Not only is it screwing the people up, the accusations are screwing up the reputations of innocent people.
My other friend who doesn't remember but "knows" thinks her father sexually molested her when she was two years old. No evidence at all but she tells the entire world that this is true. I think it is repulsive.
I do think that unacknowledged trauma can cause people to seek out attention. I've found in my own life times where I want people to understand that I was traumatized when most people don't "get it."...
This is the truly horrible thing about this therapeutic fraud. Somebody with real problems stemming from real abuse may just as easily be absorbed into conspiracy theory and delusion as the product of bad therapy. After all, if you remember being abused as you were, who knows what you might be "repressing"? Soon, you'll have all new traumas to reconcile. And the level of indoctrination is frightening. When I try to point out the errors and irrationality of Recovered Memory Therapies to those who have been told that they've repressed their traumas, they all use the same language to dismiss.
1) They claim that my argument is abusive, and thus "triggering". Therefore it is in their best interests to not even consider what I am saying. Triggering, in the PTSD sense, is meant to define anything that acts as a cue to trigger uncomfortable memories, or cause a flashback in the damaged individual. It has been co-opted by Dissociative Disorder experts in multiple personalities to create an impenetrable shield against any information that might make them reconsider their position.
2) They accuse me having an "agenda". Of course, we all have agendas when we present an argument. Sometimes our agenda is nothing more than wanting the truth to be known and to see people stop getting hurt by misinformation. But that's not what they mean. This is their way of leveling the tired accusation that I am, in fact, protecting perpetrators of abuse.
3) They protest that the critics of DID/MPD have not worked in the "field", meaning they've never given therapy to the DID/MPD afflicted. Strictly speaking, this isn't true. People like Paul McHugh have taken on such clients and when he failed to humor their personality changes, they simply stopped.
4) They provide a lengthy laundry list of citations to studies "proving" the phenomenon. Never mind that the studies are almost always retrospective surveys of those who already had a belief in the phenomenon, and the others are often bad data, or data manipulated into false conclusions. Harrison Pope and Richard McNally have painstakingly documented the glaring flaws in all of the major studies.
Behind closed doors and protected by client privilege, these therapists feed people delusion as well as the dysfunctional thinking tools with which to ignore encroachments of logic.
Re-writing the autobiographical memory is the most powerful indoctrination tool. Most people don't realize, but Scientology, with its own "auditing" searches of of early (even pre-birth) traumas, is essentially this type of psychotherapy cult.
I'm very sorry to hear about your past, but I'm extremely proud to see you've kept your wits.