Mr.Samsa,
Let me reiterate the sentiment that has already been expressed, that you do a very good job of explaining some of the reasoning behind A+.
This does not of course, imply that I agree with any of it. I'd like to ask a few more questions.
An opinion on a social issue is "valuated" only in the sense that people who try to direct or inform experiences which they have not had are presenting a problematic perspective. If the topic is affirmative action, for example, and you say that you don't personally know what it's like to be black and trying to find a job but you have dealt with understanding discrimination as a child, then your opinion on how blacks should handle or feel about the affirmative action situation will be quickly, and correctly, dismissed. .
Whenever someone has an opinion on how someone else should feel, that should of course be dismissed. I have the impression it's a strawman, as I rarely if ever witness people opining on how others should feel. Ethnicity, gender or other handicaps don't even enter into it.
The other aspect you mention in the example, is how they "should handle it". Here I disagree entirely, assuming that the purpose of the "handling" is to achieve a desired outcome. If the handling includes shouting. sulking, or throwing household items, then for me that comes under the heading of how they should "feel" (unless the thrown items injure someone). Personal experience can't IMO trump rational analysis there, so ones membership of whichever group shouldn't be a factor.
The point is that the viewpoints are evaluated on their own merits. They aren't rejected because you're white (or whatever, depending on the situation). Rather it's because you're white (or whatever, again) that your experiences lead you to a viewpoint that lacks merit.
This is a novel concept for me. A viewpoint is not objectively correct or incorrect, applicable or inapplicable, but it lacks "merit"? How do I get myself some of this merit so I can win discussions on Internet forums?
On a more serious note, what DO you mean by "merit" here? Can you give an example?
But often they won't because privilege blindness makes it difficult/impossible to see how much of the picture you're actually missing.
Everyone has privilege with regards to everyone else (admittedly, Bill Gates' lack of privilege may be a bit limited). Everyone has unique experiences that nobody else has had. To enable communication in spite of this enormous hurdle, people talk about their experiences. Some have even written books about them, so I can have some sense of what if was like to be in the Belgian trenches of WW1. In the case of being black/female/transgendered/paranoid/depressed and the like, there are whole bookcases out there to read. Beyond that, we are social creatures, we are conditioned to empathise, to have a sense for what others are feeling. There are some who lack this ability, or refuse to use it, but most people actually listen to others and mentally put themselves in their shoes if you give them a chance. On A+, this chance is not given to anyone, regardless of which groups they belong to.
To paraphrase: experience is not magic!
It is not a minor thing when we consider the context: a safe space where minorities have gathered to avoid facing the discrimination they have to deal with in their daily lives.
Wait a moment please. We are communicating on the Internet, where I can be black, white, Inuit, a 13 year-old hermaphrodite in a wheelchair, or a hyperintelligent shade of the colour blue, for all anyone knows. Various minorities often experience some discrimination in their lives, yes. But on the Internet? If you don't want to be discriminated against for being blue, be pink. It's easy to not be discriminated against here and you don't need a special forum for it.
Of course if you want to share yourself, your personal problems, beliefs and frustrations, then that does rather take away from your anonymity. So if you were to claim "to share their identity and their feelings without being discriminated against", that would make more sense to me. Is that though, what you meant? And is that a need they have that goes beyond sharing with their Facebook friends?
To ruin someone's safe space by just having to make a stupid joke is pretty serious.
To verbally abuse people as is routine on A+ is pretty serious. It is to me, at least. It's the Pharyngula comments section squared; one of the most unsafe spaces I could find myself in online. YMMV.
Thanks in advance if you choose to respond.