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Glad to see some more humorous posts here. A good laugh never hurt anyone, I say typing with one hand while grasping my chest and hoping my daughter can sue A+ for their comic drama triggering my heart attack. :rolleyes:

Seriously though, just wanted to tell both Ronja and appalling I owe you a long reply and apologies, in case they log in before bedtime. You can read them tomorrow morning. I was wrong about quite a few things that haunted me dozing off. I sometimes wonder if I post solely to attain validation for my belief I don't really have low self esteem but am simply a jerk. :(

Maybe to help your low esteem problem I'll put up a poll question "Is RP a jerk?".

:)
 
You don't get to decide or question who is sincere about their triggers and disabilities. Doing that would get you kicked out of the Atheism+ forums rather quickly. Have you ever actually posted there, or read their "101" materials?

Yes, I am Amadan over there, as I said before.

Yeah, I could believe that. Except that I wasn't born yesterday.

I'm not sure what you mean. You think I don't have few complaints about the mods?

If by "the damn elevator thing" you mean the demonstrable fact that Watson and her friends publicly and falsely accused people of misogyny and promotion of rape simply for disagreeing with her about how men and women should interact socially, and called for and carried out campaigns of ostracizing and shunning those people, and never recanted or apologized for doing so, then yes, that will be a difficult fact for the atheism plus movement to put behind them.

That's an interesting reading of the situation, but even if I agreed with you (which I don't), I don't think A+ = Rebecca Watson.
 
As a fellow pathetic would-be-opressor male, I often want to learn how to make money by excusing trendy male magicians who pretend to skid their cars during heavy rain.

I would like to go to Atheism+ to do this.
But I know I'd be punished for feigning aquaplaning David Blaine splaining gaining training.
 
Myriad said:
If by "the damn elevator thing" you mean the demonstrable fact that Watson and her friends publicly and falsely accused people of misogyny and promotion of rape simply for disagreeing with her about how men and women should interact socially, and called for and carried out campaigns of ostracizing and shunning those people, and never recanted or apologized for doing so, then yes, that will be a difficult fact for the atheism plus movement to put behind them.
That's an interesting reading of the situation, but even if I agreed with you (which I don't), I don't think A+ = Rebecca Watson.
I want to make clear that I very much agree with Myriad. I don't know how fair it is to saddle A+ with that. But as to what Watson did, that's documented.
 
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The crux of the situation is simple:

A man has the right to hit on a woman whenever he wants, wherever he wants and in any way he wants, anything less will lead to the extermination human race because they'll be no sex.

If a woman disagrees with this it's OK to harass her with threats of violence, insults and taunts.

Here's something I really wanted to address: This notion of "threats".

Almost all of the "threats" reported by people like RW (apparently if you say her full name three times she appears) don't in fact resemble threats at all. Her oft quoted "Hundreds of atheists have informed me that either they wanted to rape me, someone should rape me so that I will loosen up or that no one would ever rape me because I am so ugly" doesn't in fact contain any threats. It's unpleasant, sophomoric and ridiculous, sure. It's unacceptable too. But it isn't a threat.

If it was a threat then as Thunderf00t said, she should go to the police and report the individual making the threat.

There was a recent incident when some youtuber commented to Ophelia Benson that she would look better if someone threw acid on her. Again this was held up as an example of a threat. And yet again it is not a threat. It's an attempted insult made in poor taste. And if Benson considered this to be a serious threat and felt that it was a threat that the youtuber had both the capacity and the will to carry out then the best place to report it would be the police, not Twitter.

This is only peripherally related to A-Plus but it's something I see as a recurring phenomenon.

Really? then when would be an inappropriate place and time to hit on a woman?

Church confessional?

Okay, here's another one. If you go to a job interview and they say they aren't interested in hiring you, you probably shouldn't demand that they then tell you how to succeed at future job interviews.

You could ask for feedback on your application. Most companies would be happy to provide you with that.

If I had a disability triggered by something visible, and I wanted to use the internet and still function at the end of the day, I expect I would take some responsibility and use a monochrome monitor setup, turn down the one colour that's an issue, or disable images as much as possible .... rather than ... you know ... expect every site I use to manage this on my behalf.

I have some disabilities / issues triggered by avoidable things, and I tend to think it is better for me to take what steps I can to avoid the problem, than to expect the world to conform to my needs (where it is unreasonable, and often in conflict with other people's needs).

I also have issues where I need to ensure others are aware of them (I don't want paramedics killing me with certain medication if I collapse, for example) - that awareness is my responsibility, and I don't expect that medication to be witheld from everyone else - just in case someone like me is treated.

If you posted this on the A-Plus site you would be banned for victim-blaming.
 
So just out of curiosity, I went and looked up the list of banned posters over at A+.

I don't know if they listed all of the bans, but there are some interesting reasons, as well as some that seem legit.

But their policy seems to come down to 'don't annoy the mods,' who are easily annoyed.
 
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So just out of curiosity, I went and looked up the list of banned posters over at A+.

I don't know if they listed all of the bans, but there are some interesting reasons, as well as some that seem legit.

But their policy seems to come down to 'don't annoy the mods,' who are easily annoyed.

