Fundamentalism and Children


Thanks, six7s. I suspect that Meadmaker does not want to believe that a president of the USA would hold this position because it would undermine his case severely. Add to that his admission that this apalling bias most likely was handed down by his parents like a genetic malaise and there's no issue that religious indoctrination of children is doing harm not only to said children but to the rest of us as well.
 
There's something I want to say about qayak that is positive. He's honest about this topic, and that's a trait that not everyone shares.

Once you accept the "religion is child abuse" meme, his proposal is a very short logical leap. Indeed, it's almost unavoidable. If you really believe that a parent teaching religion to his kids is child abuse, then clearly something ought to be done about it. His proposal is about as modest as you can get. There's not much less that one could do.

That doesn't mean I think it's any saner than I said earlier. It's still utterly ridiculous and would overthrow religious freedom in any country where it was implemented. I'm just saying that everyone who supports the idea that teaching religion is child abuse is saying practically the same thing he's saying. He is intellectually honest.
 
Thanks, six7s. I suspect that Meadmaker does not want to believe that a president of the USA would hold this position because it would undermine his case severely. Add to that his admission that this apalling bias most likely was handed down by his parents like a genetic malaise and there's no issue that religious indoctrination of children is doing harm not only to said children but to the rest of us as well.

If you want to start a thread about GHWB, please do. I'll participate there.
 
Homeopathic remedies are either water, ethanol or sugar pills. In the amounts they are given by homeopaths they are all totally harmless.

I think most sceptics of homeopathy object to the promotion of the idea of it being effective. Would you object if homeopathy was taught at school?

While I agree that ideas cannot be banned, that does not mean that bad ones should be given special respect or protection.

1. I am not arguing for any special respect or protection for any particular ideas and certainly not religion. In my world no ideas deserve special respect aside from ideas that have significant evidentiary backing. Religion gets the basic respect that all ideas have -- you have the right to believe it and the government can't stop you from believing it as long as it hurts no one. I have the right to mock any and all ideas that I find silly.

2. The harm that homeopathy poses is that it promotes itself as protecting health at the expense of other actually useful medical remedies. There was a time when it was actually quite beneficial -- when our medical remedies killed more people than they cured -- because sometimes doing nothing is better than acting. Now it is just dumb.

3. I would object to homeopathy being taught at school as an effective means of treating disease just as I would object to anyone wanting to teach that man never walked on the moon or that life was intelligently designed as a scientific theory.

4. This thread concerns the idea that teaching religion constitutes child abuse. I have seen no evidence that it does, and I object to using the same word to describe the teaching of religion that describes the nightly rape of an eight year old by her alcoholic uncle.
 
You're welcome! I'm off your Ignore List? Pity. I was very happy there.
I occasionally click on some ignored posts to see if that person has changed. Sometimes they have. I felt your point regarding the word 'indoctrination' was worth responding to.

Point rejected. The meaning pf that word does not vary at all in this or any discussion. The word indoctrination involves coercion and negative reinforcement. It does not mean the same as education, as you are are about to argue.
Actually, I was just pointing out how the word has been defined by some regular participants in these discussions. I don't mind referring to a religious upbringing as indoctrination. It is. I simply don't share your opinion that such indoctrination impedes their ability to make a different choice when they are adult.
Yes, people like me use the word to describe what religious upbrining is. It's not education. It's active and relentless inculcation of the weak and vulnerable into a system of self-deceit and tribalism. Your attempts to sugar-coat it are useless. Most of us have been through it and know first hand what it is.
I'm sorry if you have a difficult childhood and feel your parents should have been restrained from raising you in the manner you were raised. But I have my own first hand experiences of such an upbringing and they differ significantly from yours despite overt similiarities in the religion. Do you think you can identify what it is that made your experiences abusive and your parents deserving of fines or prison for what they did to you as opposed to what my parents did to me, which I consider to be a loving upbringing making their best effort to do a good job, but making a few mistakes as well.

