ravdin
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It appears to me he was punished for bringing a gun to school. If he told the teachers he found the gun in the hallway and decided to turn it in and got suspended, then he'd be getting punished solely for turning in a gun. But that's not what happened, right?
He was punished for bringing a gun to school. Claiming it was an accident and turning it in... Maybe they didn't believe him. Maybe they thought he decided to turn it in because one of the other kids saw it and was threatening to tell. We don't know that.
I get it, people are arguing the school went overboard. If the school had said, "Okay you made a mistake you owned up to, we'll overlook it this time," I'd be fine with that too.
If he was my son I would tell him, "This doesn't prove adults are crazy, this proves the school does not want guns, even toy guns, being brought into the school. They're not going to tolerate it." I would explain to him that some little boys like him have been hurt by kids that brought guns to school. That the school has decided they will punish anyone who brings a real gun or a toy gun into the school building.
First of all, he was punished for bringing a toy to school. If he had really brought a gun to school, I'd be all for a zero tolerance punishment whether he turned himself in or not.
Secondly, the school needn't have overlooked the incident. There's a lot of room to take corrective action between doing nothing and a suspension. Zero tolerance just means that next time, he might as well not say anything since the result will be the same whether he's busted or he tries to do the right thing.
I'm a parent too and if that happened at school I'd be raising hell, whether or not it was my kid.