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Another sincere question for theists...

bluess said:
FarmerMike (Karen) - and ElliotFC:

Why not a deity or deities who are kind and who don't need unnatural sacrifices?
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Karen
Because I don't know of any others with the historical credentials of God the Son (born in a barn, nailed to a cross, unprecedented impact on human history), and because I believe that when humans are reduced to their most basic components, they KNOW, however incomprehensible it may, that they are hardwired to their creator.

What is it about this religion that has you hooked?
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Communing with my creator(when I take the time)- that still, small voice, that living water that Jesus claimed/s to be.
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I'm frustrated because I just don't understand your mindset. I'm almost willing to just give it up and accept I'll never be able to walk a mile in your shoes, but please help me out here.
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I've always found personal testimonies to be of the most help in this regard. Google one. My own, is that when I had disposed of God, He had apparently not disposed of me.
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Like I tell my kids, those crappy cartoons a la Yugiho, that they think are so fantastic, pale in comparison with the reality of our existance on this planet; that we can access, through no merit of our own, the source of all things who is "compassionate and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in love...(who) knows how we are formed and remembers that we are dust."Psalm 103: 8,14.
"For I desire mercy, not sacrifice, and acknowledgement of God, rather than burnt offerings." Hosea 6:6
"It is a broken spirit you want-remorse and penitence. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not ignore." Psalm 51:17
Living Bible(paraphrase)
It is through this lense, sharpened through personal experience, that I approach those verses of the Bible that reveal God's hatred of sin, its consequences, and that "couldn't care less" attitude, so prevelant in a society that rejects authority on all fronts.
It's not easy being green but why trumps how.
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"And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God" Micah 6:3 (Old Testament)

Ossai
I said that we're not in control of our own destiny(could get run over crossing the street), not that we aren't responsible for our actions.
 
As I pondered Bluess' questions "Why believe in this God" and "What purpose does it serve?" I came to similar answers to Belle.

1) He's really the only god in town.
2) There is a real physiological inducement derived from submission, admitting you do not control, and praying in hope. This posture when adopted does result in "feel good" brain chemical release that may be the source of the feeling that God is real and loves us.

But is there any other proof.

Remember BF Skinner and the Behaviorist model of psychology. He did experiments on different schedules of reinforcement. A constant schedule (say 5 presses on the bar for a food pellet) yeilded what we might project as sane behavior in the rat. It pressed the bar when hungry. When contrasted with the varying schedule (food pellets appear sometimes after 3 presses, then 20 presses then 5 then 2 then 30 - ie a random schedule) we projected a rather more insane behavior. There was near total obsession with the pressbar. They pounded it all day long. No other schedule of reinforcement was so powerful in its effect than what was termed "superstitious" reinforcement.

God answers our prayers (and I mean any god Bluess) in a very similar random pattern. And it serves to make the one who prays cling more closely to the behavior, the belief and whichever god delivers.

I want to add two more thoughts. Parents often want their child to grow up aware and conforming to the authority structure of society. This brings it own benefits. So a religious society tends to produce more believers.

Second, it is possible that with practice, the prayerful state produces positive results every engagement. That is, it is no longer superstitious but reverts back to a much more sane appearing behavior. It provides a peace, sureness, and contentment that serves as an example to those less adept. The less adept with their chaotic lives yearn to achieve the benefits promised in the religious literature and exemplified in the life of a few around them. They chase the 'food pellets' aggressively and ineffectually.
 
farmermike said:
bluess said:
FarmerMike (Karen) - and ElliotFC:

Why not a deity or deities who are kind and who don't need unnatural sacrifices?
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Karen
Because I don't know of any others with the historical credentials of God the Son (born in a barn, nailed to a cross, unprecedented impact on human history), and because I believe that when humans are reduced to their most basic components, they KNOW, however incomprehensible it may, that they are hardwired to their creator.

