I don't understand the prickly reception Jodie's had here at the JREF.
Ad homs didn't help. The cavalier dismissal of sincere answers also didn't help, and that led a number to the belief it was just trolling.
Probably took me 25 years to finally acknowledge my atheism.
Well, you beat me there! One of the problems is the overwhelming social/cultural pressures around us. My coaches, my family, my pastors, and even some of my favorite strippers. If your atheism is going to cost you a stripper - that's the kind of sacrifice a person has to think long and hard about.
ABP, I enjoy your talent for picking apart language and inferring motivation. Do you acknowledge that some people really do believe in bigfoot because they think the evidence points that way, or do you think all the sane folk expressing that belief are being manipulative about it? I think there are a lot more "dupe-ees" than "dupe-ers" in bigfootery. Do you agree?
What the literature teaches us is that there is an observational equivalence between the con-man who does not believe and the person who believes, and is using the exact same tactics to protect themselves from harm. We call them "defense mechanisms" in that context.
Jane Goodall said she wanted to believe because of the romance in having a "cousin" running wild and free, despite not having looked into it herself seriously. I think she speaks for a large percentage of people with the same casual acquaintance with the subject.
So these are people the literature would classify as having a cherished belief they wish to protect, and will trot out the logical fallacies they have heard to defend bigfoot's existence. But if they are engaged in a protracted argument with a skeptic, that belief is going to fall because it does not mean enough to them to over-ride the onslaught from the skeptic.
If a person goes beyond that casual romantic belief though and has a personal stake in it for some reason, despite being a logical person otherwise - they'll fight much harder to avoid whatever personal harm they perceive will come as a consequence of admitting they are wrong. Some have put Merldumb in that category, that he has too much to lose. I don't. But reasonable people can disagree on that.
All the argumentation these categories of people use is manipulative but without malice. That is why they call them "defense mechanisms".
These people, and yes they constitute the majority, especially since the popularization with shows like "finding bigfoot" - they are using manipulative tactics but without the intention of harm to others.
The Roger Pattersons and Matt Moneymakers et al. are of course pure con-men. Their intention is to perpetrate fraud. Those without financial motive still achieve a great deal of personal satisfaction exercising control over others. They look down on them as inferiors and get a big kick out of duping them. But the tactics are exactly the same - selective attention/inattention, evasion, diversion, begging the question, etc.
A troll will use all the same tactics too, and appears on JREF with the intention of getting everyone pissed off. The crowning glory for the troll is to get a member so angry he gets banned. The troll doesn't believe any of the arguments he is using, and isn't trying to convince anyone that bigfoot exists. He's just malicious.
So that brings us back to Jodie. It is very difficult to distinguish between someone who is protecting a cherished belief from a malicious troll because they are going to use all the same tactics. One can be protecting the personal image of her dear but allegedly wimpy father and the other is yanking people's chains for fun. (I say allegedly because IMHO he is the one who dislodged the RR ties).
And in both cases you are going to have the appearance of progress, followed by regression, followed by progress because the clever troll lives far longer and does much more damage by not being a universally offensive jerk that people recognize too easily. The polished chain-yanker will give you a little sop now and then to hook you into three more pages of insincere debate.
I had to just stop interacting because I perceive myself as having entered into the "liability to forum" status. My life was so harmed by maliciously manipulative people that it clouds my judgement. I have a real loathing for it. She's had a lot more exposure to it than just this little bigfoot story too, so it is pretty clear to me I'd just keep picking apart posts out of my fixation on the subject.