Another straw man. Nowhere did I say it was impossible to escape it. I did. Many Forum members have. You haven't seemed to. Your fuzzy-headed arguments belie any such claim. First, you claim that the lexicon is exactly what you mean it to be and no more. Then, you put words in other people's mouths. Then you proceed to fashion arguments that are so circular that they can only come from someone who subscribes to the unending mantra "Yes Jesus loves me. The bible tells me so."
Sigh. I guess this will be a short conversation. I'm sorry you feel that way about my posts. I'll try not to respond to you again.
Yes, it absolutely does. You can prove it to yourself. You claim to be statistician, right? Wouldn't it be easier for you to compare the relative distribution of faiths today and twenty years ago? If they are roughly similar, then the evidence does indeed, doubtlessly point in that direction. Instead, you'd rather inundate us with words and excuses.

Actually no, that data wouldn't imply what you think, because it doesn't take into account how often and how many people change over time. You could have every person changing at least once during their lives and that wouldn't necessarily affect the proportion. It would be supportive evidence, but it's not proof because if the changes occur at equal rates - i.e. for every 100 people who convert to catholism, 100 cathlics convert to other religions with equal proportions.

A more serious problem is that worldwide, religious freedom is not a reality. Differences in the climate of religious freedom in various countries would also affect those proportions. However, we could look at just the US where religious freedom is part of our founding constitution. So, does the data for the US support your contention? Let's see:

At this site: http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_prac2.htm, we find the following information:

The shift away from Christianity and other organized religions:


The United States appears to be going through an unprecedented change in religious practices. Large numbers of American adults are disaffiliating themselves from Christianity and from other organized religions. Since World War II, this process had been observed in other countries, like the U.K., other European countries, Australia, Canada, and New Zealand.
eta: I find it interesting that the others countries that have experienced this trend also have a climate of religious freedom similar to the US. None of them forbid parents from raising their children in whatever religion they choose.
And also this:
Retaining the young:

It is common for young adults to drift away from the faith group of their youth. Some never return. The large liberal and mainline Christian denominations seem to lose large numbers in this way. Only between 10 and 12% of those identifying with the Congregational, Episcopalian, Methodist, Presbyterian, and United Church denominations are between the ages of 18 and 29. Islam and Buddhism appear to fare the best in this area; 56 and 58% of persons identifying with these religions are in this age group.

So, it seems that the distribution of faiths in the US over the past few decades has indeed been changing significantly and that young adults are quite likely to leave their parent's faith. To me, this is evidence that implies that despite having being religiously raised, people are able to freely choose otherwise as adults.
 
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1. I am not arguing for any special respect or protection for any particular ideas and certainly not religion. In my world no ideas deserve special respect aside from ideas that have significant evidentiary backing. Religion gets the basic respect that all ideas have -- you have the right to believe it and the government can't stop you from believing it as long as it hurts no one. I have the right to mock any and all ideas that I find silly.

Ok.

2. The harm that homeopathy poses is that it promotes itself as protecting health at the expense of other actually useful medical remedies. There was a time when it was actually quite beneficial -- when our medical remedies killed more people than they cured -- because sometimes doing nothing is better than acting. Now it is just dumb.

I agree. Belief in homeopathy is dumb.

3. I would object to homeopathy being taught at school as an effective means of treating disease just as I would object to anyone wanting to teach that man never walked on the moon or that life was intelligently designed as a scientific theory.

So you object to these ideas being put in children's heads as "truth"?

4. This thread concerns the idea that teaching religion constitutes child abuse. I have seen no evidence that it does, and I object to using the same word to describe the teaching of religion that describes the nightly rape of an eight year old by her alcoholic uncle.

I agree that the example you give of mental/physical abuse is more severe in its consequences than most religious indoctrination, but I still think frightening children with stories of hell and eternal torment so they conform is abuse and should be actively discouraged.
 
I'm sorry, but according to US law children who are unable to consent are at the mercy of what their parents think is best. For some reason parents are automatically assumed to be the best people to decide what is best for their child.

Yes, just so long as there are no APA reports defining it as abuse-- and anyone who says otherwise is a fascist meddlesome busybody trying to subvert parental authority. A parent can actually be fined if their child is habitually truant-- but if someone suggests fining parents for threatening kids with hell-- egads!