What is it about this religion that has you hooked?
********************************
Communing with my creator(when I take the time)- that still, small voice, that living water that Jesus claimed/s to be.
**********************************
I'm frustrated because I just don't understand your mindset. I'm almost willing to just give it up and accept I'll never be able to walk a mile in your shoes, but please help me out here.
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I've always found personal testimonies to be of the most help in this regard. Google one. My own, is that when I had disposed of God, He had apparently not disposed of me.
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Like I tell my kids, those crappy cartoons a la Yugiho, that they think are so fantastic, pale in comparison with the reality of our existance on this planet; that we can access, through no merit of our own, the source of all things who is "compassionate and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in love...(who) knows how we are formed and remembers that we are dust."Psalm 103: 8,14.
"For I desire mercy, not sacrifice, and acknowledgement of God, rather than burnt offerings." Hosea 6:6
"It is a broken spirit you want-remorse and penitence. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not ignore." Psalm 51:17
Living Bible(paraphrase)
It is through this lense, sharpened through personal experience, that I approach those verses of the Bible that reveal God's hatred of sin, its consequences, and that "couldn't care less" attitude, so prevelant in a society that rejects authority on all fronts.
It's not easy being green but why trumps how.
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"And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God" Micah 6:3 (Old Testament)

Ossai
I said that we're not in control of our own destiny(could get run over crossing the street), not that we aren't responsible for our actions.

First, belief in Jesus has yet to produce any valid historical credentials, and this KNOWLEDGE you profess "all" humans have as a base is not a fact - were it a fact, all would believe as you do. What it is was expressed earlier - simply conditioning, and a "need" so many have brought about by insecurities... substanciated by a brain chemical produced by strong feelings making it feel right whether it is or not. That applies to your second statement as well.

Your next statement I can't help you with other than to say that you CAN "walk a mile in our shoes" but you choose not to. I and many others have been where you are, but through logic, self-examination, and objective study have left self-delusion behind. Note that WE are frustrated with people like you who cannot leave behind a myth for reality.

Quote the bible all you want - for every verse you recite I can give you 10 that say the opposite... yet take comfort in the fact that your lense of self-deception will continue to serve you, allowing you to ignore and rationalize your way out of anything we "non-believers" throw at you. Ah... but it is so much easier to put your life into the hands of your perfect god than to take charge of it and that responsibility for yourself... and so much more comforting to feel you have a reality other than the one life has actually given to you.

Funny - but that's actually another form of deception... for upon finally throwing out the beliefs of my youth, I discovered personal power over my own life - and it is much more satisfying than relying on prayer when the "answers" end up being rationalized as much as the so-called word of god.
 
Karen:

I've listened to and read many a personal testimonial - not only from believers in the Christ (various sects), but also Jewish, Wiccan, animal-totems, Hindu (various sects) ...

In my high-school years, having been raised in a supportive void (my parents were/are both very religious but did not require me to take part in the Hindu equivalent of Sunday school indoctrination), I went to services at any church/temple a friend would take me to.

None of these testimonials or other experiences have ever lead me to believe or feel that I am a sinful unworthy flawed damnable spirit deserving of eternal torment. Heck, I can't even buy into the Buddhist light philosophy touted in USA, again because of the inherent flaws in the stated systems.

Now, I personally believe that there is unity in the universe, and that by personal action of behaving ethically and compassionately we can improve the conditions of the universe. This in no way leads me to believe in a personalized vengeful deity. I am positive that my crying out to the heavens to change the weather, catastrophes, casual indignities and horrid injustices will not make a bit of difference, but that my taking action on those things I can, will. And I don't need the threat of eternal damnation or the promise of eternal reward to act.

The scriptures you have quoted just make me scratch my head and continue to wonder why the heck you believe.

So, I guess we'll stay on these different roads. Since you seem to be a fairly nice human, I would hope that you could spend less energy beating yourself into submission to your scripture. However, I have no desire to make you believe differently as long as you don't use your beliefs as a weapon against my cheerfully liberal life.

Bluess, going off to a holiday party to drink eggnog and NOT discuss religion or alternate lifestyles with any member of her very consertive office.
 
Farmermike
Because I don't know of any others with the historical credentials of God the Son (born in a barn, nailed to a cross, unprecedented impact on human history),
Ignorance. There have been a number of other threads on other messiahs. Most of which list some quiet good reference materials.

and because I believe that when humans are reduced to their most basic components, they KNOW, however incomprehensible it may, that they are hardwired to their creator.
What a condescending statement.
To paraphrase: I’m right because I believe this way and so do you even if you say you don’t.
Oh, and incorrect to boot.

Communing with my creator(when I take the time)- that still, small voice, that living water that Jesus claimed/s to be.
Sincere question, do you actually hear voices in your head? Are they different than your own voice?

I've always found personal testimonies to be of the most help in this regard. Google one. My own, is that when I had disposed of God, He had apparently not disposed of me.
Why not follow your own advise and google some Muslim testimonies. They are all equally compelling and filled with the same type of illogic.

