Squeegee Beckenheim
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Okay, so you think the delivery person was reasonably mistaken about the nature of the encounter because your friend didn't intend to be racist, right?
I said that I wouldn't call the delivery guy unreasonable, not that I thought his mistake was reasonable. There's a middle ground between the two, and also a huge gulf into which "I have no idea what the delivery guy has experienced in his life in order to make him jump to that conclusion" falls, the existence of which makes any determination of reasonableness or lack thereof dodgy at best.
I'm having trouble working out what logic you're applying to make the first half of that sentence connect to the second half. The way you've written it means that it would logically follow that had my friend intended to be racist, then the delivery guy's mistake would be unreasonable. I don't see how that even makes sense, let alone recognise it as an opinion that I hold.
My point is that your friend's intent doesn't define the delivery persons experience.
Indeed not. That's why I explicitly said as much.
You can't look to your friend's purported intent and conclude that race didn't affect the interaction.
I've not even so much as implied that it didn't. Given that the entire story is about race affecting the interaction, I have no idea how you could have come to the conclusion that I thought that it didn't.
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