My children are all very smart; I don't have any doubts about their ability to learn the stuff they need to know. And I think everyone learns it eventually anyway.
Ding to the ding ding. My highlighting. I think this becomes less true with advancing age/education, but as a general principle, in my view, simply providing an environment conducive to learning is one of the most important pieces of the pie.
I've long maintained that the social function of schools (up to and including colleges) is at least as important as the educational function.
You betcha'. I completely agree, school is as important (if not more) for social development than it is for intellectual development. I (as a full-fledged, card-carrying nerd) remember precious little biology that I learned in high school. However, I could write volumes about the social customs I ********** up, er,
learned about, in the same time.
School teaches you how to behave with the other members of the ant hill. Which long gave me reservations about homeschooling...
I have taught a lot of environmental ed programs to home school groups (and groups from public and private schools) over the years. I have had at least passing experience with the entire gamut, from kids wearing homemade dresses who recited bible verses before lunch to pink-haired 9 year olds with Che Guevara t-shirts and attitudes. As much as some of them annoy me, my experience has been remarkably unremarkable. Most are as well adjusted as any 9 or 15 year old is, which is to say, not at all. Jokes aside, they do not seem to me, to be any more socially awkward than the great unwashed lot of them.
Long before I started teaching, I would naively opine that homeschooled children were missing a social component of their education. While I remain convinced that this is a distinct possibility, I think that the modern trend is moving towards homeschool
groups. This is arguably great for the kids' social development, but kind of defeats the idea of an individualized approach to education. Rather than tailoring the children's education to suit their needs/aptitudes, the parents tend to be overwhelmed by the enormity of the commitment, and tend to go with the flow, and sign up for whatever the group is doing.
This would be a problem, except for my comment above. They will learn what they need to learn (Basics -reading/writing/arithmetic).
We're not sure which is worse - the lack of education or the lack of decent social skills the public schools are responsible for.
I understand your sentiment, but like it or not, your children must learn to deal with the products of the public school system. Not withstanding my comments above (damn, this is a complex issue...) I am glad I went to public school and learned that some people are smart, some people are not, some people are dicks, some people you should avoid, some people are pretty friggin' cool, etc...
but, I guess if I was a part of a homeschool group....