly a plane or perform open-heart surgery. Professional athletes are tested because they are suspected of having a reason to cheat.
Why are prostitutes checked?
1) Because they are a risk group. They may get infected with HIV from their johns or from needles.
2) They might pass it on to the johns.
3) They may have reason to hide this from johns or pimps/employers (because they may lose their job).
4) They may want to take drugs because they cannot stand having to do the things they have to do.
And 5): They need security guards because the people they have to deal with may pose a threat to them.
Well-ordered working conditions? Do these things make it sound like a pleasant profession? Not in my opinion ...
 
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Originally posted by dann
The problem seems to be that you cannot do basic arithmetic. I have heard this explanation before, and it is still wrong: The consumer gets neither an extra $40 or, more correctly, an extra $10, because HE'S BEEN MADE REDUNDANT! He already lost his job, and he hasn't even got the money he used to have.
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Originally posted by toddjh
You'd think the entire population of the United States and much of Europe would be unemployed by now, then. Strangely enough, that hasn't happened.
Somehow, just as technology and automation render certain jobs obsolete, they manage to create new jobs at the same time. Who would've guessed that would happen?

Please don't leave out the context. What I wrote was an answer to this rather naive notion:

"The problem seems to be that you have no clue about how a capitalist economy. If something cost $50 to produce before, but now costs $40, what do you think the consumer will do with that extra $40? They will spend it on something else, which means that the jobs are not lost."

Maybe you haven't heard, but sometimes a lot of people are made redundant, unemployed, jobless - and therefore poor, homeless etc. Sometimes 'they' don't "manage to create new jobs at the same time.
Who would have guessed that would happen?
Well, I, for one, would!
 
dann said:
No, it is demonstrably true! It depends: When a company introduces new technology to turn out more goods using fewer workers, it may simply lay off the rest - or it may become more competitive and hire more people (again).

Okay, so that's one company. Meanwhile, another company has used a technological advance to create a whole new industry, creating many more jobs. I'm a computer programmer. There weren't many of us 50 years ago.

My point was: technological improvement in a market economy doesn't take place because the workers are going to benefit from it. And very often they don't!

More often they do. I have yet to see you respond to the fact that quality of life is much, much higher for both the average person and the poor than it was mere decades ago. Isn't that, along with relatively flat unemployment rates, proof that what you are saying is not completely accurate?

Apparently you've never heard about people in the real world being laid off as a result of industrial rationalization. OK, then you haven't.

Sure I have. It can be a pain, as any economic transition is. But they find another job eventually. A better one, if history is any indication -- jobs in developed countries today are, in general, much safer and more pleasant than in the past.

(And, by the way, it wasn't a "synonym". And, no, I won't hold it against you from now on.)

Ah, homonym. Sorry, I've been typing a lot today and my brain is fried.

I don't know what underwear and stealing has to do with this.

It's a joke. It refers to any situation where there is a clear goal coupled with an extremely ill-defined plan for achieving it. You keep referring to "eliminating poverty" without any good suggestions for how we might do that.

I'm not in favour of the circumstances that force these alternatives on people.

I don't think anyone is. I simply think "eliminate poverty" is an inadequate response to the issue.

Let me, with no irony, assure you that I'm very glad that you write "also"!

Well, contrary to what you think, there are people who would be prostitutes even though they could find decent work elsewhere. Like I said in my first post in this thread, I know two of them personally. I do, however, agree with you that such is not the case for vast majority of them.

Edited to add: I should add that I agree with the other posters who point out that, if poverty were somehow eliminated, that would simply result in the wages of prostitutes increasing to the point where it would attract more people and fill the void. Very few people would have sex with multiple strangers for fun, but there are some who would do it for enough money.

I DO NOT SAY: PROSTITUTION BAD, WAITRESSING GOOD!!! OK?! Please don't confuse me with the people who do!

But you speak of wanting to abolish prostitution, but not wanting to abolish waitressing. Why the dichotomy?

Jeremy
 
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Originally posted by toddjh
Hmm? I think "it can't possibly get any worse" is one of the best arguments for making changes. It means you have nothing to lose.
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Originally posted by dann
It's a very bad argument. It sounds as if you don't know what you're doing, you don't know if your solution is going to work, but you might as well try to do something, since "it can't possibly get any worse".
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pgwenthold said:
Strawman. There have been many arguments made about why legalizing prostitution would make the situation better. The fact that it won't get worse is only provided to address the issue of cost. IOW, EVEN IF none of the benefits come through, the worst we will be is no worse than now. OTOH, there are reasons to believe it will be better.
No strawman, pgwenthold! "It can't possibly get any worse", is an argument that you use when you don't know what is going to happen. Instead of saying, "By introducing this measure, we'll achieve the following results:" or "these are the costs, these are the consequences", you say, "It can't possibly get worse." And it is not a fact that "it" won't get worse. There may be "reasons to believe it will be better", but you don't know. (And I think I have already covered the "many arguments made about why legalizing prostitution would make the situation better".

