It sounds like you agree with me, then, about sleep and death?
Greetings BillyJoe
Well it is hard to say what is really going on in sleep...but it is the nearest approximation to nothingness.
Which then leads to the thought that perhaps the belief in life after death is associated more with the fact that we wake up every day, from nothingness to somethingness.
I think Paul in the Bible states that he 'dies daily'
I have already mentioned that I would accept this if there was an "opt out" option. However, if it was a choice between eternal life and the limited life span I have now, I would definitely stay with what I have now. My problem is with eternity itself.
Yes - I read those posts after I had replied to TragicMonkey...I had been thinking on it that morning - (that is another thing which happens as I wake up - I quickly forget my dreams (or the bulk of them and become aware of an influx of thoughts - which are related to the symbolism in the dreams and the daily reality of my individual life - and this download of information seems to fit with what unfolds in the day.)
If you could elaborate as to why you have a problem with enternity - think on it and share those thoughts, it would be appreciated.
To me it is like the 'other side of the coin' re: the argument that supposes that all those whom believe in a continuation of Life after the fact, are afraid of eternal nothingness...as it were...
Can you associate this problem with the fact that essentially you are existing within an infinite realm, and in this you may have a problem with life?
Put "nothingness" up against "eternity". Go to sleep and you have "nothingness". It is easy. But "eternity"? I'm not talking about what you do for eternity, I am talking about eternity itself - going on and on and on without end. Can't you see what a horrifying thought it is to never end and know you will never end?
I guess for some that would be horrific, yes. I understand what you are stating here, and the only belief system I would find more horrible is reincarnation, which insist that you eternally come back an experience life as another personality in another body, and worse, you are not 'allowed' to retain any/all of the memory of your past life(s).
Well actually, it wouldn't be so bad if you could reatin all memory of all lives.
Then again, maybe an even nore horrific thing would be to have to endlessly loop through experiencing every single lifes experience of ever single human being who ever has, is and will be.

But seriously, having an eternity of being just you, in the body which is yours now...well how horrible can that be?
Remember, you have an eternal playground in which to explore for eternity...all those Galaxies to visit....
It is very healthy, in my opinion.
In the above, when you refer to "meaning", you actually mean "given meaning". Well, how healthy is a "given meaning". On the other hand, in the absence of a "given meaning", you are free to find your own personal meaning. Now that's healthy!
Yes - and I am sure that is what I am saying. Even James won't denounce educating children to believe in Santa - he prefers the safe ground of denouncing religion and paranormal BS.
So the problem is that Children are born babes and seem to be little vessles in which adults can pour in any manner of information for then to believe.
It is very hard (but not impossoble) for individuals to tip out the crap and refill with pure self.
To decided what significance one wishes to place on ones life experience, is no doubt the most self empowering thing an individual can initiate.
However, in the real world we are faced with the daily barrage of science, religion, culture and politics, telling all us individuals "what it means" - and well, we see the mess that has created, but where is the cleaning up agent?
We all do all the time. When someone loves us not only do we feel it but the evidence is all around us. Kisses, hugs, attention, remembering. And when love goes, the evidence is there also.
Exactly! Yet we cannot SEE what Love is except through the actions and the reactions, and even then it is difficult to say "What Love Is".
In fact, apart from unconditional love, love itself is not that well defined and has many conotations put on it, which some agree with and others do not.
Also, when someone asks you "do you love me?' - you may reply "yes I do" - I tend to reply "Do you love yourself?".
This is because I have learned that no matter how much I may love someone, if they really don;t know how to love themselves, they effectively do not know what love is, and need it from others outside themselves.
This is on the surface, a natural and well rehersed/accepted human trait.
However, any who demand love from and external source, will never be 100% happy with that offering, nor trust it. This is simply because they expect love from others which they cannot provide for themselves.
So I ask "Do you love yourself?"...I get a funny look...and then explain further - "If you do not love yourself, then whether I love you or not, becomes irrelevant....If you cannot love yourself, why would you expect anyone else to love you?
Does that make for me a lonely existence without someone to hug and cuddle and share the awe of life with? (etc)
No.
It just sorts out the 'wheat from the chaff'...as the saying goes.
Believe me when I say that I learned this through the school of hard knocks.
This is the fault, not of science, but of science education.
Well okay - there is plenty of material to rammble on for a lifetime as to 'what is at fault' - what are the solutions?
Well, you can. I disagree.
Love can also be a fantasy, which makes for a hard landing when the evidence becomes incontrovertible that it is not reciprocated.
You see? "Not reciprocated" - see above.
Any love outside yourself is romance until proven otherwise (see what romance signifies in dictionary - it is fantasy)
See also glossy mags, makeup products, blah blah blah...
The real incontrivertable evidence is within the self.
Love the Self.
(this is simplistic - for 'what is Love' that you might Love the self? It is not as evident as you might think...not easy to pin down and scientifically prove a reality.)
Why would science discovering how to keep us alive forever be dependent upon providing reasons?
(I think you are implying that science cannot provide reasons and, if so, I agree with you.)
Exactly! And this is why science cannot be expected to have all the answers, and sure not to criticise the answers which others have applied to their personal journey of Life. (the gift of)
To do so is to over extend 'what science is'.
Science is not in the job of providing reasons for being, or even describing 'what love is'...or what God is.
(or isn't)
It is the old proverbial "The Proof is in the pudding" but even then, if someone says "Guru do you love me" and Guru say's "Yes I do, now get your clothes off..." well where is the real source of the problem?
In the guru, for not exampling God in a proper manner?
In the student for wanting love to prove itself externally?
In God for not finding a phonebox, doing the quick chage routine and busting up the party?
In Science for not proving beyond all doubt that God and love do not exist?
Hey! Would I be far from the truth to suggest that God need not be argued about while humans are still confused about Love?
What meaning could hold up forever, for all eternity. It'd be a matter of living for the moment and trying not to think about this eternity thing. A tall order in my opinion.
Well - funny you say that, for this is really how I am entraining myself awareness to live - in the moment.
Also, (in relation to living forever) your meaning has already established itself.
The meaning of your life is eternal, thus eternity is there for you to place your effect upon.
You are doing this already, but may not be aware of this fact.
A tall order indeed, but methinks it not an impossibly one, yes?
I see the confusion is that you are NOT going to live forever in the body you are currently in, and as such, eternity (which is apparent physically) is something of an enigma - runs against the grain of what you think you are. A mortal who will die and be no more - forever.
The enigma is removed, when one accepts the possibility that one is not necessarily going to the big black nothingness of forever, when one eventually dies.
(Please don't confuse belief in 'life after life' as having anything to do with what the various religions say will BE....I believe in the possibility of continued awareness but have no definition as to WHAT that awareness WILL be...only that it is a possibility worthy of concideration.)
Cheers for your reply