While there is a list of reasons, you are quite right on their policy. They seems to ban mostly for disagreeing with them.

Jen first postulated the idea of A+, but I see little of it in the forum. Sometimes, it looks like Anarchist +, other times it is Absolute-Power +.
 
While there is a list of reasons, you are quite right on their policy. They seems to ban mostly for disagreeing with them.

Jen first postulated the idea of A+, but I see little of it in the forum. Sometimes, it looks like Anarchist +, other times it is Absolute-Power +.

Although I can't argue with this one:

CFLarsen: Persistently annoying
 
Although I can't argue with this one:

CFLarsen: Persistently annoying

That's his role. He's a gadfly. I find CF interesting. Bet you didn't like Unca Yimmy either, which I didn't also at first. But I was stunned to see CF was the first one on that A+ ban list, which btw I doubt even contains half those banned there.

I think finally they became embarrassed about it and started suspending for a month as they did me and a long list of others who dared question their methodology in dealing with any dissent. Willy nailed it with Absolute Power+. But the serfs are getting restless, and the disciples are circling the wagons. :cool:
 
Here's something I really wanted to address: This notion of "threats".

Almost all of the "threats" reported by people like RW (apparently if you say her full name three times she appears) don't in fact resemble threats at all. Her oft quoted "Hundreds of atheists have informed me that either they wanted to rape me, someone should rape me so that I will loosen up or that no one would ever rape me because I am so ugly" doesn't in fact contain any threats. It's unpleasant, sophomoric and ridiculous, sure. It's unacceptable too. But it isn't a threat.

If it was a threat then as Thunderf00t said, she should go to the police and report the individual making the threat.

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OK now, that sounded kind of fishy so I went agooglin, and following a link through, yikes!!...Conservapedia, I was linked to the thunderfoot video where RW actually says those things. I didn't watch past that ( damn third world intenet connection ) but if thunderfoot did say that RW should go to the police then I have to agree with him.

Rape threats are unacceptable and should be dealt with using the full force of the law.

Aside...note to Aplussers..if you have technological limitations to watching videos there are Firefox extensions that allow you to download it no matter how slow your internet connection is.

Anyways...

I'm caught wondering how many statements, RW's for instance, or claims that receiving unwanted PMs can trigger shutdowns that last for days are, in fact, real or simply a case of acting for the cameras.

I dunno, my brain seems to function alright, maybe that's why I have a hard time fathoming why an outfit like A+ would feel the need to go on and on about how damaging an unsolicited PM could be when. as stated before, the simple solution is to turn them off.

OK..maybe I can relate a little.Whenever I get a PM i"m 99% sure it's my ole buddy "auto mod action" telling me that yet another of my posts has been sent to hell.

Sometimes these Aplussers tell such tales of woe that I'm curious as to why they haven't drank themselves to death by the time they're 25.

Playing the part ? Maybe I'm to cynical but sometimes I read these stories on A+ and come away with the feeling that I'm being conned.
 
Although I can't argue with this one:

CFLarsen: Persistently annoying

You can't argue with it, but the fact that he was that pain-in-the-butt and racked up a brazillion posts here without getting banned is an indication of the difference in the approaches to moderation of the two forums. Claus had far more annoying and rancorous discussions here and was rarely admonished much less banned. He's still a member; just chooses not to post.

And let's not forget all the work he's done for the Forums at various TAMs.

His banning there was because he wanted to open a dialogue and a search for the actual facts of Elevatorgate. Crossed the line, did he? Don't try to discuss things on which we've already made up your mind for you.
 
Maybe to help your low esteem problem I'll put up a poll question "Is RP a jerk?".

:)

I told you already it's NOT low self esteem, tsig. It's my reality. If you can post that poll in Forum Management I'm sure the modettes will validate it for me. :p

ETA-I'm only back because humber is on another long hiatus. Lordy but I miss the car circus when he does his disappearing act. :( He still had em going at 5 pages of replies daily until last November. Did you catch spork's upwind record?
 
You can't argue with it, but the fact that he was that pain-in-the-butt and racked up a brazillion posts here without getting banned is an indication of the difference in the approaches to moderation of the two forums. Claus had far more annoying and rancorous discussions here and was rarely admonished much less banned. He's still a member; just chooses not to post.

And let's not forget all the work he's done for the Forums at various TAMs.

His banning there was because he wanted to open a dialogue and a search for the actual facts of Elevatorgate. Crossed the line, did he? Don't try to discuss things on which we've already made up your mind for you.

I agree. Claus can be annoying, but if I ran a forum, there's no way I would ban him for it.

Then we go to the second on the list: banned for whining about being oppressed by Fascist moderator. So complaints about the mods are enough for bannination.

I feel dirty, and not in a good way, for going back there.
 
Err... you are not presenting the argument "If we are going to avoid colors on one site why not the entire net?" - ?? Then who is and/or why did you bring that argument up just a few posts earlier in this thread?

In retrospect I apologize. Guilty as charged. Rereading my words that is indeed what I implied. Nothing wrong with creating a safe place for specific groups, like atheists, and structuring the site accordingly. Not at all sure that's whats happening at A+, but your point is valid.