Your point would be valid if anyone were proposing change for the sake of change. No one is. They are proposing change because there is reason to believe it will help. But even if it doesn't help, it won't hurt, so there is a potential upside and no downside. That's why you do it.
Now you just need to prove the point that "there is a potential upside and no downside". What about the potential downside that politicians may think that if only they see to it that the johns are not infected with HIV then it really doesn't matter much that more women are drawn into the business of prostitution? Or that they. and you too, might think that poverty isn't so bad if we provide some women with the golden opportunity to be hookers - but with a license and medicare?
No, I already know! That is not a downside, is it?!
 
dann said:
No, someone who is starving will say: "I need bread!" I never claimed that this woman was starving, but if you read the text, you'll notice that she needs to pay the rent etc. which is why she needs a lot of money.

You said it was because of poverty, a college student blowing all their money and not being able to make rent isn't poverty. It is more of a case of poor planning. If she planned ahead, she could of gotten roommates, looked for a job, moved in with a friend, budgeted better, etc.
 
dann said:
No, apparently her boyfriend had emptied her bank account.
But you don't really want to make an effort at finding out what you are talking about, are you?

Again, that is her own problem, if she gave him access, then its poor judgement and planning, if he broke in, then it is a proscecutable crime.
 
toddjh said:

Step 1: Steal underwear.
Step 2: ?
Step 3: Eliminate poverty.

Again, why do you focus on prostitution exclusively? Would you say you are also in favor of abolishing waiting tables, or working at the cash register at Wal-Mart? Those are also jobs that people would only take when they need money. What's the difference, except that you find prostitution more distasteful personally? I'd really like an answer to this.

Jeremy

[edited to add, if not already clear, this reply is mixed up with the wrong post]

All you have to do is look to the DPRK and Cuba as a model. If they weren't unfairly embargod by evil world leaders, and were allowed to freely trade with capitalist countries, they'd be a utopia, duh.
 
dann said:
Denmark and Germany are not particularly corrupt, I think.

Then in a legal buisness, people can be prosecuted for extortion, blackmail, abuse, working conditions, etc. If the situation exists and is being purposefully overlooked, then you have corruption.
 
dann said:
And that would help prostitutes how?
(We could go into a discussion of political dissidents in Cuba, but maybe we should take it to another thread then?)

It would go a long way towards lifting embargos.
 
toddjh said:
But you speak of wanting to abolish prostitution, but not wanting to abolish waitressing. Why the dichotomy?
I'll get back to the rest of your lates post tomorrow.
For now:
No, I don't speak of not wanting to abolish waitressing! I'm the one who brought the attention to other crappy jobs in the first place. However, this started as a thread about how much fun it is to be a prostitute, not a waitress.
 
dann said:
I'll get back to the rest of your lates post tomorrow.
For now:
No, I don't speak of not wanting to abolish waitressing! I'm the one who brought the attention to other crappy jobs in the first place. However, this started as a thread about how much fun it is to be a prostitute, not a waitress.

You can settle this whole thing by saying one sentence: "I would like to see waitressing abolished." That would clear everything up.

Jeremy
 
RussDill said:
You said it was because of poverty, a college student blowing all their money and not being able to make rent isn't poverty. It is more of a case of poor planning. If she planned ahead, she could of gotten roommates, looked for a job, moved in with a friend, budgeted better, etc.
She wasn't even a student, and she didn't blow her money, read the text!!!
 
RussDill said:
Then in a legal buisness, people can be prosecuted for extortion, blackmail, abuse, working conditions, etc. If the situation exists and is being purposefully overlooked, then you have corruption.
Thank you for the information. I can't see what it's got to do with anything, but still ...
 
dann said:
I guess the poor bastards with their plastic cups that I have to pass every day on my way to work are just enjoying their lifestyle. What a comforting thought!

I don't know much about denmark, but I understand that unlike france and germany, it has fairly low unemployment, around 5 or 6%, which is equatable to what we have here. And yes, here to we have a small number of people with cardboard signs on the side of the road asking for cash. We also have people in the parking lot of the building supplies store (home depot) waiting for work. The people in the home depot parking lot invarably get work, and many probably go on to obtain jobs. The people with the sign invarably get cash.

The sad thing is, the people with the sign on the side of the road are usually getting more cash than the people working for under the table cash. The poor bastard with the plastic cup is looking for a handout, rather than a job, and is likely mentally ill, alchoholic, or have a drug problem. These people need professional help, not cash.


And of course you are "not a heartless bastard who doesn't believe in helping underpriveledged children just because they are less underpriveledged".

I realize that the statements I made could be interpted as saying that they are not deserving of charity.
 

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