Yes, "pick and choose" does mean one specific thing. If I tell you that the grass is purple, context does not allow me to claim that in this case purple means green.
To make that example more accurate when it comes to what you're doing, we'll say that dann claimed that "
grass is purple." Your objection that he's wrong would be along the lines of "grass isn't royal purple," which, while it may be true, isn't actually a valid counter because it doesn't address what was being claimed.
When dann claimed people "pick and choose" what to believe, given the inherent unthinking whimsical nature of the phrase "pick and choose",
Interesting assertion. I just googled "pick and choose" for the fun of it. I came up with lots of different definitions and descriptions of the phrase, none of which invoked whimsy. A number of them specifically required it to be done thoughtfully, too, for that matter. I find your assertion to be outright false on inspection.
I'm responding to what dann actually said. That is all I can go on. You are interpreting his phrase to be the exact opposite of its actual meaning, and claiming that I'm jumping to unwarranted conclusions when I don't do the same.

When your premises are not in line with reality or normal usage, it's no surprise that your conclusions aren't, either.
Of course you would consider it to be wrong for me to ascribe dann's claim to him, as long as you take the opposite of what he said as what he actually meant. Here, let me show you where
he claimed I was limiting the conversation to fundamentalist Christians,
In response to you making claims that apply well to fundamentalist Christians and much less so to other kinds of Christians, and
you specifically referring to Christians in what he was responding to? I'm not impressed with your reading comprehension here. That wasn't limiting anything. You made a claim about your credentials regarding how well you understand Christianity. He addressed
that claim in that post. That's not claiming that you were limiting the conversation to fundamentalist Christianity.
as well as to where
you did.

The appropriate interpretation of what I said there is "believers that are quite deep down the rabbit-hole, so to speak, and give excessive respect to authority." I pointedly did not say "Christians," in fair part because doesn't only apply to Christians. Muslims serve as a very easy example of another major religion that has quite a few people that would fall into that, for reference.
I suppose that our discourse is not going to be fruitful, given your propensity for interpreting some phrases to mean their opposite in order to make them not wrong.
Perhaps. If you're set on assuming falsehoods that quite aren't in evidence or that the available evidence directly contradicts, that does quite limit what progress can be made.