Vixen
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How about we have a proper trial to verify all that? Would that be okay with you?
Maxwell is not being charged with sexual assault or rape.
How about we have a proper trial to verify all that? Would that be okay with you?
And that's the kind of mindset that made British police waste years investigating the completely imaginary murderous homosexual pedophile conspiracy that a perverted pederast (who also falsely claimed to have been sexually abused by Jimmy savile and received compensation for those claims) had invented.
The British Police even went out and publicly said the completely extraordinary claims were true and accurate when they had no evidence whatsoever simply because they didn't want to doubt the supposed victim.
I think it's something that can't be easily distilled into a slogan like "Believe the victim" or "Believe women" as it has come to be said here in the US often. A catchy phrase often oversimplifies.
To me the obligation is twofold--to not contradict the apparent victim in talking to them, at least not before the evidence is in. Treat the victim in interactions as if what they are saying could be true. That does not require assuming the accused is guilty, not legally, not in public statements, not any way.
The other obligation is to investigate it as if it were a sincere report--again, absent specific evidence to the contrary. Do the investigation, get the facts, don't just say, "She's probably just mad because her ex cheated on her" and shelve the case. Maybe someone can contradict me here--I wish someone can... but I get the idea lots of cases wind up foundering from doubts in a way differently than most other crimes, such as someone reporting they've been robbed.
The only person that I ever spoke to online that insisted that "Believe the victim" meant presuming guilt on the person accused, was being deliberately obtuse, and was found bragging elsewhere about pretending to be a feminist to discredit them.
I think it's something that can't be easily distilled into a slogan like "Believe the victim" or "Believe women" as it has come to be said here in the US often. A catchy phrase often oversimplifies.
To me the obligation is twofold--to not contradict the apparent victim in talking to them, at least not before the evidence is in. Treat the victim in interactions as if what they are saying could be true. That does not require assuming the accused is guilty, not legally, not in public statements, not any way.
The other obligation is to investigate it as if it were a sincere report--again, absent specific evidence to the contrary. Do the investigation, get the facts, don't just say, "She's probably just mad because her ex cheated on her" and shelve the case. Maybe someone can contradict me here--I wish someone can... but I get the idea lots of cases wind up foundering from doubts in a way differently than most other crimes, such as someone reporting they've been robbed.
The only person that I ever spoke to online that insisted that "Believe the victim" meant presuming guilt on the person accused, was being deliberately obtuse, and was found bragging elsewhere about pretending to be a feminist to discredit them.
I am surprised FOX NEWS freely used Maxwell's name as having allegedly committed the serious crime of 'gang rape' and abduction, when she hasn't been charged. I am surprised it got past their defamation lawyers. Of course, Maxwell might well be guilty of all this, and more, yet if she gets off, she will be suing the pants of Fox News. The British press don't dare claim Prince Andrew raped the women who alleges he did.
Maxwell's attorney (and Weinstein's) think they may have a case, too. Markus has already written to Nathan to apply for a strike out based on the same principle as the Cosby case/ No two cases are the same but they are giving it a try anyway.
You say Epstein gave nothing in return. In fact, he paid put a huge sum of money in compensation to his accusers in exchange. (= 'Settled'.)
This.
You never see a burglary victim or a home invasion victim or the victim of a brutal beating have the police doubt their story from the get-go, yet the victims of rape are often doubted right from the start. Why? Because the evidence for the former is obvious the moment you walk in the door or look at the victim, while the evidence for the latter is invisible, subtle, complicated and difficult to get to.
The "doubting" of rape and spousal battery comes from a time when "just a domestic dispute" and "she was asking for it dressed like that" and "she is promiscuous, what did she expect" were the prevalent lines of thought both among law enforcement and members of the public. It seems that some members of this forum are still living in those times, holding those values and beliefs.
In the case of a sudden attack by a random stranger, that isn't normalised, and there is no emotional stuff going on,
Are we supposed to assume that any and all allegations are true until proven false, even in the absence of any actual evidence?
If there is zip, how can police solve it?
In the case of a sudden attack by a random stranger, that isn't normalised, and there is no emotional stuff going on, so it is hard to see why it is not reported timeously.
This.
You never see a burglary victim or a home invasion victim or the victim of a brutal beating have the police doubt their story from the get-go, yet the victims of rape are often doubted right from the start. Why? Because the evidence for the former is obvious the moment you walk in the door or look at the victim, while the evidence for the latter is invisible, subtle, complicated and difficult to get to.
The "doubting" of rape and spousal battery comes from a time when "just a domestic dispute" and "she was asking for it dressed like that" and "she is promiscuous, what did she expect" were the prevalent lines of thought both among law enforcement and members of the public. It seems that some members of this forum are still living in those times, holding those values and beliefs.
I am hoping that claim is not what it appears to be.In the case of a sudden attack by a random stranger, that isn't normalised, and there is no emotional stuff going on, so it is hard to see why it is not reported timeously.
...what?
In before Maxwell did nothing wrong because Giuffre was already on that path due to tragic life experience.
...what?

Stop feiging incomprehension. If someone came up to you in the street and assaulted you, you would have no reason not to report it to the police straight way.
Feigning? Your wording seemed to imply that people who are raped by strangers aren't emotionally shaken by their experience. You're not as clear as you think you are.
And you're wrong. There are reasons, even if you can't fathom them. It's irrelevant to the discussion.
Feigning? Your wording seemed to imply that people who are raped by strangers aren't emotionally shaken by their experience. You're not as clear as you think you are.
And you're wrong. There are reasons, even if you can't fathom them. It's irrelevant to the discussion.
Of course people are shaken by the experience. However, you won't get revenge on the perp unless you report it.