I meant simply that when you picture the weight of a hundred million km worth of hydrogen just about inside the orbit of Jupiter, you need to picture that in the context of a gravity about 12 times higher than that experienced by Jupiter. I.e., just the density alone there isn't the whole picture.
Edit: basically, if you will, imagine this: you can find some altitude around Jupiter where strictly speaking the density is the same as on Mars. But the pressure sure as heck won't be the same. So just looking at the density doesn't give you much of a clue about pressure.
Edit 2: and I never said they were COMPLETELY disconnected. I'm not sure where that idea even comes from, seein' as I even wrote about how density goes into the ideal gas equation. And yes, it goes indirectly into gravity too. But it's only one factor of many. And strictly speaking all I said is that the 'outer parts' of Betlegeuse can be under more pressure than you'd call a good vacuum, even if density wise it's pretty rarefied. And I stand by that. Something can be quite trivially more dense and under less pressure and viceversa. E.g., the water in your cup is much denser, but under much less pressure than the air in your tires. Well, at least as long as your cup isn't 20m deep, anyway.