Re: Responding to Beleth
Gulliver said:
First, let me express my respect for Beleth. The work on the FAQ was wondrous.
Now, let me respond carefully and compassionately to her critique of my comments.
Thank you, both for the compliment and for the care in which you responded. It shows. I will try to respond in kind, although I warn you ahead of time I'm probably not going to be as good at it as you were.
Wellfed's copy of the headers even as the sender would include the date and time of the message. This would lend credence to his position if they matched the timeframe he claimed to have sent the email. Without the headers, I chose to extend the good will that his presentation was accurate. I do resent your implication otherwise.
As Moose mentioned, forging headers is extremely trivial to do, especially when sent as text. And correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that the timeframe of the email is not in question; only the content and meaning of the content are.
I disagree with your position about signing a contract. For example, when buying a new car, you might very well sign the contract to order the car, not knowing the exact delivery date, color, VIN, or other details. I would also point out that one person whom I consider to be reasonable did indeed believe that Wellfed was submitting a protocol, KRAMER.
It depends on how important those things are to you. If I were ordering a car, I would not care what the VIN was, but I would definitely care about the color. If the color were not specified on the contract, I'd tell the seller "we need to talk about the color."
In my opinion that's exactly what Michael did with his comments below the -----end-----. In his view, there were still details to be hammered out. I think that he made that clear in the original e-mail, and I know that he has tried to make that clear in the subsequent discussion here on the board.
Think of the stuff below the -----end----- as the text equivalent of a Post-It note stuck to the back page of the contract. It's not right to take a contract from someone, remove the Post-It note, sign it, and send it back.
I feel no obligation to assist Wellfed because I extended good well to him in this analysis. If Wellfed were to ask, I would consider. At this point, however, I am responding to Wellfed's accusation about Kramer's decision.
I find your comment about brinksmanship interesting. Have your considered your comments about me and your own brinksmanship?
If you don't want to help Michael, that's your decision and your business. What I object to, and what I called brinksmanship on your part, is your superior tone in that "I have a memory" section of your post.
It pales in comparison to the he-said-she-said brinksmanship about the exact contents of the e-mail between Michael and KRAMER, but it's still unnecceary posturing.
There's a difference between brinksmanship and calling someone on their own brinksmanship. If you believe that I have done any unneccesary posturing, please point it out and I will apologize.
Finally, I regret the tone of my conclusion regarding insults, but I found Wellfed's attack on people I respect, including KRAMER and Winny, to require comment. I hope that you've expressed your concern to Wellfed too.
After seeing how KRAMER works, both in this claim and in many previous ones, I believe I know what the root cause of this issue is.
It is my firm belief that the Challenge was set up to quiet Charlatans (Geller, Edward, Browne, etc.), but that true Charlatans never apply because they're smarter than that. Therefore the only ones that apply are the Deceived. Application after application I see the same pattern: a Deceived but otherwise sane and rational person applies and gets treated nicely for a while. Eventually, at some point during the protocol negotiations, they start to realize that, hmm, maybe they're not so sure about this paranormal ability as they think they were. The point at which this happens is usually after 95% of the protocol has been accepted by both sides, and one of the symptoms is that negotiations start to go into an endless-looking cycle of minute changes.
This point when a crack appears in the Deceived's plaster is the most critical part of the Challenge. It can be handled one of two ways:
1) We can recognize this as what it is - a symptom of an internal epiphany on the applicant's part - and delicately guide him through it.
2) We can switch to full-bore attack-the-Charlatan mode and scoff at him and start engaging in all sorts of brinksmanship.
I have yet to see KRAMER go into anything but attack-the-Charlatan mode. Instead of gently guiding the applicant into the light of Skepticism, we attack his ego so badly that he has no choice but to attack back.
I feel sorry for Michael. He literally had no idea what he was getting himself into. But instead of this being an eye-opening experience for him, the representatives of the JREF have turned it into an exercise in face-saving.
And in the process, the truth about the workings of the universe is trampled, and the JREF fails in its mission.
And this is the sequence of events time after time after time.
It's a harsh truth but it's the truth. And only by saying it out loud, and admitting to it, can it ever be fixed.
My apologies for that little bit of grandstanding at the end. I'm pretty sure I ended up not being as compassionate in this post as I set out to be, and I apologize for that too.