As a general statement, if I am the subject of something I find offensive, I will respond or report it myself. I expect the same level of maturity and responsibility from others. I don't pull the "Internet White Knight" routine unless the person being criticized or attacked indicates they want some backup.
Frankly, I consider it an archaic artifact of western sexism to automatically come to a woman's defense just because you perceive her as being attacked. It's even more sexist when has repeatedly demonstrated that she's capable of defending herself or is not even concerned with the criticism being levied her way.
To bring this back to the topic at hand, I'd like to know more about the role of women culturally among LDS Mormons. Jan is clearly capable of defending herself when she wants to. Is this normal among LDS women? Is it encouraged? Italian culture has a hypocritical dichotomy where women are often culturally denigrated despite many homes being ruled by a strong woman. Does this dynamic exist among LDS Mormons, or are strong women generally problematic for the faith? Since
LDS women wearing pants to church is newsworthy I'm inclined to suspect strong women are discouraged.
Is Sky's rushing to her defense in any way influenced by Mormon attitudes about women? Is his apparent perception that she needs rescuing entirely based upon American ideas of the "maiden in distress" or does his LDS faith enhance that attitude?
Cat, Was there something about Mormon men that lead you to marry a non-Mormon?