I said that we're not in control of our own destiny(could get run over crossing the street), not that we aren't responsible for our actions.
Let’s see, we aren’t in control of our destiny i.e. whether we’ll end up in heaven or hell, but we’ll be punished anyway.

Ossai
 
Dr Adequate said:
Marvellous. I don't know who this guy is or where he's been lately, but he's bringing laughter back into my life.
Youth permeates your replies.

Don't suck.
 
Atlas said:
Remember BF Skinner and the Behaviorist model of psychology. He did experiments on different schedules of reinforcement. A constant schedule (say 5 presses on the bar for a food pellet) yeilded what we might project as sane behavior in the rat. It pressed the bar when hungry. When contrasted with the varying schedule (food pellets appear sometimes after 3 presses, then 20 presses then 5 then 2 then 30 - ie a random schedule) we projected a rather more insane behavior. There was near total obsession with the pressbar. They pounded it all day long. No other schedule of reinforcement was so powerful in its effect than what was termed "superstitious" reinforcement.

Karen
Obsessive pounding? Reminds me of these forums. By the way what is the natural outcome of constant "one upsmanship"?

Belle
Thanks for the physiological explanation of what happens when I pray. Is it the same as when I pop open a can of Pringles- cause heck, there's really a lot more self-gratification in that.

I would agree that any of the mainstream religions are better than nothing but I contend that Christianity/the Bible is really on a different plain. Here we disagree.

Ossai
I was just trying to point out, that the down side of our 21st century nests, is that they have a way of inoculating us against the reality of our situation on this planet. I think an appreciation of the tenuous nature of our existance, helps to focus our attention inward and upward. I don't have the statistics handy but at that base, "superstitious" level, the large majority of human beings believe in God. I think that says something about our hardwiring- that when bereft of our gadgets we are aware of something beyond ourselves. "He has set eternity in our hearts."
 
Karen said:
Atlas,
Obsessive pounding? Reminds me of these forums. By the way what is the natural outcome of constant "one upsmanship"?
Well, in Biblical terms it's probably the same outcome as adding one brick on top of another in constructing a tower of Babel.

That's not really what I'm hoping for. I kinda admire your sticktoitiveness. But it is a public forum and you make thought provoking posts in an area where most of the posters have chosen a different belief pattern. It's difficult for any of us to let your ideas go unchallenged. It's a natural outcome of posting here. Likewise people like you challenge our views. The hope is that in the exchange neither of us fall in destruction but are edified by one another's truths. It's that truth thing we're wrestling over.
 
I'm agnostic, but was once an ardent theist/Christian. I can tell you why I believed.

One- I was brainwashed/conditioned to
My family brought me up as a Catholic, so it was a few years before I started questioning it all. My first doubts showed up in second grade.

Two- Woo experience
I was praying in church during break in fourth grade. My best friend at the time had come with me, sitting in a pew adjacent from mine. Pray, pray, pray and then I saw a ball of light flit around the room. It seemed to have substance in that it wasn't just a reflection of light on hard surfaces(it would float in mid-air in the middle of the room) and was opaque. It was very fast and at one point flew right over my head. My friend saw it too, and we both described the same appearance and behavior.

I spent countless Masses from then on ignoring the service and studying the very small stained glass windows in the church trying to figure out how the light may have been caused by the sun or passing cars or whatever. I never found a reasonable explanation. Because of that, and the fact that another person saw it as well, I took it as proof that something existed "out there". As a properly brainwashed Christian, I assumed it was the Holy Spirit.

I prayed numerous times throughout the day at this age and was determined to be a nun in the Sisters of Charity when I graduated high school. I had a hard time with other Christians though, because what they described as faith seemed very foreign to me. I spent a long time in prayer before bed every night, but would never 'invoke' Jesus' name or anything like that. I never heard voices in my head, but would simply work through whatever emotions I had, guilt, awe, ecstasy. Sometimes I mulled over something particular. At all times I would concentrate as intently I could. I was in the process of reading throught the Bible as well, but I found the subject matter troubling.

I took my religion very seriously but realized that all those meany-pants Christians claimed they believed in the same guy I believed in. If they could be so obviously wrong (to me)in what they were doing, I began to think about other faiths. I started reading the writings of many other religions and trying to reconcile it all, and did one of those 'ask Jesus which religion was true' things. I proposed to Jesus that I would continue studying these other faiths, and he could 'reveal' to me which one, if any, was true. Several weeks later I revisited the question in my head and realized that I no longer believed Christianity was better/different than some others. He 'answered' my question.

