That is such rank BS. As one who actively participates in Draw Mohammad day I can say that Obama's words do not at all constitute "blame America" attitude.
Randfan, you know (assuming you haven't completely gone off the deep end into irrationality) that participating in Draw Mohammed Day doesn't entitle you to any special authority on this matter.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a president calling for respect of other cultures and beliefs.
Context is everything. In the context of discussing these specific attacks, yes, it can be seen as a problem. If my son was killed by someone, I don't want a public figure to comment on the event by saying "We condemn the killer of his poor boy -- of course we should always remember that lots of murderers come from disavdantaged backgrounds which leave them little opportunity outside crime to find ways to support their families." Even if true, poverty doesn't diminish the guilt of those who killed my son
Obama's Rose Garden speech was specifically discussing the tragic deaths of the four Americans, including the Ambassador to Libya. In that context, saying things like "we condemn any attempt to be insensitive to religion", even if true, in context is saying that insensitivity is to blame in part for these people's deaths and to absolve, in part, the actual murderers. Particularly since at the time of the statement, the American government still hadn't determined whether the cultural insensitivity (i.e., the YouTube video) had even been a motivating factor -- and the government subsequently determined it did not.
Yes, it's a President's job to be diplomatic, not only to foreign powers, but to your constituents. I can totally see the argument that Obama's statement are insensitive in a way that reveals a reflex in his Administration to seek to diminish the culpability of the wrongdoers by pointing some blame back at America.
You poo-poo this as "rank BS" at your peril.