Soapy sam
I'm sorry if you find my Personality Disorder offensive and amusing. I can asure you it is not amusing to me.
If you know of any teenagers who repeatedly selfharm and attempt suicide i hope that you attempt to help them rather than find their situation amusing.
I also hope that neither you nor anyone in your familty has to live with the effects of a serious mental illness.
Ambermae, if you would go back to my post for a moment and read it carefully, you will observe that I mentioned neither offense nor amusement regarding "your" personality disorder. I do not find anything about your post offensive or amusing. Nor am I obliged to agree with all you say. That's the nature of a discussion board. However, I do apologise if I upset you. That's not my intent any more than it was yours.
I noted that I initially took the concept of "borderline personality disorder" as a joke
diagnosis as I was reading your OP. It became apparent you were not joking, so I googled it and read the NIMH page and saw that it is an actal "disorder" as defined in DSM iv.
This does not mean I am obliged to accept it as correct.
The description on that page reads to me very like behaviour which most of us would associate with teenage years. It sounds very like mine, at least.
I am not convinced that BSD exists as such. That does not mean I doubt you have problems. Either you have, or you have not. if you had not, you would scarcely claim you had here- so I accept that you have been told this is the case and you accept this diagnosis as accurate. You will accept, I hope, that this does not constrain
me to come to the same conclusion.
Everyone has personality problems, depending on definition- excessive shyness, aggressiveness, stupidity,
insufficient aggressiveness, mood swings, a dozen others. Any one of these could be organic, experience related, a symptom of a stroke, neural damage from any cause, response to familial stress, even a cultural mismatch- immigrant kids in strange cultures have many problems which might not exist in the parent culture.
None of this in my opinion (And IANAD) makes it necessarily valid to throw a bag of behavioural characters together and call it a disease.
Where it can be proven that it helps to treat behaviour as a disease, there may be some justification in doing so. But
cui bono? The "patient"? The family? The community?
Personally, I consider the creeping acceptance of behavioural modification- usually involving drug thereapy- to achieve some nebulous behavioural " norm",to be ethically as well as factually questionable.
That's my opinion. If you see it differently, fair enough. There is little so tedious as universal agreement.
You might( with some justification) respond that you have personal evidence, but if you said the same here about (for example) a chiropractic diagnosis, you would be inundated with accusations of anecdotal evidence and demands that you prove your case, simply because most posters here are sceptical of chiropractors. Quite why many posters are less sceptical of psychologists, puzzles me. Again , this may be a cultural difference in behaviour.
Re the dietary question. Do bear in mind that
all responses here-whether they seem to agree with your opinions or disagree, whether they seem friendly or unfiendly, are matters of opinion. Those which appear the friendliest may not always be the most honest. And vice versa.
The person to ask is as always, your doctor.