I lost my faith probably the same way all you other formerly faithful people did, and now I think religion is primarily a conversation with oneself in one's head, combined with the physiological changes that take place with intense concentration. As well as a social club and tool of social control by gangs of people who want to control everyone else. As for my woo experience, I still believe I saw something in the church that day, but it could have been anything, and as I've never seen it again, I don't really care what it was.
 
kimiko said:
...Woo experience
I was praying in church during break in fourth grade. My best friend at the time had come with me, sitting in a pew adjacent from mine. Pray, pray, pray and then I saw a ball of light flit around the room. It seemed to have substance in that it wasn't just a reflection of light on hard surfaces(it would float in mid-air in the middle of the room) and was opaque. It was very fast and at one point flew right over my head. My friend saw it too, and we both described the same appearance and behavior.

I spent countless Masses from then on ignoring the service and studying the very small stained glass windows in the church trying to figure out how the light may have been caused by the sun or passing cars or whatever. I never found a reasonable explanation. Because of that, and the fact that another person saw it as well, I took it as proof that something existed "out there". As a properly brainwashed Christian, I assumed it was the Holy Spirit.
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As for my woo experience, I still believe I saw something in the church that day, but it could have been anything, and as I've never seen it again, I don't really care what it was.
In another arena, it would have been a UFO and you would have carried a belief in aliens for many years before questioning the value of the belief.

It's amazing to me how my own experience and yours were automatically interpreted within the symbols most readily at hand. It tells us more about ourselves and the way our minds work than any underlying truth or reality.
 
Riddick said:
You're referring to church groups or jrefers?
Have you had a problem with jrefers trying to control you? Encouraging people to use more critical thinking and pointing out logical flaws isn't controlling. And seeing how this is an internet forum, everyone is free to come and go as they please.

I'm most interested in how that was the only part of my post you found worth commenting on.
 
Farmermike
I think an appreciation of the tenuous nature of our existance, helps to focus our attention inward and upward.
Instead of focusing on what we can actually do to help others let’s worry about ourselves.

I don't have the statistics handy but at that base, "superstitious" level, the large majority of human beings believe in God.
At the base ‘superstitious’ level they also believed the world was flat.

I think that says something about our hardwiring- that when bereft of our gadgets we are aware of something beyond ourselves. "He has set eternity in our hearts."
Again, I’ll repeat myself.
What a condescending statement.
To paraphrase: I’m right because I believe this way and so do you, even if you say you don’t.
Oh, and incorrect to boot.

Ossai
 
farmermike said:

I would agree that any of the mainstream religions are better than nothing but I contend that Christianity/the Bible is really on a different plain.
And you can't understand that this is because you happened to have been born in the USA instead of China?

Do you understand, that of the billions of people who are alive or have ever lived, only a tiny fraction have ever heard of Christianity?

Enjoy your Pringles.
 
Ossai said:
Farmermike
Instead of focusing on what we can actually do to help others let’s worry about ourselves.
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Karen
I believe that upward focus pushes me to outward action. You can't fault Christianity for ignoring the plight of the underprivileged.

Diogenes
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I believe South Korea has the highest proportion of Christians worldwide. Those green (now white) rolling hills of ours are in Quebec, where something like .0001 percent of the population is evangelical Christian. I get your point though.
You're responsible for what you know. At the risk of offending Ossai, I think it was C.S. Lewis who said something like; we know that no one is saved except through Jesus Christ. What do not know, is that only those who know Him are saved through Him."

Ossai
 
farmermike said:
At the risk of offending Ossai, I think it was C.S. Lewis who said something like; we know that no one is saved except through Jesus Christ. What do not know, is that only those who know Him are saved through Him."

Hunh? Proof?

And why do you think you need to be saved?

Of all the various oddities of religions, the whole 'You must be saved' idea is the one that least makes sense to me.

I say any deity who puts out a product that stinks so badly should be smacked in the head by all the other deities at their next millenium conference.
 
bluess said:
Hunh? Proof?

Karen
It's in the Christmas Pudding....
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And why do you think you need to be saved?

Of all the various oddities of religions, the whole 'You must be saved' idea is the one that least makes sense to me.

I say any deity who puts out a product that stinks so badly should be smacked in the head by all the other deities at their next millenium conference.

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Good one.
To quote myself, "We tend not to like the solution(to our impotence) because it positions us in a place of need." Honestly, Christianity at its best, is less a religion, than a personal, soul-to-soul, relationship between "unequals". Aroma therapy.
 

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