Please list the similarities you see.
I thought I have-- repeatedly. The information that gets a toehold (because it works or because it's environment doesn't kill it off) sticks around to be added to, honed, and recombined. Both involve incremental addition and exponential spread of information.
Do you understand how artificial selection is similar to natural selection (some life forms preferentially survive because of the environment...thus they multiply exponentially...and the information that "makes them" sticks around for possible modification in the future) So there is a preferential increment of certain types of information in given environments. When we eat foods we ensure farmers can make profits off those foods and so they help those life forms preferentially survive... even if they or we are not aware of the fact that we are honing or "evolving" the food genomes of the future.
All airplanes today are built upon the first airplane-- the two wing model...the same basic layout. Consider the design of the first airplane similar to a successful genome (a super friendly wolf and nutritious pest resistant crop). Humans do what they can to make sure there are more because this helps our genomes survive... this happens all the time in nature... without any awareness to the entities involved... leaf cutter ants grow fungus. They are "naturally selecting" for a certain type of fungus' genome to exist and be built on in the future thus ensuring the success of their own genomes. Humans are programmed to ensure that their genes and memes live on two and encourage the preferential survival of other genes and memes (ideas) in the process).
Once information exists in a vector... be it a nozzle, a fungus, or an airplane, it can interact with it's environment...the information within it (it's design) can then be modified, added too, or honed through time with an incremental change towards greater efficiency, use, spreading power, etc.
Religions evolve-- how? The information that has a trick for getting passed on. It tells the vectors, good things will happen if you spread this and bad things will happen if you don't. This allows the information to grow and be refined according to what spreads it best. (Go forth and multiply--god won't give you more than you can handle...) Humans spread this because they are programmed to do things which will make their future better and to trust authority figures--these traits evolved because generally, this is a good trait for making more humans live and spawn more of these traits.
I don't think you will have a problem with the notion that scientific information evolves. What does that mean?--To me ,it means that the stuff that works and is useful and helps us learn more sticks around and is built upon and refined through time, right? Isn't that true of airplane designs? livestock genomes? The best, most useful information spreads widely via other humans in science, technology, math, medicine...etc. so that it can be used, refined, and honed by other humans.
Would you say the internet evolves? Isn't it an example of complexity evolving through bottom up design? Although I may type and people may go on it for their own purposes that they may or may not be aware of, the result is that a complex system evolves without anyone in charge or anyone knowing what will be different 5 years from now-- but certainly it will be more complex. Think of trying to explain youtube, 20 years ago. The internet, like any given genome is an information system growing in complexity through time that seems to fit amazingly well with it's environment almost as if it was created by some intelligent designer so humans could converse with each other!
Evolution is about amassing, replicating, and honing information--and whether that information makes products, technology, computer programs, life forms, religions, or books--
it must grow and be honed through time or it will become obsolete, die out, or be replaced by better information vectors to fill the niche. Selection is about the environment modifying what information sticks around to be built upon, pruned away, mutated, or recombined.
If amazing things could come to be without starting small... without building on what came before-- that would or could be proof of some sort of god or power that we cannot understand. But everything we do observe can be explained by what came just before--it evolved. Good ideas or "tricky" ideas get copied just as good as "good" genomes or genomes with good tricks.
In the nozzle example, did you understand that it was a mindless algorithm that came up with the best nozzle design? That doesn't mean there couldn't be something better-- but the design could only evolve from the designs that were tested in the environment. You can understand how all environments can act similarly in selecting for or against particular designs, right? This is true whether it's an environment of humans picking the best way to get from here to there or an environment of organisms trying to survive and multiply on some speck of planet earth.
I really like it when people intuit this understanding, but I also know that it some cases it's just not possible. I don't know why. And I haven't been able to remedy it in particularly recalcitrant cases. I think that if you can't get the gist of it from my explanations above and cyborg's explanations, and Steven Jones's etc. explanations-- that it just might not be something that you CAN understand. But make no mistake about it, generally speaking, the analogy regarding evolution of technology and the evolution of life HAS helped very many younger people understand natural selection and how evolution can seem "designed" and yet, most decidedly not be.