I wish the government did not recognize any divine authority--that is the way to truly stay out of things. And then exorcisms and other abuses in the name of religion would be looked at just at face value... if practices caused fear or ignorance or suffering, then people would be forced to demonstrate their positive value-- it would certainly lessen the increasing abuse of power by those exploiting the "faith is good" meme. It sugarcoats ugliness aking to treating the young Nazis as wholesome good fun. I just think that those making the most noise are protecting something they don't want to discuss. Wouldn't most people be willing to give up some of their indoctrination of children rights if it meant fewer religious abuses over all-- fewer fundies, fewer Fred Phelps clans, few madrases, fewer cults, fewer polygamous child brides, less pedophilia clergy... All this bluster covers a lot of sins for the protection of what exactly? And whom? Children are "other people" who shouldn't be threatened with religious bogeyman, aren't they?
 
So you object to these ideas being put in children's heads as "truth"?

Of course. I never said that I didn't object to religion being put into people's heads as 'truth' either. I just don't think the government should be in the business of deciding what stories parents can tell their children. My objection to indoctrination does not mean that I think it is abuse. I do not think it is abuse.

I agree that the example you give of mental/physical abuse is more severe in its consequences than most religious indoctrination, but I still think frightening children with stories of hell and eternal torment so they conform is abuse and should be actively discouraged.

Then I guess we will have to agree to disagree. I reserve the word 'abuse' for severe conditions. I think it begins to lose meaning when applied in the way it is being applied in this thread. To me religious indoctrination is something to which I object. I find some forms of it offensive not abusive.
 
In some cases, yes. JW's and blood transfusions? Catholics and Condoms?

Yes, and you can be prosecuted in Canada for sexual assault if you knowingly have unprotected sex while infected with HIV and not informing your partner.

Laws intrude on personal lives all the time--especially when it comes to the health and well being of the community at large. When kids are made ignorant, bigoted, fearful, and pregnant is part or in whole due to religion-- society pays. Bush's god told him to go to war-- a lot of people pay for that-- all tax payers pay-- people die... but nobody questions the whole deference to faith thing no matter how egregious the abuses--

Forever people protect the right to claim a special dispensation from god so that they don't have to answer to the public and other humans. No government entity should recognize or give any special credence or deference to ANY religious claim. Treat all as you would any other dogma proffered as "higher truth". Is it harmless? Then why worry? Is it helpful? Where's the evidence? What exactly is helpful? Can't faith stand up to a little scrutiny? What are people really afraid of? The government can't really stop people from praying and inflicting their beliefs on children, but the public has a vested interest in policing and protecting children from the more harmful practices.
 
Of course. I never said that I didn't object to religion being put into people's heads as 'truth' either. I just don't think the government should be in the business of deciding what stories parents can tell their children. My objection to indoctrination does not mean that I think it is abuse. I do not think it is abuse.



Then I guess we will have to agree to disagree. I reserve the word 'abuse' for severe conditions. I think it begins to lose meaning when applied in the way it is being applied in this thread. To me religious indoctrination is something to which I object. I find some forms of it offensive not abusive.

Do you find no forms of it abusive? What about kids told they are possessed? What about kid told that the devil planted bones to trick them? Just as we give up some privileges while going through security for the supposed good of the whole, wouldn't you be willing to give up some extra latitude you would never use to keep some kids from having religious abuses inflicted upon them due to the current notion that faith must not be scrutinized by outsiders?
 
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Then I guess we will have to agree to disagree. I reserve the word 'abuse' for severe conditions. I think it begins to lose meaning when applied in the way it is being applied in this thread. To me religious indoctrination is something to which I object. I find some forms of it offensive not abusive.

The example you gave was of sexual abuse.

What would you class as psychological abuse?
 
Do you find no forms of it abusive? What about kids told they are possessed? What about kid told that the devil planted bones to trick them? Just as we give up some privileges while going through security for the supposed good of the whole, wouldn't you be willing to give up some extra latitude you would never use to keep some kids from having religious abuses inflicted upon them under the notion that faith must not be scrutinized by outsiders?

I would find any religion based on the idea that the child personally was the cause of all the evil in the world and not worthy to be kept alive abusive. It is hard for ideas themselves to be abusive, but there are lines that definitely cross into abuse. I think that would qualify.

