I was having some lunch with a coginitive-behavioural therapist last week, and our conversation turned towards the problems of evaluating therapeutic success when one of the only tools to do so is self-reporting. After a period of treatment, a client may claim that they don't feel any better. With follow-up questions, however, they may also report significant alterations in their behaviour, eg, they're able to be out in public in a large crowd without feeling great anxiety and an intense urge to flee, whereas this would have been impossible a couple of months ago. This led the therapist to tell me one of those whacky CBT jokes:
Two cognitive-behaviouralists lie together in bed, bodies slick in the post-coital glow. One turns to the other and says, "It was good for you, was it good for me?"
I mainly butted into this conversation for the opportunity to tell that joke, but in typing it out, I began to wonder if two deontologists (a term I just learned from this thread, thanks) after having sex would not care in the least whether it was good for either of them, so long as they had done their duty?
Good Joke...
The thing that bothers me about some arguers on this thread is they don't seem to be aware of the fact that humans have evolved to get happiness from making others happy... seeing happiness in others... most of us feel, to some degree, the feelings of the people we are observing and we hurt when we feel we are a cause of their pain... even if that pain is for their own good (giving an infant vaccinations, for example.) Humans have evolved to feel good when they make others laugh... it enhances their own happiness... and to feel bad about themselves when they treat others in a way they would not want to be treated. Religions, laws, governments, culture, etc. codify and enforce this viewpoint.
But to me, they are so often divisive... they focus these feelings on a specific group, but often encourage members to see others as "outside" the group... evil... "other"-- which allows members and tribes not to worry about the harm they cause others... the harm they cause others is seen as a way of protecting and boosting the happiness of the chosen group.
Of course it is all a derail... the utilitarianism argument, to me, is a straw man, to once again make skeptics, scientists, and rationalists seem immoral or unfeeling while insinuating that more poetic, semantically confused, or religious types have greater morality or more exalted feelings. It isn't true. The derails are an attempt to avoid producing evidence for the stereotype as far as I can tell. Straw men all.
I was with nearly 1000 skeptics this weekend at TAM, and I don't think you could find a more exalted and moral group as defined by any measurement you would wish to employ. The strereotype is a means for people to feel better about themselves and their viewpoints in my opinion... to feel more moral or exalted. It is too bad, because they are using semantics to make themselves feel superior ... to feel above those whom they would be lucky to be more like... in my opinion. They use their imaginations of "bad stuff" in those "others" to feel better about whatever group they align themselves with or their own preferred opinions and viewpoints (as unintelligible as they might be). They imagine themselves as making sense and being diplomatic... but they never check to see if these opinions of themselves are shared by anyone else. They assume they are true.
Thanks for bringing levity, but also for summing up the problem with the quote in the OP in many ways. The statement itself is an "opinion" with multiple interpretations. And many people have a hard time separating opinions from facts, much less thinking of a means by which they might measure their claims. One of the things I have really enjoyed about Randi and skepticism is the brilliant ways people come up with to test and measure claims. Of course, as Randi notes, many people cannot make a coherent claim. A lot of claims are just semantically implied or platitudes tossed off as truths.
I was curious as to whether any illusion was better than any opposing truth... and if so... in what way and to whom via which measurement. The OP states that tons of them are... and yet no one has come up with one. Why is this phrase "meaninful" to people. What are they "hearing" in that poetic platitude? They seem to be extrapolating some support of some viewpoint without realizing that they are not saying anything coherent to anyone else. Instead they change the meaning of words to amplify the truth of their self-important opinion in their own head. It doesn't seem to matter to them that others are not following them. When you try to pin them down, they toss off straw men and move the goal posts. It is the woo technique from people who seem to imagine themselves as woo-free.
Your little joke and short commentary seems much more related to the OP than their words do to me.
I want to add... that I am following Robin's posts and admire him/her for the coherency, clarity, and wisdom. I learn a lot from this forum... but usually not from the people who are so sure they have something to teach me. You are coherent Robin... I don't think anyone is following those whom you are hearing and assuming things from your words that are not there. I am also following rocketdodger and roboramma for the most part. (Does having the first initials "Ro" in a screen name indicate added rationality, I wonder?)