According to what?
You are suggesting that an individuate consciousness has no say in the matter. You are also suggesting that what is really happening is not what everyone thinks is actually happening.
So then you are also unable to say what is actually happening, therefore what you do say is actually happening isn't also actually happening because you have distorted everything that actually happens, and not eve on purpose.
That fills me with a joyous urge to chuckle.
ETA bold to the typo. (missing 'n' on end)
It is correct that we, as individuals, have no say in our mechanism of memory or how accurate it might be. Memory is an evolved biological function of the brain. As such it serves a purpose, but it is far from infallible. This has been demonstrated many times by researchers, experts in memory. Just read the links posted up thread. The science is very clear.

