His wife left him, took the kids and headed back home to China, so, yes I guess.
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For me, it is about NOT supporting someone who is reprehensible, or has acted reprehensibly, and not wishing to associate my brand with his.
However, I know his bottom line suffered to the tune of $500 - $1000 per month from me alone, and there were several other retailers who did what I did.
I'm circling back to this. I was pondering last night why your response and your actions bothered me. I don't have any objection to deciding that you don't want to associate with someone because of their behavior or their views, I'm all for it in fact. Freedom of association, belief, etc. is something I value. But your response still left me feeling unsettled and a bit irritated. So I gave it some brain-power and some introspection.
It bothers me, because you took actions to protect your reputation... when your complaint is that the supplier was beating and harming their spouse.
Now, at a glance, that seems okay. What sticks with me and leaves a bit of a bad taste is that you didn't do anything to help the victim. You objected to the supplier causing harm to their spouse... but you didn't get the police involved, you didn't directly confront him, you didn't try to provide the spouse with information and support to leave the supplier and seek a shelter for abuse victims... nothing that actually demonstrates your care for the victim.
Your priority, your focus, was on yourself. Your focus was on not tarnishing your own sterling reputation by being associated with that sort of riff-raff.
You didn't actually care about the well-being and safety of the supplier's spouse. You only cared about how the supplier's reprehensibleness reflected on you and 'your brand'.
You made a decision not to work with that supplier (which I don't actually object to, btw)... but you did nothing to actually address the situation to which you objected so strongly. All you did was signal your virtue.
That the abused spouse eventually managed to leave the supplier is purely coincidental - your actions in no way provided support to the spouse. It could have gone very differently. It just as easily could have resulted in the supplier beating the spouse even more, and potentially killing their spouse, as a result of increased financial pressure.
By your own account... protecting the spouse from abuse, stopping the abuse, changing the supplier's behavior - those weren't your point, those weren't your objective. Your objective was "not associating your brand" with that of the supplier.