All,
OK, I've found myself stooping to beating up on Humber which I promised I wouldn't do!
I have to confess I haven't seen the beatings because I'm not keeping up with the thread very well at all. But I'll take your word for it. And to put it in perspective, try and imagine enduring humber for a couple of years. Now try and imagine that you are the focus of his lies and hatred. I hope you can see why I would have long since lost all patience with him.
I still owe you a review of your long post. My apologies for the delay.