I don't really know your position, im confused.
Can you explain it?
with no links or quotes or anything, just in your own words as that would be helpful.
Something of a follow-up from my last response to you. Which turns on the differences between what it takes to qualify as members of particular categories, and the stereotypes that are associated with, or are typical of those categories and members of them.
For example, consider this Jewish joke -- told in my own words ...
https://boghossian.substack.com/p/a-moral-quandary/comment/67286227Reminds me of a Jewish joke -- once told by evolutionary biologist Jerry Coyne, a secular Jew himself:
[Question:] What is a moral quandary to a Jew?
[Answer:] A sign in a butcher shop window saying, "free ham" ...
The joke, of course, turns on a perception that the typical Jew anathematizes eating pork, though he, being cheap, would be challenged to put that aside if he could get it for free.
But there's a difference between, on the one hand, what it takes to qualify as a Jew -- ethnic or racial minority with some somewhat vague criteria for "tribal" membership -- and, on the other hand, traits that are more or less typical of members of that tribe. Cheapness not being seen as unique to Jews -- for example, how many is a Scotch handful? Three ...
SAME thing with male and female. Human males -- AKA, "men" -- are typically some four inches taller than human females -- AKA, "women". But that some women are taller than some men does not mean that they are "really men", that they were "born in the wrong body".
And likewise with many other differences between men and women. For example, far more men than women in prison for violent crimes of one sort or another, rape and murder in particular. But that doesn't mean that there aren't any violent women. For example (sorry for the quote ...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monster_(2003_film)The film follows serial killer Aileen Wuornos, a street prostitute who murdered seven of her male clients between 1989 and 1990 and was executed in Florida in 2002.
The differences between sex and gender: traits that define a category versus those that are typical of, but not unique to members of them. But, scientifically speaking, one can't really determine which traits are more typical of one category than another -- for example, males versus females -- if one doesn't have clear and unambiguous definitions for the categories in question.