There is nothing wrong with racial pride. If a black man had said simply "I am proud to be black" we would not be having this conversation. But since I said I am proud to be white, and I would prefer my sons and grandsons to remain white, you call me a racist.
Wrong. A black man saying "I am proud to be black" is just as bad as a white man saying "I am proud to be white". Or do you think it's impossible for non-whites to be racist?
And just what exactly about being black are black people proud of? That they have more melanin in their skin, and don't get sunburn as easily?
I've never understood this argument. Just what is there in one's heritage to be proud of? I'm proud of what my grandfather did in WWII. I'm proud of my grandmother who worked for many years for the Women's Royal Voluntary Service, delivering meals to housebound pensioners. I'm proud of my other grandmother, who raised two children during the war, having to work three jobs to get by, without her husband who was in an internment camp because he was an Austrian national. I'm proud of him for his hard work after the war in order to earn enough money to get both his children well educated. I'm proud of my mother, who spent her life imparting knowledge to children, and doing it very well. I'm proud of my father, who played a major part in setting up a governing body for British Psychotherapists, something that was badly needed.
None of the things I'm proud of about my ancestors has anything to do with their ethnicity. The entire concept of such pride is, to me, unfathomable.
I can tell there is no convincing you otherwise so I am not going to bother trying.
My culture and heritage are just that , MINE. I can define them however I see fit, and I do not need to prove them nor justify my reasoning. I also will not let others use my heritage against me. If I claim Anglican or Saxon, or Roman, or any other heritage, it just gives the hate-speakers more ammo to throw in my face.
Why should anyone throw your racial heritage in your face? The only people who would do that are racists, and racists should be challenged at every opportunity. Their lies and hate should be exposed for all to see, which, let's face it, isn't hard to do.
I in no way preach hate, but I AM allowed a personal preference.
Yes, you are allowed a personal preference, but if your personal preference is based on ethnicity then you are,
by definition, a racist.
Anyone that says they have no preference, I call a liar or a mongrel.
No, you're not in any way racist at all!
Oh, and for the record, I have no preference based on race or ethnicity. My wife is pregnant, and expecting our baby in August. Ethnically I'm mostly an Ashkenazi Jew, although there's all sorts of other ethnicities thrown into my genetic make-up. My wife is Han Chinese. What does that make our baby? Damned if I know, and frankly, I don't give a crap. Nor do I give a crap about the ethnicity of the person they might eventually choose to marry. Why should I? What's important in life is to be happy, healthy, and to do the best that you can for your children.
You can call me a liar if you want, but you'd be wrong. I suppose you could call me a mongrel, but that would be a racist thing to say, and as you've already stated, you're not a racist.
And while we're on the subject, can I just ask, if a kid has one white parent and one black parent why are they black? Why does one parent's genetic make-up take precedence over the other? Please, can someone explain that concept to me, because I've never understood it.