It fits the category of statutory rape, as set out by the legislature that makes the laws. Crimes are defined in the criminal codes, so yes, it was rape, per Florida's statutory rape statute. Anyway, where do you draw the line? 16, 15, 14? Clearly you are using your own definition or rape, so at what age do you consider sex with a minor non-consensual?
You emphasize that the charge is "sex with a minor" not "rape". Well, it is still a
felony in her state under Florida's statutory rape statute. Now, just because it is a law doesn't make it just, I will give you that. That being said, I'm curious if you think what this woman did anything punishable at all.
How much worse is 16 than 17? I am not much for retributive punishment in the first place, and I doubt if this woman was sentenced to 5 years instead of 22, she would be much of a threat to minors anymore once she got out.
What would you change in the law if you could?