It is OK to do whatever you want - who are you trying to impress with your tolerance? And why? You think they'll like you better if you accept every stupid notion and display your desperate urge to love everyone, no matter their behavior? Anyone who likes you for THAT is a flake.
Take the heat, and stop wanting people to like you. They never will. Who cares? You are talking like a girl! Nobody respects girlie men except other wusses and people who feel sorry for you. Don't be fooled by such sympathy- they are secretly patronizing you and think you're pathetic. Then, all the straight couples will go home and screw in the kitchen, thinking they've done a good deed by sticking up for queers for half-a-second. "Tolerant", my @ss, they hate gays. Everyone does, because they are annoying.
In a normal country, you'd be properly shunned for wasting time worring over stupid crap. But this is America, where bubbles of introspection and idle fantasy are insulated by the blood and hard labor of those who can't afford NOT to work. If you had any real responsibility other than self-amusement and socializing, then you'd understand. But your unfocused goals - or complete lack of them - allows you to spend time accusing the world of hating gays and athiests.
Why those two groups soooo want to be loved is a mystery. I think they are selfish.
