Why do I need anything to compare my experiences with?
It's very telling how much you fight against any sort of external standards.
You really are all but coming out and saying "I want to make stuff up."
You are right. If you compare your "experiences" against anyone else's you might learn that they don't fit the facts. Can't have that now can we?
And again the question as to why if you don't feel the need to "compare your experiences" then why you are discussing them.
Why are you arguing with figments of your imagination?