When FTB had their ConScience web conferences, one of the speakers was high-functioning autistic (with a very long clinical history, so no self-diagnosis here), and she took huge offense to the notion of treating children with autism spectrum disorders, making the case that her form of autism is something more akin to a personality quirk that shouldn't be classified as a disease.
My 9 year old son's diagnosis is Aspergers (or autism spectrum now as pointed out) and ADHD, he's very high functioning.
That's awesome though I'll tell him, he who doesn't get invited to any birthday parties anymore, who has been disallowed to play with most kids on our street by parents (who don't even talk to us), who has been kicked out of every after school care program, every summer camp, and every team or group activity that we have ever tried (and there is a LONG list, AND we get an aide for all of them), who had the behavioural therapy suspended due to WCB rules, that it's just a quirk.
I'll let my wife know it's just a quirk too, maybe it'll repair all the damage our marriage has sustained, and the anguish we both go through.
Very nice! I admit, though, if a medication came around that might help our son I'd be very tempted...well, I'd read everything published about it, anyway, and go from there.
None of the people involved with my kid have suggested medication be a single solution, but always that it be used in concert with other things (behaviour therapy, etc). Sometimes it is short term, something to buy time to allow the therapy to do its work and rewire or introduce behaviour patterns.
And the nice thing about medication is that it is temporary, if it doesn't work, or has unintended side effects, it can be discontinued. I agree I usually do a lot of reading about any medication that is recommended to us but I usually am willing to give it a try.
We did fight over GCF diet. We compromised on checking for celiac disease...he doesn't have it => not doing gluten free.
Ha, we just got referred (finally) to one of the best child psychiatrists in our area (apparently), and she specifically asked us about this, I said I didn't know of anything to support such a diet making a difference in my kid's type of situation and she agreed.
My seven year old nephew has been diagnosed with autism and been kicked out of school for aggressive behaviour. I'm not up on the specifics of his situation as he and his family don't live locally. He's been allowed back into school as long as his parents pay for what amounts to a full time minder. Luckily, they can afford it.
That sucks, where I am the school district "has" to provide an education, they can't refuse based on a disability, even if that disability has aggressive behaviour as a result. Even in a complete worst case scenario I think they would have to basically home school my kid, working towards reintegration, they can't say "don't come back".
We're fortunate to be able to afford the private, non-profit school here that specializes in autism treatment.
Yeah my son was in something like that for a while, he was starting to really have difficulty there because it was too much geared towards the lower functioning kids, really not challenging academically. We switched to public but the behaviours side of things really got out of hand at the end of last year.. so this year we thought about going back, but our initial consult with the psychiatrist we got referred to said too many changes would probably help vs. hurt. It's a very hard decision.