I again asked my spouse how she would feel if there were a raccoon picture with or around the 'coon.'
She pretty much immediately said "that wouldn't be a problem." We discussed further. It comes down to that making the association visually connected to a raccoon there would be little room to think it was the racial slur.
We discussed still further. I asked "What if they put a picture of a random white guy connected to the 'coon'" No problem, as it would also be associating the word purposely with a white person thus not racist.
If it were a picture of a random black person, get out the pitchforks.
Then I brought up 'Uncle Bens' and 'Aunt Jamima', and these to her are not racist because they were fixtures in her childhood home. Her child reasoning was that her mom used them so didn't think they were racist. *OR* they were inexpensive. Either way, since she grew up with them with positive associations in childhood, not racist.
My wife is an enigma.
Sorry to tell you but she sounds quite normal! Bit of a saint putting up with your questions....
But seriously she sounds like most reasonable folk, doesn't give this sort of thing more than a second worth of thought most of the time and if Aunt Jemina's picture changes she will probably just think "Oh that's what Mr The Greater Fool was wittering on about last month. Nice picture"