Thank you for naming Supernaut, that made googling really easy, and I found this post on the page to which the first Google hit pointed: http://atheismplus.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=716&start=550#p42682. I trust this is the post in question, as it resembles your description, except for one rather crucial detail.

Seeing that post by Supernaut prompts me to ask: are you actually equating this smiley: :mad: with the smiley, which Supernaut imported from another site to A+ as an image and which was subsequently hidden by a mod there? For easy comparison, I have quoted Supernaut's smiley from the link above under the spoiler below; it's an animated smiley with a fairly large jumping/flashing red text, and one may need to wait for about a second to see the part that could be a photosensitive epilepsy and/or a migraine trigger:

[qimg]http://www.talkrational.org/images/smilies/thinkerjoy.gif[/qimg]

Confession time after a bad night. I remembered that smiley well, and thought it was extreme enough that I could see how it might trigger epileptics. Yet I cherry picked around that as it weakened my defense of my earlier joke. Do others here do that, or is it just me? :shy:

I still though it was rather over the top like so much of A+ policy, but note I didn't argue it in any way. And I was told later that even red smileys like the one I used here were problematic. If you go back a bit in my posts, (I don't have that many but don't have search access now) you'll see when I twice posted a moving smiley with just a little red I hid it with a trigger alert. So yes, it would be a problem if I posted this :mad: there, especially if it moved which I'm told is still another issue. Yet if Setar did it; no problem.

This does not make any sense. What, according to you, do "social justice" and "promoting social justice" mean? And how would it be in conflict with the goal of promoting social justice to enable people with disabilities to better participate in Internet discussions about the society? (and please do not counter with any version of "if A+ does not or cannot enable every possible person with every possible disability, they should not try to enable anyone")

If I had a disability triggered by something visible, and I wanted to use the internet and still function at the end of the day, I expect I would take some responsibility and use a monochrome monitor setup, turn down the one colour that's an issue, or disable images as much as possible .... rather than ... you know ... expect every site I use to manage this on my behalf.

I have some disabilities / issues triggered by avoidable things, and I tend to think it is better for me to take what steps I can to avoid the problem, than to expect the world to conform to my needs (where it is unreasonable, and often in conflict with other people's needs).

This ^. Chill always was better than I at cutting to the chase. (Hi Chill. Been a while. Glad we're on the same page here. :))

Have you read all their pontifications about things such as 'big tent' thinking, Ronja? If your stated goal is to advance awareness of social justice issues, is it really sound strategy to abuse all new members if they accidentally trigger some reaction in a small number of folks there with special problems? Remember one of their mantras is that intent doesn't matter. It would make some sense on a site for say epileptics. But is a pup-tent of in your face, our way or the highway zealots going to help the cause of social justice for all in any way? Look forward to reading your response. [Motion/flower allergy trigger alert!]
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If you posted this on the A-Plus site you would be banned for victim-blaming.
Well, I am under no illusions that A+ is a remotely safe place for me to be. I say that as a non-heterosexual, disabled, phobic survivor of domestic abuse.

I'll stay here - where the forum community has actively supported me personally: emotionally and financially, as well as providing thousands of dollars to funding requests for other forum members in need, thank you. ;)


Hi Chill. Been a while. Glad we're on the same page here. :)
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You have to hand it to A+, morning, noon, or night they never fail to deliver,

On their Are the Mods....thread we have a poster posting specific examples of long term Aplussers acting like total douchebags and delivering full on adhoms and what does the A+ elite do ? Why of course they instantly derail it into a swearing issue and claim the objection is to the dropping of f-bombs.

It takes a special type of person to become a SJ warrior.

I wouldn't want to buy a used car of of any of them.
 
OK now, that sounded kind of fishy so I went agooglin, and following a link through, yikes!!...Conservapedia, I was linked to the thunderfoot video where RW actually says those things. I didn't watch past that ( damn third world intenet connection ) but if thunderfoot did say that RW should go to the police then I have to agree with him.

Rape threats are unacceptable and should be dealt with using the full force of the law.

The legal test is do you believe that the person making the threat has the capacity and the will to carry it out. So when my mother says "I'll bloody kill you!" it's not a criminal threat while when a man I saw breaking into the neighbour's car says "If you call the police I'll stab you to death" then it is.

In this circumstance saying "you should get raped then maybe you'll loosen up a bit" wouldn't constitute a criminal threat in the same way that "I am going to find you and rape you" would. Still if you are feeling threatened by comments made online then you can and should report them. All of them.
 
I'm not sure what you mean. You think I don't have few complaints about the mods?


What I mean is, your contention that the problems at A+ are caused by people who want "a safe space only for themselves" but not by the culture of unchecked in-crowd and mod bullying, is utter hogwash. Not only does it come across as willfully oblivious to the obvious, it also makes no internal sense. What does that accusation of safety-greed even mean?

Are we to understand that safety of a space is a limited quantity that can only be gained for some at the expense of others?

Well, maybe so. The behavior and the results so far at the A+ forum do seem to support that notion. But if it's so, the movement is self-extinguishing.

Respectfully,
Myriad
 
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