The examples you gave? As to the devil planting dinosaur bones, no, I would not classify that as abuse. It's plenty dumb but not abusive.

If the kid was told that he was possessed and put under signficant bodily stress during an exorcism as a result and/or denied effective medical care, then, yes that is clearly abuse.
 
Actually, I was just pointing out how the word has been defined by some regular participants in these discussions. I don't mind referring to a religious upbringing as indoctrination. It is. I simply don't share your opinion that such indoctrination impedes their ability to make a different choice when they are adult.

They you simply don't know what you're writing about. Indoctrination is antithetical to free choice. :boggled:

I'm sorry if you have a difficult childhood and feel your parents should have been restrained from raising you in the manner you were raised. But I have my own first hand experiences of such an upbringing and they differ significantly from yours despite overt similiarities in the religion. Do you think you can identify what it is that made your experiences abusive and your parents deserving of fines or prison for what they did to you as opposed to what my parents did to me, which I consider to be a loving upbringing making their best effort to do a good job, but making a few mistakes as well.

That portion of my post had nothing to do with my personal experience or whatever claptrap you're feeding your children. You evasion is noted.

Sigh. I guess this will be a short conversation. I'm sorry you feel that way about my posts. I'll try not to respond to you again.

Not short enough for me. I merely wanted to tell you that I find your posts nearly incomprehensible in their circularity and lack of definition. Work on it. In the meantime, I don't mind not hearing from you again.

Actually no, that data wouldn't imply what you think, because it doesn't take into account how often and how many people change over time. You could have every person changing at least once during their lives and that wouldn't necessarily affect the proportion. It would be supportive evidence, but it's not proof because if the changes occur at equal rates - i.e. for every 100 people who convert to catholism, 100 cathlics convert to other religions with equal proportions.

This is a perfect exmple of evasion. I proposed that you do a historical study of the distribution of credos from one generation to another because, earlier, you had stated that people tend to stick with the religion they were taught. Now, you're arguing that's not true because faith in the USA is a chaotic system. It can't be both at the same time. So, are you now admitting that you were wrong in that the reason people stick with the same religion voluntarily or is it because of lingering childhood coercion?

BTW, any argument by you that the distribution of adherent in the USA, a characteristic that is non-random, is variable due to infinite degrees of freedom (chaotic) does you little service as a competent statistician. Weather is more random than religious belief but it's not chaotic. (That's just an example, dear. Time to hit the books again, huh?)

A more serious problem is that worldwide, religious freedom is not a reality. Differences in the climate of religious freedom in various countries would also affect those proportions. However, we could look at just the US where religious freedom is part of our founding constitution. So, does the data for the US support your contention? Let's see:

At this site: http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_prac2.htm, we find the following information:

eta: I find it interesting that the others countries that have experienced this trend also have a climate of religious freedom similar to the US. None of them forbid parents from raising their children in whatever religion they choose.

I'm stunned by your dishonesty. Really. I went to your link and you really should switch careers to cherry-harvester. The author there (borrowing freely from a study) is making a broad generalization. In the past eleven years, the number of self-described christians has dropped rougly six percent. Really, that small a drop shouldn't effect the experiment I proposed very much, if at all. It also belies your fantasy that kids don't strongly adhere to the nonsense they were indoctrinated in.

So, it seems that the distribution of faiths in the US over the past few decades has indeed been changing significantly and that young adults are quite likely to leave their parent's faith. To me, this is evidence that implies that despite having being religiously raised, people are able to freely choose otherwise as adults.

No, not significantly. You are deluded. Please, please, please put me back on your Ignore List. You claimed that you would win over people with whom you disagree by patiently winning them over with logic, I find that your use of the IL is hypocritical. However, I have no need of corresponding wth people who misrepresent the facts, either.
 
Same idea. It would need to be very severe to qualify as abuse. Telling someone that they and they alone are completely worthless and not worthy of life is abuse.

See, I think using "Just you wait until your father gets home!" is nasty and should be discouraged, so I think there is a wide gap between what you and I would consider abuse.

Anyhow, I'm off to bed.
 

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