Does it bother you at all that a 13 year-old is generally biologically incapable of exercising good judgment? The judgment centers of the brain are the very last to undergo myelination. Before that, nerve impulses are substantially slower and less efficient.
The brain is not fully myelinated until late adolescence to young adulthood. The is about the age when, in the US, adults are legally allowed to have sex with each other.
Otherwise, it seems like you're saying that a person with good judgment should be able to have sex with a person who, if they were an adult, would be considered to be seriously brain damaged (see demyelination) because the brain damaged person claims to want to.
This is very signifcant.
That's genius. Let's turn every statutory rape case in the country into a trial of the victim. Get her up on the stand and really let the guy's defense attorney go after her - how many sexual partners she's had, their names and ages, the age she was when she lost her virginity, whether she knows the definition of a Pittsburgh Plate Job, whether she has a favorite position, whether she uses protection, whether she's ever been on the pill, whether she's ever carried a condom to a party, whether she's ever kissed a girl and whether she liked it ...
I see a huge upsurge in the total number of statutory rape cases dropped when the victim kills herself the night before opening arguments. Other than that, it may not have much of an effect.
What about aggressive rape as well. Will it not create a problem with determining what "consent" actually means if we don't draw some boundaries that are carved in stone.
I just pointd out that human rights is a concept that loses its moral and philosophical foundation quite strangely if you just draw an imaginary line somewhere, without actual biological reasons, to drop some humans outside of the said rights. In this case, you would drop persons under 18 or 16 outside of the rights, while the biology of humans (and many other mammals too) suggests that creatures become independent long earlier in their development towards adulthood. Which is a never ending process by the way, 30-year olds are fuller adults, more complete in their adult development, than 20-year olds.
I suppose I have a unique perspective on this topic. I was raped (forcefully not statuatory) at the age of 14. At the time I was very confused if I had "asked for it" in a way by putting myself in a bad situation.
When I turned 18 I actually worked as an escort for a while, thinking I was in some way "taking my power back." I also thought the idea that you couldn't pay someone for sex was stupid if it was between two consenting individuals. At the time I thought I was quite clear about it. My arrest brought that to an end. At the time, I didn't necessarily agree that it was a crime, but in the end I realize it was for a few reasons.
One is that in the US (I can only speak for east coast) young women are sexualized younger and younger. Any young teen knows her sexuality could be a tool if she wanted it to be. And this tool like the three thousand pound car can have life threatening consequences. For example at the time I worked as an escort, AIDS was flying through the country. I was aware of AiDS and other STDs but because my brain wasn't really completely developed I never took it seriously. I could have infected many people without thinking. I am very lucky I never contracted any sort of disease. Really lucky looking back.
In addition I now realize how being an escort was a reaction to my first foray into sex and having it be violent and out of my control. Therefor I attempted to sort of "rewrite the script."
I don't consider myself a victim, more of a "ship happens, learn to deal" kind of person. At the same time I do recognize that I had no real idea of what I was doing or why. That was at 18. And some may argue that the rape caused me to oversexualize or create neuroses about the issue.
However I'd always been a very mature teen and also looked much older than my age. I wasn't some simpering teen. I was pretty strong willed and generally more self aware and intelligent than my peers. That still doesn't mean that I knew what I was doing as an escort.
The two issues that are sort of being dodged here are basic realities.
Young women are encouraged to be sexual by the media and the cultural attitudes.
The second issue is that men in society are rarely expected to take responsibility for their sexual behaviors. The only area we see this come to a full stop is statuatory rape, which at times I agree seems terribly unfair to the guy. For a long time I thought most statuatory rape charges or date rape charges were an unfair thing for guys to have to deal with. Case in point date rape: You and your girlfriend are both drunk. She consents and changes her mind, you are hit with a rape charge.
However I've come to realize that this is a necessary balancing act. Simply put, girls get pregnant. A girl who is not responsible with who she chooses to have sex with can and often is left with an unwanted pregnancy.
The reality of that causes major problems for both men and women. The pregnancy is a huge complication. The idea of having to pay for an unwanted child until the age of 18 is daunting to a lot of guys.
Sex is often impulsive. Society pays a price for these types of issues. Especially since it can often result in children on welfare.
Therefor the society has a right to draw parameters around sexual behavior by determining an age of consent that should act as a legal guideline.
Many people ignore these guidelines. However if it comes to consequence the individual has no leg to stand on. So in this way it becomes a deterrent.
The age of consent should be determined by society rather than idividuals when it stands to reason that society will pay for the consequences of sexual behavior.
IMHO