davefoc
Philosopher
If you want to get more optimistic, it could just be that the self-replicating, near-lightspeed probes have problems that makes them not feasible (aside from a civilization having no good reason to make them). ...
Yes, one thing that gets missed when discussions about how long it takes to get to nearby stars go on is that even without relavistic problems it may just be impossible to travel at speeds that are a significant fraction of the speed of light. It takes an enormous amount of energy to accelerate and decelerate the crafts (chemical rockets are a complete non-starter) and then once you're going that fast you better hope that you don't run into any grains of sand floating around out there, because the energy of the collision is likely to really mess up your whole craft. There also might be significantly more issues with radiation than is generally considered. Based on a Scientific American article a year or so ago it sounds like even the mission to Mars may not be possible because of the radiation.