I was just intrigued, in the way you surmise, by that post coming from someone who has been posting very negatively on the thread on the Scottish referendum.
Okay.
Indeed we are getting our referendum, so the parallel isn't exact. Much of the rest of it is though. We were dragged kicking and screaming into a political union the public never gave their consent to. There is a strong body of opinion that recognises this relationship is unequal, one-sided, and has run its course.
I just find it paradoxical that the same thing is said about the EU by someone who has nothing but contempt for Scotland's constitutional debate.
I don't think the situation is particularly parallel, for various reasons...
Scotland has been part of the UK for some centuries. Britain joined the EU within living memory.
The UK has always been a political union. Scotland didn't join thinking it was something else and then have it morph over time.
Since Scotland became part of the UK, the country has evolved from an authoritarian government to a much more egalitarian and democratic one. Scotland has had a voice in that democratization, much as England and Wales has. Rather more of a voice than it should have given it's population, actually. And over recent decades it's also gained more and more local control, as has Wales (though oddly, not England). The EU shows no signs of doing anything like that.
So it really doesn't seem a particularly comparable situation to me, except in the most superficial of ways.
As for my opinion of the Scottish referendum, I've certainly said that I don't think the Scots should vote for independence. And I've certainly said that if they do, they really can't complain if they are
treated as a foreign country - rather than whining with imagined victimhood when it's suggested that the rest of the world might not comport itself for their convenience. But I don't believe I've ever opined that there shouldn't be a referendum.
Nor, incidentally, have I suggested that the UK should leave the EU in this thread. Merely that they should have the chance to vote on it, just as the Scots are voting on the UK.
I hope we can get out of this damaging incorporating union so that we can make our own arrangements with the EU (that is, negotiate continuing membership on confederal terms) in time to avoid being dragged out by the sheer numbers of Daily Mail addled English votes.
Yes, I'm sure you do. Lots of luck with that.