Upchurch said:I don't think I understand what you are trying to say.
Like Lurker, I don't know anything about Terry, but Cheney and Keyes both made national news and talked to reporters about their sexual orientation. I don't think they had any expectations of privacy or secrecy about their being gay. It really could have only reasonably been new information to those people who hasn't been paying attention to the news. (which begs the question: why were they reading that op/ed?)
If it wasn't "lying" it was at least "deliberate misrepresentation" (if there is a difference between the two).
BPSCG said:Whatever happened to don't ask, don't tell...?
DaChew said:A person who affirms to a reporter that they are gay is outing themsleves but that is obviously not the same as a reporter using that fact in an Op/Ed of the NYT.
Everything is Clinton's fault.DaChew said:Oh, so now it's Clinton's fault.![]()
BPSCG said:Whatever happened to don't ask, don't tell...?
It is fodder for public debate if being gay is in direct opposition to your public figure's political position and you make public announcements to reporters of the fact that you are gay. Especially considering Alan Keyes rather desparaging remarks concerning homosexuals (and assuming he is still planning on trying to be a congressman at some point), it is probably important for his constituants to know what is more important to him: his family or his anti-gay agenda.BPSCG said:So, how is this supposed to work? Staying in the closet is somehow shameful, but if you come out and you're related to a public figure, you become fodder for public debate?
The lesson I hope these politicians would draw is that making discriminitory policies against and uninformed comments about homosexuality is both hurtful and harmful to real people, including people they care about.What's the lesson we're supposed to draw? If you're a conservative public figure, don't have a gay child? That's helpful.
Hopefully, the same thing that happened to "seperate, but equal".Whatever happened to don't ask, don't tell...?
But, but, but... "don't ask, don't tell" was a Democrat's idea! Are you saying Bill Clinton thought homosexuality was something to be ashamed of?TragicMonkey said:"Don't ask, don't tell" hinges on the supposition that homosexuality is something to be ashamed of.
Does it being in one section of the paper differ from being in another section of the paper? Savage is obviously being sympathetic to these people. Is that better or worse than the way Coulter used the fact in her Op/Ed?DaChew said:A person who affirms to a reporter that they are gay is outing themsleves but that is obviously not the same as a reporter using that fact in an Op/Ed of the NYT.
Which was actually a step up from "if you're gay, you're out of the military." I don't think Clinton was saying homosexuality was something to be ashamed of. I think he was saying that it wasn't relevent to military service, but wouldn't be able to convince soldiers of that.BPSCG said:But, but, but... "don't ask, don't tell" was a Democrat's idea! Are you saying Bill Clinton thought homosexuality was something to be ashamed of?
BPSCG said:But, but, but... "don't ask, don't tell" was a Democrat's idea! Are you saying Bill Clinton thought homosexuality was something to be ashamed of?
I get so confused...
Ladewig said:Obviously not the same? If those are not the same, then what do you expect a reporter to do with that information?
BPSCG said:But, but, but... "don't ask, don't tell" was a Democrat's idea! Are you saying Bill Clinton thought homosexuality was something to be ashamed of?
I get so confused...
BPSCG said:So, how is this supposed to work? Staying in the closet is somehow shameful, but if you come out and you're related to a public figure, you become fodder for public debate?
What's the lesson we're supposed to draw? If you're a conservative public figure, don't have a gay child? That's helpful.
Whatever happened to don't ask, don't tell...?
Upchurch said:Does it being in one section of the paper differ from being in another section of the paper? Savage is obviously being sympathetic to these people. Is that better or worse than the way Coulter used the fact in her Op/Ed?
Yes, I do.DaChew said:Yes. Savage wrote an Op/Ed using the fact that certain people had gay relatives to make a political point. You don't believe that Savage had sympathy in mind when he wrote the article do you?
But there was one bright spot this week. On Monday, Maya Keyes, the daughter of Alan Keyes, officially declared herself a lesbian at a gay rights rally in Annapolis, Md. It was a bit of good news for gays and lesbians, particularly those who are connoisseurs of schadenfreude. Or was it?
Sadly for Maya Keyes, her father apparently has more affection for his ideology than for his daughter.
If we don't want the same fate to befall us - and I don't - then it's only prudent for us not to take too much pleasure in the plight of Alan Keyes. The next time someone like Maya Keyes comes tumbling out of the closet, we should all try to be gracious and not succumb to our baser instincts. Because one day it's going to be our turn.
Upchurch said:Yes, I do.
The article's title is "The Gay Child Left Behind". Note that Savage identifies with the gay relatives:
Read the article. Note that the conclusion of the piece is that this sort of thing should not be taken advantage of:
SO far 2005 hasn't been a very good year for gays and lesbians. Secretary of Education Margaret Spellings slammed Buster, an animated rabbit, for visiting a Vermont girl with same-sex parents; President Bush renewed his call for an anti-gay amendment to the Constitution; and a deadly new strain of H.I.V. has surfaced.
But for gays and lesbians there's something particularly satisfying about watching a prominent antigay conservative learn that his or her own child is homosexual. It smacks of cosmic retribution:
I live in Seattle with my partner and son. Preventing us from marrying harms my child and does nothing to protect Jeff Kemp's. So in my darker moments I find myself hoping that one day Mr. Kemp will, like Randall Terry or Alan Keyes, find himself listening to one of his children explain that he is gay.
I left out portions that weren't relevent. I didn't say it wasn't political. I said it was sympathetic to the three people mentioned. Frankly, I think it is sympathetic to gays, in general. Savage is gay himself, remember. He is speaking from a gay man's perspective. When he says that so far it "hasn't been a very good year for gays and lesbians", he is speaking as a gay man. He is not saying it in the same way as Coulter does when she says, "It's been a tough year for Democrats."DaChew said:Why'd you leave out the intro.:
Can't see anything political there?
The part you quoted is not Savage's position. The thought is continued later:Sympathetic is it?But for gays and lesbians there's something particularly satisfying about watching a prominent antigay conservative learn that his or her own child is homosexual. It smacks of cosmic retribution:
He identifies with the children, DaChew, but he understands the parents' position as well.But I can't enjoy this news about Maya Keyes as much as most gays and lesbians. As a parent, you see, I feel Alan Keyes's pain - and Randall Terry's too. I can empathize with their desire not to see their children grow up to be one of us because I live in mortal fear of my child growing up to be one of them.
Finish it out:So in my darker moments I find myself hoping that one day Mr. Kemp will, like Randall Terry or Alan Keyes, find himself listening to one of his children explain that he is gay.
Yet my better angels won't let me wish a gay child on anyone for fear of setting myself up for the gay-parent brand of cosmic retribution that Mr. Keyes brought down on his own head.
Coulter said something that was factually untrue. I don't see how you could not understand how it is lying.In any event, I'm still failing to understand how it is that Coulter could be considered to have lied in her column.
DaChew said:In any event, I'm still failing to understand how it is that Coulter could be considered to have lied in her column.
Coulter -
Two weeks ago, the New York Times turned over half of its op-ed page to outing gays with some connection to Republicans. There is no principled or intellectual basis for these outings.